My bf and I finally tried Levitra. I feel like I've been riding a horse for too long.
The leaflet said that it takes an hour to kick in. I asked him to take it, and then wait for about an hour and a half to see if the medicine itself gave him a boner. He didn't get hard, and he didn't feel anything different. He just played Gears of War without any distraction. After an hour and a half, we started foreplay. He got a huge, rock-hard, pulsating, one almost immediately, and proceeded to give me what I've wanted for the last 7 months.
The medicine itself doesn't give him a boner; it makes it much easier for him to get one. He can still go soft, like when he's going down on me (he goes soft if he has to concentrate on something), but he can get hard again pretty quick. He really likes the medication because it makes him feel enhanced, not artificial, if that makes any sense. It it enables him to do what he used to be able to do on his own. In other words, he has a more sensitive trigger and is more immune to distractions.
I don't know if it's residual effects of the drug or if he's just getting more self-confident about his abilities, but he has a hair trigger and hard boners for about 3 days after taking a pill. It's only supposed to work for 3 hours, but he's having an easier time now. I'm going to try to test things by maybe using a placebo in a double-blind study (put a Levitra pill in one pill case and a similar sized pill like Claritin in the other, have him take one, look later to see if his penis works on its own).
I still want both of us to go to sex therapy. I still have the subconscious fear that he's going to go soft if I don't keep him constantly stimulated or that he'll come too soon if I start enjoying it too much, which were problems in the past. Due to his dysfunctions, sex was a task to maintain. He had no choice but to be a selfish lover. I'm still in that mindset, and get anxious, even though he insists that I slow down and take my time. I also want him to find the underlying problems for his erectile dysfunctions. Both of us need to learn to communicate about our sexual desires.



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