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  • Yes - It was great, would do it again

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  • Yes - It was a nightmare - NEVER again

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  • No - I dont anyone enough to do that

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    I know we're not supposed to go out w/ Regulars...

    Yes I know this but I'll admit I did make an exception. You guys remember the reg I told you about that is like in love with me(, and wants me to have his lil mixed babies..) well he's been my regular for a year already and I finally decided to take him up on his offer to take me out to dinner. The first time, I brought up the idea of taking him up on his offer for dinner and told him that I'd love to go to go out to eat, but I really needed to work. I paid for my time OTC to have dinner with him. Second time (this past weekend) we went out again. We went to Saks (I'm finally going to get my X-mas purse lol) and a friend of mine can testify that the purse I'm getting is FIERCE (expected gift will be this Friday) !!! Then he bought me some perfume, lunch, then met me at the club to spend more money! I know it's been said that once you start taking custy's OTC, the money ITC goes away. I dont know if I'm a rare case, but shit, my money is definately on the increase! Instead of spending $200/week he's spending $500-$700 on me! He never trys to kiss me, touch me, lick me, or solicit me for sex. I know it's kind of a "hush hush" thing around here as far as what some SW do outside of work, but I'm really curious to know if I'm the only one?
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    I did it once or twice with a reg I knew for almost a year ITC. Went to lunch, shopping. Met him there,etc. I didnt go until I was sure 1) I could trust him and 2) it wouldnt affect my money. And it didnt.

    He was a really nice guy, literally expected nothing(never even asked for my real name)...got a girlfriend and was thinking of getting married..havent seen him since(it's been a cpl years). I wonder what he's up to now.

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    I see my regular OTC at least once a week. We're quite the pals.
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    I went out with a reg a few times and he was really sweet. Never tried to do anything to me, or got out of line, and it was great fun. This was a 1 in a million kind of guy though.

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    Very rarely, but yeah.



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    Default Re: I know we're not supposed to go out w/ Regulars...

    For the poster who voted "Yes - Never again" could you please elaborate?







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    I've done it, many time. Woudl do it again. Typicially, I meet them at a casino for dinner and gambling. They put me up to gamble, I keep whatever I win. Good arrangement. When you gamble on other people's money, you usually win
    ( probably cause you aren't afraid to bet it)
    I don't lie or bullshit them. It's just dinner and gambling. Want to leave for another casino? I'll follow you there.
    I've had very good luck with guys who only want a dinner/party date and nothing else. Usually its guys here on business who are married and just want company. I only had 1 guy ever who got pissed off when I wouldn't go to his hotel room. I said what? I told you I wouldn't. I didn't lie. Sorry you didn't believe me.

    I went out with this one guy, morbidly obese. I'm talking like, 500+ lbs. he LOVED craps. He had money to burn. We played craps all night. As luck woudl have it, I rolled that night for 32 minutes. I made thousands. He made thousands, so he was happy. And he was soo thrilled to be out with a young attractive girl who didnt judge him for his weight, he was a perfect gentleman. I alwyas wish I would have gotten his number. I wonder what happened to him. He was a Vegas local. I'd go out with him again in a heartbeat.

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    No I could not imagine myself doing it.

    I think you're playing with fire. I dont mean to sound negative but this guy is in love with you, he has ^^ his spending, buying you pressies. He is gonnaa be heartbroken and very pissed off when he realises u dont like him for anything but $$$.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    No I could not imagine myself doing it.

    I think you're playing with fire. I dont mean to sound negative but this guy is in love with you, he has ^^ his spending, buying you pressies. He is gonnaa be heartbroken and very pissed off when he realises u dont like him for anything but $$$.
    Oh but I do like him for alot more than his money. Do I love him back, no not at all. But I do consider him a good friend. But in my eyes, this is still business. Like I said, there are no sexual advances at all..I tell him often that I enjoy spending time with him. I'm not lying to him there.. But I do see the point you're making.







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    ^^
    That's good. As long as he doesn't feel lead on. Your safety has to be no.1 always. Im glad it's working out. On here I have read many times that if u go OTC the money will start becoming less ITC - so its good to hear that is not always the case.

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    ^^^I won't do it, either. My reasons come from when I was naive and I first started dancing. I got drunk one night and gave this guy my phone number. I swear to God, he was calling me like every 5 minutes, and texting me nonstop. Scared the shit outta me and I ended up changing my #. He ended up coming to the club and CONTINUED to harass me. I took care of it, and told him I never wanted to talk to him again. The second time it ALMOST happened with a regular of mine. He kept getting his hopes up everytime he came to see me, and I kept telling him maybe, maybe, maybe. Well...the last time I saw him I think he pretty much thought I was going to give in and go out with him...so he was being tighter with his money. Finally I just didn't want to deal with him anymore and I told him the truth. I had no intention of ever going out with him (#1 reason being because of the first psycho). He got pissed and I haven't seen him since and I'm glad. I don't bullshit these guys anymore...it's a pain in the ass. Regulars come and go. If I want stuff I'll buy it myself...no guilty feelings, no misleading...NOTHING. I don't think it's right. I wouldn't want somebody to fuck with my head. This also does not mess with my money. I just keep the relationship in the club, plain and simple. I agree with Jaizaine....my safety ALWAYS come first.



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    Default Re: I know we're not supposed to go out w/ Regulars...

    i'll never meet a regular outside the club, it's not worth risking my safety for money.

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    I've let regulars do small favors for me but there's no "free lunches" in life.

    OTOH, I did date a couple guys I met through private dancing, since they were willing to spend more just to have a private show & I got to see them in their element, it wasn't the same as the ITC/OTC deal. One guy was a sweetheart but it was short-lived, the other was a nightmare.

    If I could go back in time and change things, I would've hustled them harder! LOL

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    If you have a GOOD regular, the A type, phone conversations and an occasional lunch are par for the course. These are more like the "daddy regulars" who will give you bill and shopping money, as they tend to be well off if not wealthy, and really love you, but are in a bad marriage and for some reason are afraid to get out of it. They want sex, but will settle for a platonic relationship, as seeing you in the club and out, and talking to you regularly on the phone masks their unhappiness at home and makes them feel better. If you have one of these types of regulars, you should have a few $1000+ designer handbags, some nice jewelry, and a decent wardrobe, most of which is at their expense. You NEVER have to ask them for money. They offer it and every time you see them they give you some, and will mail it to you out of the blue too. They like to feel like you need them.

    Some regulars are what I consider the "B" type who call randomly and maybe will see you and spend $100-$250. A random lunch is ok and these types like you but are not as serious as the A regular. These types won't give you bill or shopping money as they are not as serious about you as the "A" type.

    Having lunch with C type regulars who may be nice in the club and spend $100+ may be ok, but these types won't last long. They are not the types to give you money and may push for OTC over the club after a few visits.

    The poll questions don't really size it up. I wouldn't say it was great. It's ok to see a good regular and talk to him on the phone, but it comes with our job, and has nothing to do with socializing in my opinion. Yes you like the guy as a person, but don't feel about him the way he does about you in a romantic way.

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    Eh, I've been doing this for awhile, but only with the guys that consistently spend money without creeping me out!

    I always meet at public places, mostly restaurants. But I have this one regular "buddy" who takes me to the dog tracks when he's in town. He pays for me to bet and I get to keep mine and his winnings! It's sweet!

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    One of my regulars has quite literally become one of my closest and dearest friends. I feel like I can count on him to be there for me through anything, and I would be there for him too.

    I've been out with 2 others for dinner drinks and shopping. They still spend big$$$. They are kind of boring though.

    And yes, I knew all of them for a while before I agreed to go out with any of them. I completely trust the first one with my life, the other two I trust not to harm me, but I think they might one day want more and I'll have to cut them off.
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    Yeah, I can't really choose one of the options, because it wasn't fabulous, but it wasn't a nightmare. Mostly it's boring. You realize that in the club you're free to walk away or take a break and you're gone on stage. When you go out to eat or for drinks you actually have to listen and stay for a couple of hours. I have done it a couple of times, and while it can be fun, it can also just be depressing. You fully realize why these men can't have normal relationships that don't involve an exchange of money.

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    You don't have a "Yes - It was great, would NOT do it again" option as that is the one I would choose. I slipped up with Mt Isa Boy. He was the first and last time I "saw" someone I had lap danced (thus a customer) outside the club.

    I won't do it again tho' as that was under special circumstances. I've learnt my lesson from that life event/experience.

    It wasn't horrible, quite the opposite. I learnt alot about myself from the relationship. Just wouldn't do it again anytime soon.
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    I've seen regulars outside of the club, and it increased my money with them by a fair amount. I get to know them first, talk online, on the phone ect... and then arrange to meet them in a public place.

    Its worked wonderful for me and I will continue to do so because its really helping me with my income.

    There is even one I have become damn good friends with and I really value his friendship because I know I can count on him.

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    I used to only meet for lunch or dinner 200 per hour and i leave before them and get there after them.I had 3 regs that I did this with, it was 1 time per week with each and only a meal(usually 2 hours each) All i have to say is, i miss those guys!!

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    Default Re: I know we're not supposed to go out w/ Regulars...

    i had a regular that was great like that, he even bought me a car with no strings attached - or so i thought.

    as soon as he bought the car he got extremely posessive and he KNEW that i had a boyfriend. i was so naive to think he really just wanted to look out for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    Oh but I do like him for alot more than his money. Do I love him back, no not at all. But I do consider him a good friend. But in my eyes, this is still business. Like I said, there are no sexual advances at all..I tell him often that I enjoy spending time with him. I'm not lying to him there.. But I do see the point you're making.
    Okay - this may not be a popular viewpoint, but I would seriously consider whether you are being a "good friend" to him.

    I think Max also put it very accurately and succinctly when she said there is no such thing as a free lunch. Well - I take that back. Lunch we could probably manage, but I really don't believe there is any such thing as a free designer purse. One thing that drives me up the wall about the girls in this business is the completely naive sense of entitlement of something for nothing.
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    I came close a couple times, but I talked myself out of it.

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    I've met a few regulars OTC. Like, two over three years. One was pretty much a disaster, which was odd, he's taken a bunch of girls out before but somehow for me he refuses to come to the club again but keeps asking me to come to his hotel room, like that'll ever happen! I think he sends those SMS only when he's drunk tho.

    The second one has been OK so far, he takes you to dinner, a spa, pays for your lingerie shopping and so forth. He tends to be very fatherly towards me. I've heard he can be nasty to other girls but well, I don't think I'm really his type at all he just likes to show me off AND he knows that I'm married and has met my husband. So I don't get bad vibes from him too often.
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    this is why customers act like you're -supposed- to go out to dinner with them.

    because a lot of girls -do-.

    *sigh*

    IMO meeting a customer outside the club makes it an entirely different relationship.

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