So I'm not too good at the whole lapdancing deal. I have tried to watch the other girls and see how they do it, ( i work at a no contact-full nude club) but it seems like they're stepping over the no contact rule with their dancing. Some girls will put both their knees on the customers knees/chair arms and then put their hands on their shoulders and rub all over them, or rub their butts all over the customers laps, or do this thing where they lean back and put their boobs up in the guys face... I'm just not comfortable doing that.
So how do you give a lapdance that is enjoyable for the customer and not boring (what i do now is pretty much just start facing him, move my hips like i do when I bellydance and then turn around, maybe bend over a bit, and do the same thing.. repeat. boring) We're not allowed to touch ourselves either (breasts) but I see some girls playing with their boobs, squeezing them in front of the customer, rubbing them on the customer.. etc.
agh. help. I seemed to do fine selling dances (and repeat dances) last night, but I need to mix it up a bit, I feel like I'm not doing it the right way.


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i think this is another one of those things that also gets better with practice (and the occasional spurt of creativity). some people have recommended the book "S-Factor" and watching others, but i've just been dancing like i'd like to be danced for.

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