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    At this one club I work at, I have always had success being a clean dancer despite the fact that there are girls who go the "extra"mile for customers by doing dirty pairups or other "extras".
    It seems on some nights where alot of the girls seem to be pairing up or doing high contact dances, it is challenging to get dances from these guys, since alot of times thier mindset is that every girl should act like these "extra" performing girls.
    I'm not sure if it is because there are alot of new dancers these nights working that feel they have to do what the other girls are doing, but I just need some expert advice on how to approach a crowd and get their attention without compromising.

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    You have to be confident in yourself that your dances, although not dirty, are worth just as much if not more money than the other girls' dances. When the customers sense that you are hesitant because you know you're not offering the full services of the other girls, then they'll be hesistant to buy.

    I would suggest just staying strong. Maybe if you know there is a certain night or two when most of the extra stuff happens, then work the other nights. You only need the right customer or two in order to make your money. Last night I danced for a guy after he had just gotten two dances from a girl who gives a lot of contact. I gave him very minimal contact and he asked me to come back to his table with him, and ended up giving me a fair amount of money over the night. He's bringing his wife in next week and he didn't want a club where girls danced dirty, and was very pleased to have met me (a girl who he could bring his wife in to hang out with).

    In my experience, girls who bend the rules a lot can come in and make fast money, but girls that follow the rules of contact and who respect their club will make regulars and long term money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carolina6 View Post
    You have to be confident in yourself that your dances, although not dirty, are worth just as much if not more money than the other girls' dances. When the customers sense that you are hesitant because you know you're not offering the full services of the other girls, then they'll be hesistant to buy.

    In my experience, girls who bend the rules a lot can come in and make fast money, but girls that follow the rules of contact and who respect their club will make regulars and long term money.
    Yes and yes.

    Your dances aren't worse or substandard, or worth less, because you're not giving extras. They're just *different!* If anything, your dances are worth MORE. Anyone can grind dick nonstop, or give a blow job, or whatever. It's rare to find a girl who really knows how to blow a guy's MIND with a dance...which doesn't include giving away the farm. That takes a hell of a lot more energy and creativity, and is a rare experience for the custy.

    I can't tell you how many times I've left a custy practically purring and drooling on himself by giving my best slow, teasing, seductive dance...when he had initially gone back there wanting a different (read: dirty) kind of dance. I love it when I convert custies, and hear "wow, I've never had a dance like that before; that was amazing" after 3 dances from a custy who ten minutes earlier had been like "so what do I get back there? Are you going to make it worth my money? It takes a lot to satisfy me, blah blah blah."

    But she's right, you have to communicate with your attitude that your dances are every bit as good--no, BETTER--than Ms. Grindsalot's. Then give him your best, most intriguing and seductive dance and watch him beg for more.

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    Default Re: Advice on how to overcome compromising dancers

    The way I've gotten by so far is to do VIP's alone, not in groups unless the girls I'm doing the group with are girls that I know & that have the same standards as me. I've been in group VIP's with dirty girls and it's always been hard for me. The other thing I do that works for me is I target new customers or customers that have been there but never done VIP before because they don't have miss sluttygirl to compare to. I can tell them there's no this allowed, no that allowed, etc. and that's how I've been able to get by & make money w/o having to be dirty. I just couldn't be dirty no matter what!

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    Believe it or not, not all guys want a nasty dance. I really don't even grind, seriously. Guys always tell me they appreciate that, I'm not a "bump and grind girl".

    However, everywhere I look that is what all the other girls are doing. I do very well without it. I don't see anything wrong with it either, but if you don't have to why do you? I do give a very sexy contact dance just without the heavy grinding.

    Don't look at what other girls are doing and just give your most sensual dance.
    Last edited by dangerousdiva; 04-27-2007 at 08:30 AM.

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