Ok im neither an experienced stip club patron nor a high roller, but i was on vacation in SC and had an almost surreal experience happen to me and im not quite sure what to make of it.
Without writing a book with all of the detail, basically i was approached by one dancer shortly after arriving and she was very agressive and said she was way into me. I thought she was hot, but it was early and she wasnt my narrow definition of my "type" i wasnt there to be a high roller, in fact i think i spent less than 80$ the entire night but after about 30mins of conversations out in the main room and one extended dance in the semi private area she told me she was getting off her shift soon and had to get my hotel number. I told her i was staying with my golfing buddies in a condo so that wouldnt do, but she said shed give me her address and she wanted me to come home with her.
I told her i was married and she said "no one has to know. just think about it seriously"
At this point i didnt know if she was soliciting me for more money (which didnt make sense because i barely spent anything on her in the club) or what, but i did say "i probably couldnt afford it anyway"
she replied that she wasnt selling anything and to just think about it.
Now the truth is there are very few women in this world i would consider cheating on my wife with, so i wasnt really even tempted, but my question is. Was this legitimate or was she soliciting something?
Also later in the night i had another offer to go home with a girl who had a water sports fetish, not my thing so i politely declined but nothing like this has ever happened to me so im very confused on how to take it all.
Some background, i was never in the dating scene ive been dating my wife pretty much since i was 21 so one night stands at bars is not something i have experience with.
so were these girls legitimately trying to pick me up? or was this a ploy to get some cash?


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