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    Okay, so here's the story- I'm 5'0", weigh in at about 100 lbs, give or take, 34D boobs with nice neat nips, 38-25-36, generally pretty shapely, pretty face- born for stripping, right? Alas, yes, born for stripping, but born too early... I was a WAY preemie baby, and had to have some surgery on my abdomen to, y'know, live. Aaaaanyway, I was wondering if y'all had some suggestions to either cover it up, or a rallying cry to just let it all hang out. It's maybe 6 inches long, and just about a half inch above my navel (which is pulled slightly off center, and looks like I have a clitoris on my stomach. Annoying, you'll see what I mean.) The scar is pretty deep, I had scar reduction surgery in 5th grade, but that was medical (scar tissue was pulling on my stomach muscles, so if I bent wrong it was instant, blinding pain), and it doesn't seem to have done much for me cosmetically...
    Sorry for the long post, thought backstory might be helpful. Can't afford plastic surgery atm, so I was wondering if you ladies had some helpful hints on coverups? This damn thing is honest to God, the only thing keeping me from being totally happy with my body, and it's right out there on my tummy, dammit. I'm not sure what to do with it for audition/work. Thanks again!
    [IMG]file:///Users/Katya/Desktop/Photo%2010.jpg[/IMG] me leaning back, not so bad
    me doing anything other than leaning back and it dents. *sigh*

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    Okay, so that whole image thing didn't work out so well... maybe it's just my compie? Anyway, here are the links:
    http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/inde...mageID=6517305
    me leaning back
    http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/inde...mageID=6517313
    me not leaning back
    I'd appreciate any help you guys could give me!

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    I couldn't view your pictures, but I can relate. I have a surgical scar that runs from just below my breastbone to just above my navel. The scar is only two years old, and still kinda red and angry-looking. It also has two lines of "dots" on either side, where the staples held the wound together. I used to be very self-conscious about it and wore cupless corsets to cover up my whole abdomen while dancing. Customers in VIPs would ask me to take my corset off, and I'd tell them about my scar, and they never minded. Eventually, I just started wearing normal outfits and letting the scar show. At first, every customer asked how I got it. Oddly enough, no one asks about it anymore, though.

    But yeah, I never had any problem with the scar. A lot of guys even say they like it. So don't let it keep you from dancing. Most guys don't expect you to be perfect, an d it's dark in most clubs, anyway.

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    hmmm.. I really think the the dark club lighting, it will be hard to see.. like a crease on your tummy from sitting or something, you know? It's amazing what those lights hide..

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    You guys think? Really? Really really really? Man, if I could do that, think of all the cute outfits I could wear... *big wide kid-in-a-toy-store eyes* Think of the sequins! And I wouldn't have to drop $300 on a hiplet corset every time I wanted a new outfit! Or wear belly chains cinched up in weird positions... Okay, *deep breath* we'll see how the consensus goes. Thanks again, you guys!

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    Honestly, I don't think it's that bad. Yes, it's a bit noticable, but nobody is perfect. It's better than a lot of problems I've seen... I say go for it!!
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    Well, if you're comfortable with it, it's fine. But how you feel is my #1 concern.... I'm too self conscious, I'd need to cover it up. But I bet it wouldn't hurt your $$ much either way.

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    I had a big deep scar too, and like Lola Rose I am very self-conscious. So I just glued rhinestones on it and make a design out of it and everybody think it's cute

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    Man the guys are so not gonna care with fantastic boobies in thier face And you know it will draw attention...just use that as an in to start charming thier wallets off.
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    Oooo... I never thought of the rhinestones idea... I'm pretty comfortable with it, unless of course I let my blood sugar dip too low, and then it becomes the Worst Thing That Ever Happened, Ever, Like Seriously (tm), but that happens only when I let the internet suck me in for days at a time. Besides, I've always figured if some guy is looking at my scar, I'm not wearing a shirt with a low enough collar.
    Man, you guys are awesome! Thanks again.

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    ^you can do it, just be confident...guys don't come to stip club for a scar... it's all about you and the boobies

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    You can always wear a sheer baby doll nightie when you're starting out. Even a thin layer of see thru fabric will make it less noticeable. Then as you build your confidence work your way up to skimpier outfits.

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    Try a waist cincher, like these ones from trashy.com (esp love the pink one):



    Or better yet, get Guenevere to make you one!!

    Don't try to distract the eye with belly chains or anyhing that doesn't completely cover it. It will only draw more attention to it.

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    i wouldnt worry about it ive loads of scars on my legs no ones ever menchaned it.in clubs its too dark anyway.

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    I wouldn't worry about it. You could hide it if it you think it will affect your money or if you get tired of rude people trying to talk to you about it (of course, you could always make up a cool story about it... like, it was a motorcycle accident). Try a few weeks not covering it and a few weeks covering it. Personally, I think guys would rather see more skin (aka, not covered up).
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    That's what all my male friends said... I recruited them all to watch me try on potential audition outfits, with and without corset, waist chains, etc. It was pretty much unanimous that more skin= better. I know it was hard on them, I'll always remember their sacrifices... *sheds a tear*

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    I have one just like yours on my stomach 2 inches above my navel. It is about 4 inches across and about half a centimeter wide. When I saw your post I was glad to know that someone else knows what its like to have a big scar on their stomach too.

    But heres the thing: TRUST ME on this. It doesnt matter. I have been working at my club for over a year and have only had one guy notice it in all that time. When I mention it to other girls in the club tghey say "what? I never even knew you had one there" So what i'm trying to tell you is that club lighting is a godsend. In the dark club lihting no one will notice or even care as long as they get to see your beautiful naked body.

    Plus I always win in the "who has the gnarliest scar" contest otc!!


    So what is the deal with your scar though. what was the reason for the surgery in the first place?? you can pm me if you wanna share scar stories

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    Warning: Long, and rather graphic about medical procedures.
    Good to know I'm not the only one with a tummy scar, too! As far as the story behind the scar goes, my mom's mom took some fertility drug in the '50's that made my mom's pregnancy really high risk, not to mention she was 35, so she was on bedrest for most of it. She got really hormonal one day, and "went grocery shopping", and in the process of tossing cans into the cart, managed to give herself an 80% abruption (4/5ths of the uterine lining tore away from the uterus, so I was only getting a fifth of the blood I needed). Because of this (nobody figured it out til a while later) my body concentrated on growing brain, lungs, heart, etc. This turned out to be a good thing. At 7 months, I went into distress, and didn't come back up. My mom was given the options of "Leave her in, and she dies, no questions. Take her out now, and she's got a 50-50 chance."
    One emergency c-section later, there I was, blue and very dead. They revived me, and I had a hole in my intestine that hadn't grown together, since resources were going elsewhere. They did a series of surgeries to fix it, and on a 2lb, 2 oz baby, the incision is rather large, no matter what. I've got a few minor scars elsewhere from (nifty, I think) stuff like shunts and ports and tubes pumping medical grade crack into my heart to keep it going, but they're not noticeable, really. Anyway, between the touch and go nature of the whole thing and one accidental overdose of morphine by a drunken nurse (no joke!), I've been dead 5 times! Plus I was born with my eyes open, so I'm a zombie with the evil eye- y'all better watch out!
    I usually win the gnarly scar contests too! I think teh only one I lost was to the guy who snapped his elbow after doing an unplanned gymnastics move over the handlebars of his motorcycle- he still had 3 oz of titanium in his arm. He won that round, hands down.
    Wow, I ramble a LOT.... sorry so long, guys!
    PS- We should totally have a gnarly scar contest on SW...

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    You know what, I have a decent size scar on the upper part of my leg from a dog bite, and when I go out to clubs or wear short skirts/shorts, I just wear fishnets. Of course its still noticeable, but I think since you have that whole pattern going up and down your legs, it blends in w/the skin. I looked @ ur pic though, and honestly I dont see how anybody can tell! Especially if you're in a dimlit environment! I dont think you have a problem =)

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