So I have only recently started doing private parties. Reading through you guys' posts here I simply can not even begin to relate to any of them!
You see, living in Finland people are very reserved. You get tips on stage maybe every other MONTH on clubs, otherwise you have to do rounds through the room to ask for them. I've done three private parties so far and I've never even seen anyone consider giving me tips even if I've had my tits on their face. Only once have I had an audience who was actually really into it and caught the drift very soon, at other times people have been mostly staring at their toes and seeming a bit uncomfortable.
So how on earth do you work under circumstances like these? I suppose one option would be to start with pyrotechnics or something so people would actually consider it a show rather than just be awkward in front of a naked lady... So far I've been doing a cowboy theme with a pink stetson, a riding crop and so forth, and only housewarming parties and biker club openings so there's never been a birthday boy or such to dance to (save for at the club on stage, but there people are into it straight away since they know to expect something like that on a strip club!).
I think it would be a lesser of an issue if I had the time to talk to the guests a bit before my show, just hang around very clearly looking like a stripper so they'd know to expect it, but of course oftentimes it's a surprise they're bringing in a stripper so I'm just smuggled in through the back door and then pushed on stage so I can clearly see a big ol "WTF" thought bubble rise above the audience!
I do suppose some of you have to deal with this in the States/Australia/other tipping countries too, like parties where you're obviously a total surprise to everyone involved basically. How do you work around it?
Help me I'm at loss hereI just booked my first private birthday party, it was actually the birthday boy's auntie who booked me and apparently it's like a darn family gathering with his wife present too (so I doubt they'd appreciate a lolli in the pussy act), early on in the evening too at 8.30pm so I doubt they'll be drunk enough to be rowdy either. Maybe start with the cowboy thing again and ride him like a pony and stuff like that? Or any other ideas? Either way I'm thinking I'll have to turn it more into a comedy than a lap dance or similar because of the family presence, it'd be awkward otherwise... Any smart ideas?



I just booked my first private birthday party, it was actually the birthday boy's auntie who booked me and apparently it's like a darn family gathering with his wife present too (so I doubt they'd appreciate a lolli in the pussy act), early on in the evening too at 8.30pm so I doubt they'll be drunk enough to be rowdy either. Maybe start with the cowboy thing again and ride him like a pony and stuff like that? Or any other ideas? Either way I'm thinking I'll have to turn it more into a comedy than a lap dance or similar because of the family presence, it'd be awkward otherwise... Any smart ideas?
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