I just had a fabulous night at work. It was busy, but we had tons of girls, and even though lots of them were cryassing about not making anything I still did great. However, at one point I was sitting with an old regular who I hadn't seen in a long time. He historically comes in and gets several dances, while generously buying drinks and being very sociable with everyone. It's never a big deal when other girls come to sit, because I know he'll still want a dance with me.
So I'm sitting there, just me and him, and this girl comes and plops down right in his lap. I just continued as normal and wondered if she'd get the hint. Well, obviously she didn't because she whispered in his ear and asked him if he was ready for a dance! He told her no, that he was planning to get them from me. Anyway, I get called to stage and she is up at the same time. I really didn't think about it and went off to the bathroom after I got done and then circled back around and saw her right back in his lap. After she got up I went over there and he told me she said, "Well, I guess Andy missed her chance." He said, "Uh, no she didn't," and got her away from him somehow.
How the fuck do you sit there and try to cutthroat like that? I'm a top earner in my club and I think it's absolutely audacious for someone to come around and try that bullshit. But, I handled it like a perfect lady and didn't say anything to her and didn't badmouth her to him, although I really felt like it. He ended up getting several dances and everything was fine and dandy.
I'll never understand women like this. Is their hustle to pester guys until they agree to a dance? That's really classy.![]()



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