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    Default Friends question

    Do ya'll think it's possible to just be friends with someone you are sexually attracted to? If you are in a relationship imagine if you were single.

    I have allot of female friends, but find it hard to keep it in the friends zone if I am attracted to them.

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    Yeah, it's tough. Either you are friends with them and you have platonic feelings. Or you wanna fuck them and you do, or you stop being friends. I've never been just friends with someone I was attracted to, it's too hard.

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    IMO, it's not possible to be "just friends" with someone who you are attracted to.

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    I think it's possible but there is a lot of weirdness. When I was single if there was a guy that was really hot I would act much differently around him that I would my not so attractive guy friends or my gay friends.
    The type of girl you wanna chew all of my bubblegum

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    Yes it is but u have to sleep with them first LOL (yes seriously).
    After u get the sex out of the way you can be friends.

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    Default Re: Friends question

    It's possible.

    Just limit the amount of time you spend with the person you are "in like" with at this present point in time until you are 'over' that person and have moved onto another person because you realise that the person you are "in like" with isn't available to you thus you are wasting your time...

    That's what I do.


    Only ever have sex with this person you are "in like" or "in lust" with if you are okay with the friendship ending as it is hard for people to be "just friends" after they have slept with someone. Usually there needs to be a slight gap between the sex and the resumption of the friendship.


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    It can be hard yes, but i think about it like this. is this a lifetime friend for me? or is our friendship wishy washy?(i think thats how you spell it...) Then i base it on that usually. lol im really no help eh?

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    Default Re: Friends question

    It's really hard for me to stay friends with guys I'm attracted to. The longest and most genuine friendships I've had with the opposite sex are with guys who I've had no inkling of sexual attraction for.

    The ones that do, it's ended up either:

    1) We slept together, realised we couldn't be friends, called it quits
    2) We slept together, went out as a couple for a while, it didn't last

    It depends on the person and how well they deal with it. As for me, I'm no hope because I can't stand NOT getting into the pants of a hot guy who's readily available.


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    Default Re: Friends question

    my best friend is just this situation. for me it's more love and sexual than just sexual though.

    we've been friends for 22-years and she's still probably the love of my life (don't tell my ex-wife ).

    would it have been good? she and i actually have discussed it and thought so.

    but we're both happy where we're at now in our lives. i was pretty surprised both our moms thought it was a good match too. she's italian, i'm chinese and our moms were 'traditional' (or so i thought).

    so yes, i think you can be friends and still be attracted. it's just a matter of resisting the temptation. it ain't easy but it's possible.

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