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    I know we deal with this all the time... I did a search on threads, but couldn't find any on what you do to deflect this.

    I work at a no contact, fully nude club, its small, and tends to be sort of slow. EVERY customer counts...

    Obviously I have no interest in DOING any of that, and I let the customer know... but is there any way to do it and still get private dance sales or tips? These guys come and watch for several sets, tipping cheaply...then ask, and upon my saying "No I don't sell that" or whatever response, they immediately leave. But it bothers me, when I'm seeing half the people I've taken time to talk to, for smallish amounts of tips waste my time and leave-and most of the time not having another customer to hustle for that dance...

    I'm POLITE in my responses... Usually just a simple "I don't do that" or "I don't sell that" or a "no sweety that would get me fired"(if they've taken an interest in me being "dateable" or personal interest)

    I guess I need to find a busier club, because this royally SUCKS that at least half of my customers already think i'm a hooker. I could tolerate it if there was another guy to move on to who WOULD buy dances or tip, or it was busy... But there's just no money to be made for me past the "if i buy a private dance do i get sex" or outright "meet me at my hotel" assholes.

    Anyone been in this situation?

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    Sweety, you can say whatever you want BUT if they are looking for sex, nothing you say is going to make them stick around. They want sex, not dances.

    I tell customers, "oh sweety all I do is just dance, I dont' do any sexual things for money" They either except it, or they don't..usually they dont and that is when I move on. Don't try racking your brain to think of a way to get these dudes to stay in your club. Hell, it's pretty good that they leave once you tell them the truth, instead of harassing every girl in the place.







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    Default Re: they've asked how much for sex-what's a good reaction?

    OK Phwew! I thought I must be doing something wrong...

    I don't know, i haven't noticed guys walking out on other dancers... so I assumed that maybe they had a better reaction that could keep the sex-hunter there and spending money on them... I dont know...
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    Ok. This is NOT good advice, but I'm gonna tell you anyway.

    When I first started dancing, it was an all nude, small club. Max was 8 dancers a night. A lot of them did extras. ( well, probably all of them)

    The owner knew I didn't give extras, and he told me do what you have to to make money. Fuck these assholes, if they want to fuck you, screw them over, they deserve it.

    So when I got a customer who asked what he got in VIP, or asked if he was getting bj or laid, I'd go tell the bouncer....this guy wants laid in VIP. Check on me often, cause Im takin him back there. They knew my hustle.

    I would NEVER lie to the customer, but I led him to believe he was getting what he wanted in VIP. LIke...A guy said, how much to get me off. I said $300. I take him back there, and give him a lapdance. Nothing out of the ordinary. He said, well, I didn't get off. I said sorry..I tried. He said I thought you was gonna suck me off? I said, nope, I never said that. I said I'd try to get you off. Which I did. Not my fault a lapdance can't get you off.
    At this club, we were paid upfront, and the dancer was always right. Espicially the owner knowing my hustle. A guy could bitch and copmplain all he wnated, but he was not getting his money back.
    I never lied to them. I never once sad I'll fuck you, then not. I just led them to believe they were getting what they wanted without actually lying, or saying anything.

    In Vegas...this hustle don't work, and I also grew up and decided it wasn;'t the fairest thing to do, even if I wasn't lying.So I stopped doing it, and now when guys ask what they get, I still lead them on a bit..but not like i used to. Now I pretty much say flat out, you aint getting laid. And go find someone else who wants a nice, normal VIP. But in Vegas..you can alwyas find someone else. In the small ass club I started in, in West Virginia, there wasn't the customers. You had what you had. Lose them, and you were screwed. You had to be ruthless to make money.

    So like I said..this isn;t exactly the best hustle advice. But it's what I did, and it worked, and usually, everyone was happy. I had 1 problem. Cause the bouncers friend came in lookin to get laid,I tried to run my game, and the bouncer told him what I was really about. He got fired for scrweing with my money. The owner was cool as hell, and happy I was a clean dancer making more than anyone else that did put out.

    But I don't recommed doing this....and I imagine some girls here might flame me for even saying it. But that's what I did, it worked, and I wish it still did work. Iwas honest, just misleading.

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    Default Re: they've asked how much for sex-what's a good reaction?

    Honestly, I don't waste a second more with those guys even if there is no other good options as far as possible lap dances go. They are looking for something you are not selling.

    Depending on how the guy has asked about the sex depends on my reply.

    Granted, here in Australia, prostitution isn't illegal per-say so I just tell them to go to any taxi driver and they will be able to point you in the right direction. Failing that, I tell them to look up brothel in the yellow pages as there are, at least, three brothels 10 mins drive from this club.

    ETA: On the other hand I do have my "put up or shut up" method of controlling these guys in a way. If they ask "how much?" or variation on what it costs ... I will say "Well, if I'm going to do it I'm going to do it so I can live off the proceeds for the rest of my life. My price is 11 million dollars. I require half of that up-front in cash as a non-refundable deposit for what I sell. So, how about it?"

    If they try to 'bargain' with me on the price I will laugh in their face and walk away saying "Go try the local nightclubs. They offer it for far cheaper if you aren't concerned about quality."



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    Don't be nice!!!!! Asking a dancer for sex is down right insulting so be insulting back - they aren't gonna spend anyway.

    My array of replies:

    "Are you aware that it's illegal to solicit for sexual services on this premises?" I can even quote the relevant provisions of the Prostitution Control Act if I'm in the mood.

    "Well if I did charge for sex it would be in the thousands and I wouldn't do it for you coz I don't find you the least bit attractive"

    Just look straight at them and start laughing your head off. This one is great it makes them feel really small.

    "Why don't you go ask the bouncer?"

    "I don't have sex with ugly men even for money"

    "I can't look at your dick coz I'm not a qualified paediatrician"

    "I don't but your mom's out the back she does $20 specials"

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    Default Re: they've asked how much for sex-what's a good reaction?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    Ok. This is NOT good advice, but I'm gonna tell you anyway.

    ...............

    But I don't recommed doing this....and I imagine some girls here might flame me for even saying it. But that's what I did, it worked, and I wish it still did work. Iwas honest, just misleading.
    True it isn't good advice yet you did what you had to do to make money whilst also staying "clean" as such. It is a little mis-leading and tends to tread into to ROB territory however, at the same time, you did what you had to do and it worked. So be it.



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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Don't be nice!!!!! Asking a dancer for sex is down right insulting so be insulting back - they aren't gonna spend anyway.

    My array of replies:

    "Are you aware that it's illegal to solicit for sexual services on this premises?" I can even quote the relevant provisions of the Prostitution Control Act if I'm in the mood.

    "Well if I did charge for sex it would be in the thousands and I wouldn't do it for you coz I don't find you the least bit attractive"

    Just look straight at them and start laughing your head off. This one is great it makes them feel really small.

    "Why don't you go ask the bouncer?"

    "I don't have sex with ugly men even for money"

    "I can't look at your dick coz I'm not a qualified paediatrician"

    "I don't but your mom's out the back she does $20 specials"

    brilliant, absolutely brilliant. I'm using these for sure.

    My favorite was when the guy was asking for sex in VIP right in the lapdance area...and the DJ and dance-counting bouncer were leaning against the counter talking. So I called over quite loudly, "hey guys, this guy wants sex in the VIP room! Isn't that hilarious?!" They proceeded to join me in laughing at this hapless loser, and so did two customers that were at the next table. He turned five shades of red and literally tripped over himself trying to get out of there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    So when I got a customer who asked what he got in VIP, or asked if he was getting bj or laid, I'd go tell the bouncer....this guy wants laid in VIP. Check on me often, cause Im takin him back there. They knew my hustle.

    I would NEVER lie to the customer, but I led him to believe he was getting what he wanted in VIP. LIke...A guy said, how much to get me off. I said $300. I take him back there, and give him a lapdance. Nothing out of the ordinary. He said, well, I didn't get off. I said sorry..I tried. He said I thought you was gonna suck me off? I said, nope, I never said that. I said I'd try to get you off. Which I did. Not my fault a lapdance can't get you off.
    At this club, we were paid upfront, and the dancer was always right. Espicially the owner knowing my hustle. A guy could bitch and copmplain all he wnated, but he was not getting his money back.
    I never lied to them. I never once sad I'll fuck you, then not. I just led them to believe they were getting what they wanted without actually lying, or saying anything.
    I used the same hustle when I was working down in South Florida. I only did about 3-4 VIP's the entire time I was down there simply because I was not going to do any extras, and I wasn't going to explicitly tell them what was going on with me in VIP. I used the same old, "it's intimate back there, I'll be off rotation so I can spend all my time with you" if the guy made me feel like he was adamant on receiving extras (ie. what do I get back there or Man that's alot of money, it better be worth it) I'd always say, "well you know what, just the other night I had a guy take me back there for 2hrs straight. So obviously I'm doing something right"

    Eff em'. Let them assume. Like Kailya, I never once said I will suck, fuck, finger, jack, etc anyone off. If they would get upset during the dance, I'd just explain to them that, "no honey I told you ____________" then I'd smile and tell them "oh baby I'm not a prostitute, I dont do THOSE things" and they'd have no choice but to respect it.







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    Yeah..I've done the creative lie...never actually SAYING anything would happen...but making sure the guy thought it would

    But with so many undercovers trolling around..I dont do that anymore. I just dont waste my time. I say...with a VERY sad sad face..."awww..honey....you have you PAY for sex??? Theres NOBODY...I mean..maybe a really ugly girl at last call somewhere that would be willing to fuck you for free?? Just becuse they wanted to??? Oh..(looking him up and down) yeah...I guess not...oh thats SO SAD...." Then I walk away holding my hands to my face "trying" not to cry over his pitifulness....

    They usually stutter about how they totally could get it for free while they blush bright red...."no no honey..people dont pay for sex if they can get it for free....so sad"

    Then I leave. If I have friends in the club I go over to them and make a show of looking over and pointing to the guy and have her wipe her eye all sad over it too. then she goes to a friend and does it..on and on until the whole club is "weeping" over this sad sad man.

    They dont stay long.

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    ^^^ LOL, that's awesome!

    I discovered a really great trick when I was dancing. When they ask, look very shocked and hurt - eyes wide and filling with tears, hand to your chest, the works. Sounding as wounded as you can, gasp, "Are you calling me a WHORE?" Every time I did this, they would immediately start falling all over themselves backpedaling, "No, absolutely not, no I never, I would never call you that," etc. Keep up your act, only getting a little indignant and offended. "Yes you did. You called me a whore and you don't even know me, I can't believe you did that, aren't you at least going to tip me? You've completely ruined my night..." They all gave me at least a twenty (one guy gave me a fifty) and skedaddled out of there. Sounds silly but it totally works. (Probably helps if you have an "innocent" face but never hurts to try.)

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    if i'm not in a bad mood... i'll say, you wanna get fucked? $200.

    then i talk them into giving it to me early as a sign of good faith... and then when they ask more about it, i say, you wanted to get fucked, so i just fucked you out of $200!

    I've really only done that 2 times. But what are they going to do? tattle on me? YEAH RIGHT.

    if i am not feeling that ballsy, i will say the polite, "I don't do that."

    if i am PISSED, i will say "this is a sc, not a brothel. go 80 miles up the road to houston."

    not that all houston sc's are like that but they have the "spas" there

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    Men asking for sex during a dance (ewww).

    I've been using this: "I'm not for sale."

    If they persist, I repeat. First time with a smile, second, third, etc., lose the smile so they know I'm serious. Do it til the end of the dance, collect my fees, and go.

    It's worked so far.

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    if i am PISSED, i will say "this is a sc, not a brothel. go 80 miles up the road to houston."
    I tell guys that! Just down the street is a legal brothel. Just get in a cab and ask them to take you to Parhump. ( little do they know a cab ride to Parahump is about 45 miutes away. Expensive cab!)
    Or I'll say..oh, to expensive for you? Just walk out this door, and down to the corner. I hear there you can get a bj for 20 bucks. Just make sure you got the money for the STD antibiotics

    Oh I can blow ya for $20.
    ( same as I fucked you for $200.) I blow them a kiss, as I walk away!

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    ^ score!

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    Yek-I think i'm going to use your hurt reaction today! Thats awesome!

    Although I love the idea of Camerons sad sad man skit...
    Whee... now i'm sort of looking forward to trying these out!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    if i'm not in a bad mood... i'll say, you wanna get fucked? $200.

    then i talk them into giving it to me early as a sign of good faith... and then when they ask more about it, i say, you wanted to get fucked, so i just fucked you out of $200!
    Now THERES a good line! hahahahaha

    The johns are the type of 'customers' I'd love to see less of in clubs (and fuck the pimp managers who try to keep them around to sell that extra $5.00 worth of drinks!), so I have no problom being blatantly rude to them. But if I can give attitude AND get paid.........

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    Ahem.
    Okay. I'm about to deliver one of my best lines here. I hope all of you appreciate how much I love you to reveal this in public.

    1) Open your eyes wide in mock-shock
    2) Gasp.
    3) say: "No!!!!! If we do that we'll have to get married!"

    I challenge you to find a customer who doesn't laugh. When they subsequently offer to marry you, look like you are considering it and then say "Okay. But I want 10 000 children."
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    Cameron, Yekhefah and Jenny, you're all priceless. PRICELESS! I can't wait to get solicited tomorrow so I can try all three in rotation! I am SO serious.
    "Before I conceived you, I wanted you. Before you were born, I loved you. Before you were here an hour, I would die for you. This is the miracle of life." -- Maureen Hawkins

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    Thats great Jenny! Yet another one to try!

    boooooo now I have my arsenal ready and not ONE guy propositioned me today!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    I challenge you to find a customer who doesn't laugh. When they subsequently offer to marry you, look like you are considering it and then say "Okay. But I want 10 000 children."
    Sold.

    In the meantime, here is US $10 000 for us to spend in the south of France. We fly out tomorrow. You'll need to relax in a major way to make good on your promise, and I need to get my staff assigned to interviewing nannies right away to make good on mine.

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    Default Re: they've asked how much for sex-what's a good reaction?

    I actually got asked that (well, offered money for sex, to be more precise) by a guy who I'd previously turned down for a date (not while stripping). I told him thankyou very much, but I didn't feel ready to enter the arena of prostitution just yet .

    I've also been told that for the price of my dances they could get a blowjob. My response tends to be 'Well, go to St Kilda and get one then'.

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    The club I'm at can be a hard hustle club and there are extra girls. Most of the time, I don't bother trying to get a dance out of the "how much for sex" crowd, but if it's a tough night sometimes I will. Usually, it goes something like this...

    "How much for sex?"
    "How much do you have?"
    "I have money"
    "of course you do, but how much?"
    (insert bullshit number)
    "Oh, that's too bad. That's not enough."
    "How much is enough?"
    "More."
    "I have more."
    "But you said you only had (bullshit number). You weren't lying to me, were you? I don't know If I can have sex with someone who's lying to me. Tell you what, let's get a few dances to get started and then we can talk about this more."

    It's annoying, but you can often get something out of them and the only thing you ever promise is just to talk to them so you don't have to deal with "but you said you would..."

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    It's always funny when I decline and they say, What, you don't like sex? I say, Yes of course, but I'm not a professional...

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    At my club they tend to ask "how much?" during the private dances. My favorite thing to do is to stand there, completely naked, and say with a bat of my eye, "Do I LOOK like a hooker to you?" then I laugh.

    I had one guy who I had told REPEATEDLY that Oregon was a no-contact state, and as I'm dancing he decided that it would be okay to run his hand up the inside of my thigh while I had one leg hooked up on the "couch". I screamed, "NO!", slammed his hand down on the couch with my foot and leaned over and said, "There are cameras everywhere and we could get arrested for PROSTITUTION! THERE IS NO TOUCHING AT THIS CLUB!" It freaked his shit out and when his friend bought him another dance from me about an hour later (ugh), he sat way back and would twitch anytime I got close to touching him. It ruled. I <3 scaring the obnoxious clientèle!

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