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    Default Re: girl at my club got fired for being fat!

    I have been surprised at the size and shape of some of the girls that have been hired at my club of late. I dont understand why any man would want to pay for flab city and more hail damage than a tornado. I certainly wouldn't. However if a girl is bigger but well proportioned I have seen them do well with customers.

    They were wrong to fire her publicly. If this girl wants to remain in this business she should take it as a wake up call that she has to take better care of her body. If your business is your body then u should work at keeping it in shape.

    we have all (im sure) heard customers comment about how certain fat girls just shouldnt be up on that stage and I bet most of us have agreed, at least to an extent.

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    Default Re: girl at my club got fired for being fat!

    Quote Originally Posted by pumpkinpie View Post
    OMG! Two girls were fired today from my job one for prostitution and drugs and the other for being fat! I understand prostitution but being fat? This club prides its self on having “the most beautiful girls in town”. What a bunch of snobs! Tonight was horrible and season here is ending. I only made a hundred dollars working seven hours! The top earner made only 500! That’s bad for “the most beautiful girls in town” club. So at the end of the night the manager gathers all the girls on the main floor and publicly humiliates and fires the prostitute/ coke addict, and after that he fires the “fat” girl! Its not illegal to be fat! Shish! And she wasn’t even all that fat she just looked 6 months pregnant (if you can imagine what that looks like). I was really mad at the manager that was just wrong. If she was too fat for the club the customers would not get dances form her and she would either take the weight off or move on to another club because her competition was too high. But publicly firing her in front of everyone after a shitty night is just so wrong! As soon as that happened half the room started smoking. The girls got so nervous they started a smoking like chimneys. So I’m thinking am I too fat for this club? Well I’m not going to stick around to find out. I have already checked out another club I liked and I am going there tomorrow. I have a friend there that made a thousand dollars tonight in 20 minutes and I have only made 100 at our “most beautiful girls in town” club.

    PS I go home and ate two slices of chocolate cake (its like 3am) and now I have a headache from all the sugar! Lol


    where in FL are you? Thats the slogan at my club, and when girls who are to big by management standards get fired, thats usually the way they do it...Wonder if were co-workers!

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    Default Re: girl at my club got fired for being fat!

    I heard a quote once that pretty much sums it up.." a lot of men like curves, but no one likes cheese". Yes, a lot of girls can carry off a few extra lbs, particularly if they keep it their hips and booty where some men like it, but i think clubs tend to be a bit stricter on stomach fat.

    BUT, i totally agree it should have been done in private. The manager might have had a few talks with her already and then tried to make an example out of her.

    All my managers are females and i much prefer it!!

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    Yeah...if she was significantly bigger then when she was hired...it is within their rights to fire her. However if she was hired at that weight....I'd be pissed if i were her.

    You mentioned before working at Solid Gold..was this there? I've worked for them and this sounds about right for their practices....humiliation and all..except I'm actually surprised they fired the hooker...they encouraged that when i was there...why I dont work there anymore.


    And yeah...$1000 in 20 minutes?? In south Fl?? uh huh..dont believe everything someone tells you honey..even friends. That didnt happen..esp if her knees are still clean.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    And yeah...$1000 in 20 minutes?? In south Fl?? uh huh..dont believe everything someone tells you honey..even friends. That didnt happen..esp if her knees are still clean.


    I always likened looks in this business to typing skills for office work. If you're a stripper and you're fat/ugly, you're gonna have problems getting work. If you're a secretary who can't type, you're gonna have problems getting work. However, it was completely inappropriate to fire her (the fat one, not the crackwhore) like that. What a dickhead!
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    Default Re: girl at my club got fired for being fat!

    Wow wish my club would fire the prostitutes...lucky
    As for the manager maybe he should be publicly humilated, I can understand your club has standards but thats crude...can't she sue them for something like that?
    We have so many yucky looking strippers were I work...of course they are also the x-tra girls as well...

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    Default Re: girl at my club got fired for being fat!

    My weight tends to fluctuate massively and I've certainly been fired from clubs for being fat before. It's not at all unusual in looks-based industries, of which stripping is one. Clubs perceive it as being bad for their image to have overweight girls on the floor, and, depending on the caliber of the club, they could well be right.

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    Default Re: girl at my club got fired for being fat!

    Well, any club is allowed to have any set of "standards" that they wish to adopt, but from my experience, often times those "standards" are pushed to the backburner and/or only applied on a case by case basis untill the club is hit where it hurts (in the bank).
    At one point I was fired by one manager just for being FRIENDS with another girl who was fired for being too much of a drinker. That was dumb on the manager's part though because (and I'm not being concieted) we were both the best looking girls there.
    Funny thing about that, was that the next night a different manager called me in too work, and I told him that I was fired. I wound up being officially "rehired" but I never went back - too much pride.
    Anyways don't let this club's "scare tactics" make you go all bullemic or anorexic - just be you.

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    Default Re: girl at my club got fired for being fat!

    A model wouldn't get jobs if she got fat so it makes perfect sense to me that a stripper won't have a job if she gets fat. Also word spreads fast, if they start letting a bunch of overweight girls there then customers will tell each other "oh club xyz has a bunch of fatties now, I'm just going to go over to club abc from now on." Girls that are thick but toned are a whole different story because they still look good, but general overweight slobs...they should get a day job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pumpkinpie View Post
    The manager was wrong for doing it publicly. Ok maybe not six months but she didn’t look fat she just had a big belly. Anyway I think everyone deserves a chance fat, tattooed, anorectic, crippled, whatever. Its just not right to fire anyone for their physical appearance. In fact we have one girl working with us she is a stick no boobs, no ass, and she looks like a skeleton with hair. I don’t see a lot of guys lining up to get a dance from her and she is still employed. I don’t get it. To me it’s the hustle and the sales talent that really matters, but that’s just in my own little world.
    It is true that it is the best actresses and the best saleswomen in this business who make the most money. However, this does not mean that appearance is unimportant in this industry. On the contrary, it is very much a looks-based industry. Appearance standards are not just about the subjective tastes of individual customers either- they are also about creating a certain kind of fantasy image for the club. Strip clubs are fantasy worlds, and a huge part of that fantasy involves beautiful, glamorous girls and the pretense of accessibility. It may not be politically correct, but that's simply how it is. Humans- men in particular- are extremely visual creatures and when they go out to a strip club they are doing so to see beautiful women, not to have a drink with the chubby girl next door.

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    OMG I cant believe you actually think that girls should dance no matter their looks.

    One of the many reasons this industry is going to shit is because clubs have lowered their hiring standards.

    If guys wanted to look at their wives they would go home.

    They come into the club to look at beautiful women who are like a fantasy. Their fantasy isnt a 5'2" 190lbs woman who doesnt shave her armpits and has rank BO.

    This is an industry where we are judged constantly by our looks. We are suppose to take care of our bodies be it tanning, watching what we eat, working out, getting our hair and nails done and doing our makeup nicely.

    It really amazes me the kind of women who think they can strip now...

    If your thong gets lost in your rolls... dont dance. Go on a diet and hit the gym.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally View Post
    It really amazes me the kind of women who think they can strip now...
    OMG...that reminds me ...one night in the club there was a female custie...mildly drunk..but not plastered..she kept asking for the manager so she could set up an audition....and kept pulling her shirt up and dancing around....she was about 5'3" and easily 250 pounds. You couldnt tell her boobs from her stomache from her hips ..there were just huge rolls of fat jiggling everywhere. I cant imagine how she looked around and though "yeah..I'm just like them..I could do this".
    Now dont get me wrong...I dont think you need to be perfect or super skinny to dance(god knows i would never have had a job if you did)....but come on.....theres a limit.

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    OMG!!! Cameron I woulda looked at her and been like 'there is this thing called a diet.. try it'.

    Now im not saying im perfect.. I could use some toning for sure... but at the same time I dont pop over my jeans and have rolls upon rolls...

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    Default Re: girl at my club got fired for being fat!

    i've gotten put on "probation" for being "too big"... which means I couldn't go on stage (BIG DEAL) and i continued to make hella money. i don't think i'm big, i'm thick... but sometimes people have different perceptions of beauty and take it out on girls like me. I don't, however, look pregnant... so I could see where a girl looks pregnant that she would need to get the boot.

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    add: there is a girl at my club who is 2x my size, has GOT to be at least 220... and she makes money. who are we to say who's beautiful and who isn't? Just beacuse someone has more meat on them? As long as a woman is proportionate, it shouldn't matter. by that, if her belly sticks out more than her boobs, shes gotta go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    i've gotten put on "probation" for being "too big"... which means I couldn't go on stage (BIG DEAL) and i continued to make hella money. i don't think i'm big, i'm thick... but sometimes people have different perceptions of beauty and take it out on girls like me. I don't, however, look pregnant... so I could see where a girl looks pregnant that she would need to get the boot.
    You can have extra in the hips and butt and still look good...hourglass figure-ish.

    If your belly is sticking out or hanging down, though, it shouldn't be any surprise that you'd be told to leave.

    And ditto with you on the belly sticking out further than boobs thing. I hated even seeing girls on the drill team dance floor like that, so I can't imagine having to see one almost naked!

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    Our bodies are our property and our product. The club is where we present it. If someone else is not taking care of their property, IMO, that lowers the value of the property/product around them. It's like owning a house. When you go to sell it, it's not going to be worth as much if your neighbors have a crappy lawn, cars in their yard, paint peeling off their house and broken windows.

    When I got put on "maternity leave" last month, I didn't put up a fight, even though I felt like I could still work. One of the reasons is because I'm one of the first girls who will look around the club and be pissed if I see girls who don't take care of themselves. I want to work with hot girls who work to maintain their bodies, do their hair and make-up and have clean and appropriate outfits. I mean, I put alot of time and money into my "look" and I want to work with girls who do too.

    But I agree with all the other girls that the manager was a dick to embarrass the girl like that. There's no need for that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    Our bodies are our property and our product. The club is where we present it. If someone else is not taking care of their property, IMO, that lowers the value of the property/product around them. It's like owning a house. When you go to sell it, it's not going to be worth as much if your neighbors have a crappy lawn, cars in their yard, paint peeling off their house and broken windows.
    That's the PERFECT way of putting it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally View Post
    Their fantasy isnt a 5'2" 190lbs woman who doesnt shave her armpits and has rank BO.
    Awwww you're crushing my dreams...


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    Quote Originally Posted by MrChristopher View Post
    Sorry to disagree, but in this business, that's where you're wrong.
    I think the same thing. Thats what this business is all about.
    And not to be redundant but yes what the manager did was shitty bc it was in front of others. However, 6 months? Come on. lol

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    it is honestly rare that a girl who is pushing 200 lbs can carry it in a way that doesn't scare off more custys than it keeps.

    i've seen maybe 2 when i danced. one was white and was that VERY rare large girl with perfectly proportioned boobs and ass and no tummy sag. she genuinely did look good at her weight and there was no sag/celluite/lumps. and the other was a black girl with ginormous boobs who happened to have a nearly (but smaller) proportionate ass.

    curvy and sometimes flat out large isn't necessarily bad in a titty bar, but when it looks unpleasant, it is understandable that the girl was let go.

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    It's called "cleaning house" and they do it every year at this exact same time. They have hundreds of girls working there and many more wishing to work there. They don't need that kind of garbage, it's not good for business. They fire them publicly because they can. that's they way that club works, if it's the same one I'm thinking of. They want the other girls to know they're cleaning house so they will keep on their toes. They get rid of "problem girls" and ugly/fat/low-earning girls every end of season.

    Clubs are in business to make money off of beautiful girls and whatever the owner's idea of beautiful is is what the club will have. After all, they've been in business how many years now? I think they're doing something right. Cruel? Maybe. That's just part of the business. Either you can handle it or you can't. If not, maybe it's not the right business for you. It's definitely not a business for the soft-hearted.

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    I agree you need a thick skin to work this business... I always tell new girls that if they take shit to heart and are easily upset to quit now because no matter how skinny you are, how big and perky your tits are and how hot you are you will hear your fat, your ugly, you have saggy tits, fat ass or whatever... its the business... it sucks but thats how it is.

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    Seriously... not everyone can be a fashion model... so why should every damn female feel absolutely entitled to being a stripper?

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    ^^Because of the media.... and the whole pole dancing for fitness craze...girls are going 'well if i can pole dance i can be a stripper' blah... plus a lot of girls use it as a cover for being a prostitute

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