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    hello,

    I am in need of advice. I am very new to this whole dancing thing, but seem to be catching it pretty well. I have a great way of convincing men that I am actually into them... not their money. However I am running into a frequent problem with customers. Often they want my number, I explain that its against the rules of the club to exchange my number and tell them I would be happy to take theirs. I get the,"no ones looking." and the, " I'm good a memorizing... tell it to me and I will memorize it." It is becoming more and more difficult for me to say no. I am afraid if I tell them, esepically a regular of mine that its a job and I am not interested in them that it will result in my regular leaving and blow my excellent way of making them think i am interested.

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    i just wrote something about this here:
    post number 41:
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...t=86570&page=2
    that should help!

    Love it!

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    Give them the club's number Or if it's someone you want to keep as a regular, you might consider investing in a cheap pay-as-you-go phone (get this kind because you can pay with cash and register it under another name so they can't trace it to you). You can give your regulars that number and just leave the phone off so it goes to voicemail. Then before you go to work, check messages and call back saying you're going to work later on and will be there during ___ hours. Then turn the phone off again. If they want to see you, they'll have to go back to the club. Keep doing that, and if they start asking for dates, they can just call your phone and leave a message - and you'll just keep calling when you're going to work You could mix it up a bit too - sometimes call the day before you're going to work, sometimes call the same day. Keep chat brief and flirty, and sound busy so you can't talk long.

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    I created a myspace page for my dancer persona. I just tell regs that I check it way more than my phone anyway, and that's how I keep in touch with them. If people are persistent about getting a number, I just tell them "867-5309" then giggle. and make an excuse to change the subject or leave their table.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hearts View Post
    I created a myspace page for my dancer persona. I just tell regs that I check it way more than my phone anyway, and that's how I keep in touch with them. If people are persistent about getting a number, I just tell them "867-5309" then giggle. and make an excuse to change the subject or leave their table.
    Ha ha, I used to give out this number too! Or if they were a total jerk the rejection hotline number!

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    Default Re: in need of advice

    What's 867-5309? Is it some recording or some weird company number?

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    What's 867-5309? Is it some recording or some weird company number?
    80's lyrics

    TOMMY TUTONE

    Jenny (867-5309)


    Jenny Jenny who can I turn to
    You give me something I can hold on to
    I know you'll think I'm like the others before
    Who saw your name and number on the wall


    Jenny I've got your number
    I need to make you mine
    Jenny don't change your number


    Eight six seven five three oh nine
    Eight six seven five three oh nine
    Eight six seven five three oh nine
    Eight six seven five three oh nine
    Jenny Jenny you're the girl for me
    You don't know me but you make me so happy
    I tried to call you before but I lost my nerve
    I tried my imagination but I was disturbed


    Jenny I've got your number
    I need to make you mine
    Jenny don't change your number
    Eight six seven five three oh nine
    Eight six seven five three oh nine
    Eight six seven five three oh nine
    Eight six seven five three oh nine


    I got it (I got it) I got it
    I got your number on the wall
    I got it (I got it) I got it
    For a good time, for a good time call


    Jenny I've got your number
    I need to make you mine
    Jenny I've called your number


    Eight six seven five three oh nine
    Eight six seven five three oh nine
    Eight six seven five three oh nine





    So appropriate!

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    I know you might FEEL like you have to give them your number, but you don't. In fact, once you do, they will probably be interested in seeing you outside of the club, and not in the club....Just politely decline. You are not dependent on any one person for your money, there's tons of guys out there. If you have an EXTREMELY well spending customer, I would go ahead and give them your email address.
    Sexy Jasmine after getting fucked over at work:

    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


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    Perhaps you stopped spending money on her. Strippers need money to operate. They are like coin operated juke-boxes of love.

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    Create a myspace page and give that out. I think that's the best way to keep in contact with custies, yet not really have to deal with them. If they insist on your phone number, just say you have to get to know them better before you can give out your number and give them the myspace. When I say get to know them better, I mean getting to know them better in the club where they are spending money on you. Of course, you will never know them well enough to give out your number, but it gives them enough hope to keep coming back for awhile. When it runs its course, cut em loose.

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    Myspace is a good idea, and so is creating an email address that you use strictly for work. Make sure your email says your stage name and not your real name.

    For the custies who are really persistent about wanting your phone number, you could always go to www.privatephone.com and sign up for a private voicemail number. This way you're not bothered by them constantly calling your cell phone. You could check your messages and when returning phone calls, press *67 so that they don't get your real cell phone number. If they asked why you called them private, just say your phone automatically does that.

    I would only use the privatephone number for the custies who are really good spenders and really keep bugging you for your phone number though (or if they don't have Internet access-which is rare these days, but some old fogies don't like computers). For the vast majority of custies, Myspace and email is the way to go.






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