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    My regular has started telling me in explicit detail his dreams about me. It's really disgusting. Like I dont mean what he says is disgusting really, he says stuff beginning with taking me out for dinner and then going back to his place and then it's more what u would describe as love making. It's worse than if he said "Oh I had a dream that u sucked me off". That would not bother me half as much as the intimate stuff he says. That stuff is for my BF and I and I don't want to listen to some other guy saying this stuff to me.

    I am 100% comfortable with the nudity aspect of stripping but I cannot do "sex" conversations. It makes me very uneasy.

    When he tells me these dreams I just stand there and kinda go "oh ok". I know that's not the reaction he is after but I just cannot stomach this shit.

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    Eww I would totally be skeeved too. Some people just dont know when to stop - I mean, if you dont react turned on I dont know why he would continue the convo. Yuck.

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    The part that made me sick the most was when he said "then I just held you all night and your head was on my chest" ewwwwwww that made me feel so sick llike "no way you loser"

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    Lol! At least make sure he's spending good money for you to put up with that weird shit.

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    Try telling him something like, "Aw babe, I don't go in for that lovey-dovey shit at all. I like rough, hard fucking! Hey, what's the best blowjob you ever had?" Get him talking about past experiences with other girls, and get it away from the romance.

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    This happened to me twice this week, though thankfully I didn't get a full detail. But it still creeps me out to realize that these guys must do that all of the time.
    Most of the time you can't control what you dream, but still!

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    Wouldn't you just love to say:

    "Well that's the only way your gonna have me.....in your dreams......!"

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    I have had a couple of guys over the years try this with me. You need to turn the conversation around. Find something, anything that grabs you attention and move on to that.

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    When they talk about shit like that, how they want to wine and dine us and "make love" I tend to think that's an attempt at impressing/seducing us. Like, they're trying to say what they think we want to hear, hoping we'll fall for it. I can't help laughing at it and that is a way of shutting them up, usually

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    what a weirdo

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    The part that made me sick the most was when he said "then I just held you all night and your head was on my chest" ewwwwwww that made me feel so sick llike "no way you loser"

    Ugh!!! lol I would be soooooo turned off its not even funny!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    The part that made me sick the most was when he said "then I just held you all night and your head was on my chest" ewwwwwww that made me feel so sick llike "no way you loser"
    HAHAHA, wow. Loser indeed.

    That kind of stuff doesn't bother me, only because when I come into work, I'm totally in the actress mode. This is just another theatre role, and in this scene, this pathetic character is telling my character all about his dream...and my character is just like "ooh, go on...and then what? Tell me all about it in the CR, yes?" while making doe eyes at him and taking his money.

    The real me is laughing on the inside, but the show must go on! Detaching myself and looking at it as just another script, just another role for me as an actress...really helps, a LOT. To me, pretending to be into some of these guys at the club is no different from pretending to be into the last guy who played the lead tenor role opposite me in an opera. No attraction whatsoever, but I gotta fake it well enough onstage so that the audience (in this case the customer) believes it!

    I use the actress mentality all through the night at the club, every night. It also helps me to not take rejection personally at all, and to let shit roll off and keep myself in the zone. I see that as the main reason for having a stage name--once I get into those heels, I step into the character of Sasha, and whatever happens or is said is directed at my character in this zany SC comedy...not the real me.

    The real me will have plenty of time to laugh about this shit in the DR after the club closes for the night.

    Dunno if this will help you, but it's one way of thinking about it. And yeah, if you're taking the time to listen to his rambling, make sure he's paying you well for it!

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    ^^
    hehe that is good. I do usually switch off but sometimes I cant help showing my real reactions. We don't have a CR tho! I wish!

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    I'm not an actress, at all. And I simply cannot act interested/aroused/amused when customers try to talk about sex with me. I find it really repulsive and usually snap back, "Ew, don't be disgusting" or "Ew, I will not discuss my sex life with you so stop fucking asking". It just really, really grosses me out. </end princess rant>

    But yeah, I'd be really disturbed by that too. Ick.

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    ^^ that's definitely understandable. And I do get pissed off at anyone who's rambling on about their sex life and/or trying to have this piss-ass long discussion with me about sex without paying me for my time. I shut that crap down fast. I'm not sitting here providing you with the SC equivalent of phone sex for free.

    But if they've spent money and are going on like that about what they'd love to do to me...all I'm feeling is amused. I'll nod and smile and play along, and inside I'm thinking "oh I can't WAIT to tell (insert name of a girl/DJ/bouncer that I'm friendly with at work) about THIS one! ROFL!"

    Same goes for the guy last week who was wearing lingerie and trying to show it to me during an LD...or the guy who had a vibrator in his pants during an LD because he "just knew I'd love it" , or the one who told me that he'd love to have sex with me and he'd make a slip-on dildo for himself so his dick would be bigger for me, or the one who started literally barking during an LD...

    ...point is, some of these guys are just CRAZY! Learning to laugh at it might be difficult for some, but IMHO it's the best way. Work is comedy gold!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darcy Foxx View Post
    I'm not an actress, at all. And I simply cannot act interested/aroused/amused when customers try to talk about sex with me. I find it really repulsive and usually snap back, "Ew, don't be disgusting" or "Ew, I will not discuss my sex life with you so stop fucking asking". It just really, really grosses me out. </end princess rant>

    But yeah, I'd be really disturbed by that too. Ick.
    Same here I am very prudish about sex talk. I find it lame actually.
    Last night I danced for a guy who kept saying how he wanted to lick me etc it was fucking off.

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    Ugh, I feel you Jaizaine. As much as you try and leave your real self at home and be in pure stipper mode at work, it doesn't always happen that way.

    My first week of stripping I danced for this perv-when I was done, he got really close to me and said, "when I get back to my hotel room, I'm going to think about you and beat off".

    It grossed me the F out. TMI! There are some things that are just better left unsaid.

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    I feel the same way. If guys get too into sexy talk I blush like a school girl. I tend to either cover my ears and giggle "TMI!!!" or I make an excuse to run away. I play the shy little girl well enough I can usually avoid offending them, but I will not listen to that sort of thing. Ew! I especially hate it when they ask if I'm turned on during dances. All I've thought of to reply to that is, "hee hee, a lady never tells..." Blargh they make me absolutely ill sometimes.

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    Haha I'm so horribly blunt, if a guy asks me if I'm getting turned on during a dance I say, "No, I'm not. Not at all. Absolutely not. I try to disassociate lapdancing with any kind of sexual activity in my head, in fact sex is the absolute farthest thing from my mind right now."

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    I totally understand. Guys usually phrase it diff to me and say "do you EVER get turned on giving dances?". I still dont wanna say yes but sometimes I am guilty of saying "maybe".

    Do the guys u say that to ever not get another dance coz u were so blunt?

    A dancer friend of mine at my club had this really gross guy telling her how horny he was during the dance and just talking that kind of shit. After the dance she said this (and I think it was brilliant):

    Her: "Can I give you some free and really good advise?"
    Him: "Sure"
    Her: "You made me so uncomfortable while giving you that dance. You should just sit there and let me dance and enjoy it. You just kept talking and to be honest what you were saying was off-putting and it made me extremely uncomfortable. If you sat there and let me do my thing I would have given you a much hotter dance. So if you go to a strip club again and get a dance please remember this and I can assure you the dancer will be able to do her job much better"
    Him: "Really, wow I had no idea. I'm sorry and thanks for letting me know".

    HAHA. Gold.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Do the guys u say that to ever not get another dance coz u were so blunt?
    I don't think I've ever sold another dance to anyone I've said that to. lol

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    oh well prob dont want to anyway LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Picaresque View Post
    But if they've spent money and are going on like that about what they'd love to do to me...all I'm feeling is amused.
    I hear you. It's important to feel you have control of the situation, whether it be by thinking of it humorously, redirecting the conversation or otherwise feeling superior to your victim.. er I mean customer. Like any of us, I had a personal boundary that couldn't be crossed, but it was a little more liberal than I'm hearing from some. For instance, any customer who described their joy at cutting me up into little pieces that could never be found, I'd be leary of. Barring that extreme, I would understand that he's not exactly there to enjoy my artistry so I just came to expect he's using me to get off. Hopefully later by replaying it mentally, not right then and there, but whatevah. No, it wouldn't excite me, but I would think, damn right, sucker, my body is that hawt.

    Oh, by the way, y'all, that ain't no dream. At most, it's a daydream. More likely, he's constructing it in his head on the fly to A) float a trial balloon, and B) enhale you into his masturbatory self-trance. TMI, huh?

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    ^^
    that's what I thought. You can't control your dreams and I did not find it believable that he had a dream about all that. Dreams dont usually follow a logical sequence like: dinner, go home, have sex, cuddle.

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    Some people can control their dreams. I have every so often in the dream state. It takes alot of training for some people whereas it comes naturally to others. (Then there the "junk" dreams... your brain just processing the days events as such so they are meaningless... I have those every so often as well and they can't be controlled.)

    As for the answer to the question when posed to me: Do you EVER get turned on giving dances?

    I say yes. Then I elaborate that I love the voyeuristic and exhibitionist aspects of doing lap dances. I love to be watched, I love knowing you are watching me and I love doing it in a safe environment such as this club. So yes, I have my kinks that help me enjoy giving lap dances and performing on stage.


    In a way, it is partly true. I do love being watched and knowing I am being watched yet not in a sexual way ... not in the way I'm inferring when I respond to that question. It doesn't pay to be truthful. Plus I find this is the best way to keep the customer under control as such as I am focusing on his "watching" behaviour.

    By placing emphasis on him WATCHING me it can help encourage them to sit there and watch me (nothing more) as then they have it in their heads that I am getting turned on by them watching me.



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