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    Ok im neither an experienced stip club patron nor a high roller, but i was on vacation in SC and had an almost surreal experience happen to me and im not quite sure what to make of it.

    Without writing a book with all of the detail, basically i was approached by one dancer shortly after arriving and she was very agressive and said she was way into me. I thought she was hot, but it was early and she wasnt my narrow definition of my "type" i wasnt there to be a high roller, in fact i think i spent less than 80$ the entire night but after about 30mins of conversations out in the main room and one extended dance in the semi private area she told me she was getting off her shift soon and had to get my hotel number. I told her i was staying with my golfing buddies in a condo so that wouldnt do, but she said shed give me her address and she wanted me to come home with her.

    I told her i was married and she said "no one has to know. just think about it seriously"

    At this point i didnt know if she was soliciting me for more money (which didnt make sense because i barely spent anything on her in the club) or what, but i did say "i probably couldnt afford it anyway"

    she replied that she wasnt selling anything and to just think about it.

    Now the truth is there are very few women in this world i would consider cheating on my wife with, so i wasnt really even tempted, but my question is. Was this legitimate or was she soliciting something?

    Also later in the night i had another offer to go home with a girl who had a water sports fetish, not my thing so i politely declined but nothing like this has ever happened to me so im very confused on how to take it all.

    Some background, i was never in the dating scene ive been dating my wife pretty much since i was 21 so one night stands at bars is not something i have experience with.

    so were these girls legitimately trying to pick me up? or was this a ploy to get some cash?

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    Default Re: Not sure what to make of this

    Probably a girl who is hooking on the side, and looking for some extra work. It's quite common, at least in the clubs I've visited, for girls to suggest meeting up after work for private time.

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    Thanks, thats kind of what i was thinking until she said she wasnt selling anything. and wouldnt she be looking to do that with someone who was spending more money?

    I mean the second girl who told me she wanted to go back and play watersports i hadnt spent a dime on, we talked for 20-30mins

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    Default Re: Not sure what to make of this

    She might have been trying to set you up to be rolled - robbed.

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    i don't know man. all i know is that it's common for girls in a SC to suggest going back to your hotel room later and yea, being robbed is one possibility.

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    Default Re: Not sure what to make of this

    Lots of girls use clubs to screen for potential escort clients.

    Sure, it's possible that she was just looking for a roll in the sack with no strings, but do you really think she was that hard up? Strippers aren't exactly soft targets, dude.
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    Default Re: Not sure what to make of this

    I'm with CO. This is a way to screen for guys that have no $$s, and that are creepy.

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    Default Re: Not sure what to make of this

    She said she wanted no money because you might have been vice squad. But had you gone, money would have been expected or demanded at some time. Sounds like a club to avoid in the future, IMHO.

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    Default Re: Not sure what to make of this

    ^^^^
    agreed

    why r u giving this so much thought if u r married, u shouldnt be thinking about it still. she was prob a hooker so dont be too flattered. Legit strippers are not gonna be that desperate to go home with anyone.

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    Default Re: Not sure what to make of this

    you spent twenty minutes talking to a girl and didn't "spend a dime" on her? How rude.

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    Hooker.

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    I vote for hooker, too, both of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cooleyhound View Post
    I told her i was married and she said "no one has to know. just think about it seriously"
    Well seriously, THINK about it.... How angry would your wife REALLY get if you bought Tupperware off another woman?
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    Quote Originally Posted by cooleyhound View Post
    Ok im neither an experienced stip club patron nor a high roller, but i was on vacation in SC and had an almost surreal experience happen to me and im not quite sure what to make of it.
    She'll get you alone... say in a parking lot. Her "boyfriend" and his buddy will jump you, beat you for sexually assaulting her, take all your money for reparations, and say they're calling the cops. That's surreal.

    I've heard, "I don't want your money. I just wanna feel close to someone on my birthday." With tears welling up in her eyes.

    Never ever go with a girl you don't know.

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    Thanks everyone, I had kind of thought that but again im pretty inexperienced at these things and i just didnt figure why they would see me as a mark when im with a group of guys and im not really high rolling.

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    Default Re: Not sure what to make of this

    FWIW, and it's not worth much, but still, if you want to walk away with a little bit of your stroked ego intact, I do think some girls use the clubs to screen customers for their escort business OTC. It's possible then that she asked you because you at least didn't completely gross her out, or creep her out. That's not much, but there is a chance she is a legit escort that doesn't service just anyone. That doesn't mean for a minute that she considers you BF material, but it might mean you're not scary or repulsive either.

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    lol, thanks. i wasnt looking for a girlfriend and even if they were legit free offers i wasnt going to cheat on my wife. I just never heard of anything like this before and neither had any of the guys i was at the club with. i just cant figure out why they each singled me out.

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    Because for one you must of came across like like a sucker and for two you spent the time talking to her. Duh?

    Also what I don't get if your not looking for a girfriend - why even dwell on it? That in itself seems a little wonky to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crow View Post
    Also what I don't get if your not looking for a girfriend - why even dwell on it?
    Because... if you're a married guy with no recent club experience, and you're just stopping in with your buddies, it's disconcerting to be approached by an attractive dancer looking for water sports action.

    When some dancers get even a little wasted, they'll hook up just for the specialized action they crave. It's an addiction. It can make you start to wonder if maybe your own SO is a secret freak.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crow View Post
    Also what I don't get if your not looking for a girfriend - why even dwell on it? That in itself seems a little wonky to me.
    Doesn't seem wonky to me.

    Everyone likes to have their ego stroked, even married guys who wouldn't actually go through with cheating could still find it's an ego stroke if an attractive woman hits on him. OTOH if the reality is she just did it because she is a hooker, then well obviously that's a different matter. I think the OP just wanted a reality check for ego reasons, not because he is going to cheat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crow View Post
    Because for one you must of came across like like a sucker and for two you spent the time talking to her. Duh?

    Also what I don't get if your not looking for a girfriend - why even dwell on it? That in itself seems a little wonky to me.
    Every hear of mere curiosity? Sounds liker the guy is curious about finding out possible reasons for his experience?

    Jezuz effing christ, not every question is an indication of ulterior desires, obsessions and motivations.

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    lol, i think he's stuck on the thought of a stripper wanting him... and he doesn't want to believe it was her hustle.

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    TUPPERWARE.

    Or Mary Kay.

    I'm telling ya. Big fronts here. Took this fine piece back to a hotel thinking I'd get some serious action for a couple hundred, walked a way with a foundation applicator I would just DIE without. Not to mention a way to keep my cucumbers fresh for MONTHS after the initial slice. BETTER deal, and less money! I LOVE YOU STRIPPERS!
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