So I was watching this courtroom show and there was a case of this gay male couple who had differences in thier relationship.
I didn't get the men's names so i'll make them up. The accountant(Greg) and his BF(Chris).
Ok Chris was complaining about the lack of PDA. LOL. He felt as if him and his bf should NOT hide the fact that they are two ppl in love. "It's 2007, we're gay accept it ppl." But Greg feels that in certain places they shouldn't display affection. Like in his family reunion for example. He has an 8 year old niece and a 12 year old nephew there who don't know about his uncle's sexuality yet. Until thier mother(Greg's sister) is ready, comfortable enough to explain it to the children. That's understandable too...and IMO at any family function(no matter what your sexual preference is). I mean if they do NOT want PDA there, fine.
But Chris has this attitude that it shouldn't matter, it should be shown EVERY WHERE.
Now at work, everyone know's about Greg's sexuality. So his co. threw a party and didn't invite his bf Chris for whatever reason(Greg said bc he knows how Chris is). And he was also invited for a wedding and didn't invite Chris over. Chris gets offended yet again. lol.
These two met at a gay city in California(forgot the name). In that town Greg is OK with PDA. But in other towns he said where it's more conservative and unaccepting of gays, he will NOT show PDA with Chris. Again, Chris gets a hissy fit and gets offended. lol.
So the judge asks Greg this, "Greg, if you were straight and dated a black woman, would you not hold her hand in a town where bi-racial couples were accepted?" Greg answers, "Honestly, no." So apparently Greg cares what other ppl think.![]()
So what do you all think of this situation, is Greg ashamed of his sexuality and isn't proud of it like Chris is? Or is he right to hold out on PDA in certain places?
Do you think Chris is a needy, insecure person? The judge said he was needy and insecure. LOL, Chris got offended....again.
See, I can kind of relate to Chris. I, myself am BIG on PDA. But it's bc i'm the affection/sexual bitch that I am, I can't help it i'm a hornball.Not bc of insecurity... needy, I don't think so either.
I sometimes don't even notice it when I do it. I remember when I first started dating my ex. he told me that in certain places(like around his family, or ppl of his culture) I had to chill out with PDA, and that in other places it was ok. Around family I understand 110%. At first, I didn't get it either and I got a little offended...but at the end I got the point and was ok with it too.
See I can be a little kissy kissy(no tongue) and huggy huggy(no humpin'ish ish) around my family(as long as it's PG rated of course, nothing sexually crazy), that kind of PDA doesn't offend my family. It's different in the Latino culture... I guess.
What are your thoughts ppl?![]()



Not bc of insecurity... needy, I don't think so either.
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