I'm not making the money I used to make and it's no mystery why...I feel outright hostility toward the vast majority of customers. I haven't always felt this way. Apart from a few genuine assholes, I liked the guys and they liked me. I always made the most money off the customers who's company I genuinely enjoyed. But these days it's so hard to find a customer who doesn't bug the bejeezus out of me. In the last week, I've just gotten up and walked away from tables because I was so completely frustrated with the guy I was sitting with -- one guy kept going on and on about how guilty he felt about his wife, like there's anything I can do about that. Another guys bragging about how rich he was and how much expensive stuff he owned and then accusing me of being "all about the money" when I asked for a dance. Another guy insisted on giving me a "massage" before I danced. I let him rub my back for about three second before he started humping my ass, then I took off.
I'm at the point where I don't want to sit with anyone, because I just assume going into it that they're going to be some kind of asshole. Has anyone else felt like this? How did you get your groove back?



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Here's some hugs and smooches to make you feel better.




I am getting more and more furious inside. Finally I simply say, for my own pride, "Well, listen, I know it can be a buzzkill, but you have to understand that it's for our saftey, and that girls can and have been assaulted in clubs."
It's reassuring to know others have gotten to the end of their ropes too.
Slump be gone.

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