My SO's mom has colorectal cancer and is going in for surgery to remove her colon on Tuesday. She went through 6 weeks of chemo and radiation and it shrunk the tumor significantly. Anyways, she is very optimistic and says just like the rest of us that everything is going to be fine, she is just going to be in pain and discomfort for 6 weeks after the surgery.
My SO has been really irritable and moody for the last week or so. We have been fighting more than ever. He will just not speak to me for hours, and then when I ask what is wrong he will snap and say nothing, Im just fucked up.. it isnt you. It has gotten to the point where he actually took his daughter and went to his mothers house tonight because he says that it is the last weekend that he may see her alive.
Am I wrong for being pissed at him leaving tonight? His mother is already asleep, lives 3 minutes away from us. Why couldnt he just go in the morning. Also, tonight was the night my kids were expecting to celebrate his daughters birthday and he just takes her and leaves and now my kids are wondering what is going on... no cake no ice cream.. no nothing except she opened the gifts we got her.



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good luck!

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