So it has been forever since I have enjoyed this site. I really do enjoy this site, as I am fascinated by this whole industry. Some guys like baseball, or poker, or golf, but I like naked women, plain and simple.
However, I also have a certain type of woman that I prefer. What that is is not important, as we all know different guys like all different types. But in reading some of the threads here recently, the guys are getting slammed pretty hard if they don't tip or get PD's whenever solicited. Yes, I do know that you girls pay to work at the club, and yes I do realize that you make all your money via tips and dances, but at the same time you have to respect the fact that not every guy is going to like you. No matter how good a dancer or how good a seller you are, he might just not like you.
In fact, he might just not like any of the girls that night. Now, maybe in the clubs that you girls work at, the average girl is fantastic looking, a great dancer, and a great seller, but at my local clubs, it is a crap shoot. You might go in on a night and have 30 girls and half of them are exactly your ideal dancer. You might drop a few hundred in an hour an be all tapped out, but your friends are still there so you hang out, at the risk of being labelled a PL by all the other girls for not buying dances.
Go back to the same club the next week, and there are 10 dancers of which none are even remotely interesting to you. But isn't that the nature of the game when all the employees are self contractors. They follow the work around, and maybe some club 30 miles away is having a special night. But how did you know when you went in. Again, your buddies are having the time of their lives, so you stick around, again labelled as a PL non-paying custie.
On the other hand, I have been at the local club dozens of times, money in my pocket ready to spend. I have tipped the girls I like on stage every time they come out. I have made eye contact with them as they walk by, and after a few hours, left with every dime in my wallet because they could not take the time away from their boyfriends or regulars to even say "thanks for the tip wanna dance."
On the other other hand, I have sat there and had girls come to my table, ask for dance, I politely immediately say no, not wanting to waste anyones time, and I get attitude back. I did not ask for them to come over, and I understand they are trying to make a buck, but I won't spend my money on girls I am not interested in, why is that somehow my fault. Like the other analogy, I am not going to buy a car I don't like, or for a price I won't pay, just because the salesman spent his time trying to sell it to me.
Now, don't get me wrong here. If you are going into the club, asking girls to join you at your table, chatting them up like they are your best friend, then being surprised when the "wanna dance" comes, and saying no, then you are a schmuck who needs to stay home.
So think there are many many sides to this coin. Some guys may come in and just not like what is on the menu, it's an off night. Some girls may go to work after a really bad day, and the guys can sense that trust me, and get all "no thanks" that night. It's a crap shoot, or at least that's the way I see it.



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It bothers me if a guy is sitting at the stage and not tipping all the girls, especially if the club is busy. Yeah, I know, it adds up, but don't sit there if you aren't going to give out $$.


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