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    So this is the #1 reason my husband doesn't really want me to return to the industry. He had to come pick me up from CHII one night after I'd only had 3 drinks. I felt totally wasted, but would normally not feel that way until 6-7 drinks. I'd been in vip w/ a customer, drinking champagne and a shot of Goldshlager. I don't remember much after calling him to pick me up. I said things I don't remember (being a total bitch) to him. I even left part of an outfit in the dressing room. I remember nothing after getting in the car. I remember walking through the parking lot to the car, and that was the end of me. He's worried I could have left with just anyone. I assured him I'm safe, and that staff wouldn't let me leave with a patron even if I wanted to. I slept like a rock and felt horrible the next day. The only thing I can think of is that I was Mickied. Anyone else experience this?
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    I did, but not at work. There was some 'party on the patio' at some local restaurant chain, and in the summer they have a band play every wednesday..it's a big event, lots of drinking, lots of music, lots of dancing. Anyways, I was with a roommate and some friends. We told the bartender that we were celebrating something (what, I don't recall) and he told us that he knew just what to do. Neither of us had more than 3 drinks, and we were plastered. We don't even remember how we got home, but all we can assume is they put something in our drink. And I wouldn't think a bartender would be the one to this, but I guess they thought it would make this extra fun for us... it was crazy.
    No one else who was with us felt the same, and we went out all the time so we knew what a few drinks should feel like. All our friends assumed we came up with some stupid conspiracy, but there was no reason for us to be so wasted.

    Anyways, if you do go back to work, make sure to watch your drink at all times. Don't sit it down near the customer, put it where they can't reach it unless you're able to see it. And take it with you to the bathroom and stuff...or better yet, make him buy you a new one every time you come back.. BE CAREFUL, getting drugged is such a scary, dangerous thing!!

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    Nope, I am BEYOND vigilant. I used to live on the Gold Coast in Australia, where drink spiking is rampant, and I got into the habit of being really obsessive about maintaining the integrity of my drinks. I'm like Mad-Eye Moody in the Harry Potter books.

    If you never want this to happen again... watch the bartender closely as he makes your drinks. Never take your eyes off your drink. If you're in a crowded venue, order something like beer, that's in a bottle with a narrow opening, and keep your thumb over the opening when you're not drinking. Never let it leave your hand. If you put your drink down and look away from it for more than one second, don't drink any more of it.

    Might sound paranoid, but in this day and age, paranoia pays.

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    I've been drugged twice..both times at work. I dont remember much of either experience and thankfully I had friends around me both times to take care of me. Def. watch from now on..never leave your drink unattended, never accept a drink you didn see the bartender or waitress hand over and keep your hand over the top of the glass when you arent drinking it.

    Worst thing...the first time..it was a cop that drugged me.

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    Uh... sounds like the combination of Goldshlager and champagne to me. I mean, you kinda picked the two most in your face drunkard alcohols ever and mixed them.

    Pretty much all girls I know that are spiked act much worse than that.


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    ^ I agree, especially cause drinks made in bars often tend to be larger than the technical "portion" that one drink is supposed to be. I mean, a serving of champagne is what, only 4-6 oz or something like that? I've seen girls running around with much more than that in their glasses. Maybe you drank more than you thought you did.

    But, you still coulda been roofied. I believe you can have a test at the hospital to determine if you were, if it hasn't been too long since it happened.

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    eeep! regardless, it's scary to not remember things the next day!

    Love it!

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    I always keep a close watch on my drink in any bar. I knew someone who overdosed and died from choryl hydrate. Not a good way to go.

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    I am so paranoid about my drink. I was drugged at 18, when I was bartending. Being a stupid kid, I just left my apple martini sitting on the bar as I ran all over and made drinks. (this was in a lounge-y night club.)

    All of a sudden, I was rolling my balls off. Thank God I had rolled before, or I would have REALLY freaked out. I still don't know who did this or why, I mean, how the hell would you get the BARTENDER out of the bar without anyone noticing? Thankfully I had a friend at work with me, my boss was concerned and let me go home. I stayed up til it wore off.

    It really traumatized me because somebody can kill you by putting too much shit in your drink. They're all freaked out and trying to do it quickly, it's not like they are worried about using a safe amount.

    So, I have some tricks... (Number 6 is really important)

    1. Always have your hand over your drink. Make it a manerism to constantly be stirring or bending the straw in your drink.

    2. If you are giving a dance, you can not watch your drink. Drink your drink before doing the dance. This is tricky in VIP when you're up and dancing all the time. If you can, find a location that nobody can get to while you are dancing, ie behind a couch or something. I seriously do this.

    3. As for sharing champagne, another doosie. Now you're trusting what comes out of a bottle that the custie has access to. I've personally known two girls who had been drugged by a custie putting something in the bottle of champagne, probably ground up pain killers. The customers won't be alarmed or weirded out by getting fucked up if they know what they're getting, and they are bigger than you so can handle it better. I like to ask the waitress to put the champagne by me and I pour it for the guy if we need refills before she comes back. They like it, they think I'm waiting on them.

    4. If you are in a situation where you feel it will be hard to watch your drink, just do shots. Take them as soon as they are given to you, never letting them leave your hand until you drink them. Shots are the easiest thing for a guy to roofie because you are drinking it all at once...make sure you get it DIRECTLY from the waitress, have her put it in your hand and don't let it hit the table til you drank it.

    5. Just because you are holding a drink doesn't mean somebody can't roofie it if you're not looking at it. That's why I hold my drinks in my lap. Specifically, I set them next to my leg (resting on the chair like my leg is) and keep my hand over it.

    6. THE DUMP. If anything makes you feel suspicous about a drink, or you realize you were not watching it, don't be afraid to use THE DUMP. Set your drink on the table and "accidently" knock it over with your arm or purse. I have used this more than once. Who cares if they know you did it on purpose? It's better than getting poisoned, ya know?

    Hope those tips helped. I know I sound anal, but I know so many people who have been drugged. Also, you should follow these rules in a bar too.
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    Yeah, it's really sad that you have to be so cautious of people in this way. Freaks
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    I got drugged at a club earlier this year, and I know who did it, too. I went to the ER because I started feeling like I was drunk, and I don't drink. I had been given GHB, and all I remember is crying into the phone that I wanted somebody to come take care of me. (I was at a club booking 13 hours from home.) I was sick for days afterward, though. That shit kicked the hell out of me. I honestly hate people that drug girls.

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    I got it once at a bar and I was with my Sister in law and coworkers so all I remember was saying "can we go now I don't feel well" and I hit the floor. My brother showed up at the hospital and I remeber my sister in law crying and my brother yelling at her.

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    ive been spiked twice
    Dea has been spiked once that we know of.

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