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    Ok, I need some advice...

    I am not a touchy, grabby girl on the floor. I will touch arms/legs lightly, and flirt, but the real touching is saved for when they pay for it. Well, I work with several girls who sit down, grab the guys crotch, and start rubbing...right out on the floor(while whispering what they want to do to the guys dick. graphically). Well, they sell tons of dances...not surprisingly. I do okay, but I find myself horribly frustrated when during a night, i see guys i just got told no from say yes immediately to those girls...or worse, i'll be sitting with a guy, a girl comes over, pulls that crap, and gets the guy away from me.

    I get so frustrated watching those girls. I wont cross that line(though i am by no means a prude) yet to see the girls doing that (and to top it off, then bitch they "only" made $600) and getting the sales bugs me.

    Now, generally this happens much more often with the young guys than the older guys. I admit, I dont give off a party girl vibe, and i dont look like one. I also suck at playing dumb. The guys that like me, love me, but i've even been told by a co-worker that I'm "too smart for" certain nights cause of the guys that come in.

    How would you deal with this, and get some of those dances back, without resorting to the same grabby shit these other girls do?

    And since I mentioned it....any tips on coming across as more of a party girl or a little dumber? Cause i know so many smart girls, yet they all seem to manage to act rather dumb on the floor and guys seem to love it.

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    Default Re: When they grab and you don't....

    yeah, i worked in a club where girls did this. what are the contact laws where you're at?

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    Default Re: When they grab and you don't....

    As far as I am aware, it is supposed to be no touching on the floor, and only one way contact in the dances (expect VIP which is 2 way). Most of the girls do what i do, light friendly/flirty contact on the arms, or legs(by the knees, etc.). management doesnt give a damn about the contact.

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    I feel your pain, honey! I have the same problems. Just rememer, you are the one who has to look yourself in the mirror at night when you get home, so don't do anything that will compromise your principles.

    Smart girls who can act dumb are great actresses. I wish I could do it. But some of them require drugs and/or alcohol to dumb themselves down. Can't do it, not me!

    There are still guys out there who will pay for time spent with an intelligent girl. It's just getting harder to find them. Have you tried day shift or mid-shift? I stay away from Friday and Saturday nights altogether.

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    Some girls are just plain NASTY and will do just about anything for money, it's as simple as that. They are the ones that give us clean dancers a bad rep in this industry. Cunt-rags. Makes me sick!



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