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    after breaking up a few fights with some of my dads friends, i just scored a job driving dancers for a family friend to private parties. the first few jobs i've had have been single dancers and single clients. i get a town car, a suit and a credit card every night with the address already plotted in the GPS. i was just wondering if there are any girls here who dance privately for like bachelor parties or for highrollers? most of the women i drive are kind bitchy but 2 of them ride up front and talk with me. anyone have any experiences?

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    Default Re: do you gals get along with the bouncers?

    i get along with them because i try... but there is one bouncer who is a fucking pussy and never does anything, so i hate him!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    i get along with them because i try... but there is one bouncer who is a fucking pussy and never does anything, so i hate him!

    i've never had a problem stepping in the middle of a fight or stopping someone from doing something....... anywhere. if you hesitate you shouldn't be doing it, ive jumped into the charles river(shitty, deep river in my town) in august after a drunk guy who fell in, while the cops waited for the fire department

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    Default Re: do you gals get along with the bouncers?

    well the one i hate never takes my side. always the customer... mind you, the non spending customers that are his friends.

    i fucking hate him.

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    It really just depends on the bouncer, his personality, and if he does his job. Even if I don't like them, I'm still polite anyways. But then again, some of the girls are rude to them. I think it just depends on the girl and on the bouncer.

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    I usually get along with bouncers but I certainly like the ones who help me better than the ones who just do the bare minimum.

    When you get to the party, introduce the dancers like they're celebrities and tell the group that tips that the girls love to be tipped (or tips are always appreciated or something like that.) I don't know all the tricks of the trade because I'm focused on dancing, but bouncers- both in clubs and at parties have helped me make a LOT of money by encouraging the guys by implying that tipping is standard... like suggesting they tip for certain things. Even if its dumb stuff... I had one guy who would make them pay us to take our tops off (above the initial fee) and it worked and everybody acted like it was normal!!! And when they increase my tips I give them a huge cut...

    I will post more if I think of it.

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    I usually get along with the bouncers unless they're complete pervs lol...

    Drivers on the other hand... I cant stand half of them. They're fucked in the damn head I tell ya!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckyOne View Post
    I had one guy who would make them pay us to take our tops off (above the initial fee) and it worked and everybody acted like it was normal!!! And when they increase my tips I give them a huge cut..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Callyish View Post
    I usually get along with the bouncers unless they're complete pervs lol...

    Drivers on the other hand... I cant stand half of them. They're fucked in the damn head I tell ya!!!
    i think thats why some of them don't interact . one said some drivers will do sketchy stuff in dark parking lots and shit like that. i treat all the girls i work with like royalty. "yes mam", "thank" you and "your welcome" get you a better reaction than "get in the car" although one girl likes being man-handled ............ but thats a different story. lol

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    I had one driver who told me this story about how two girls he was driving started going at it in his car.. so he pulled over and jerked off while watching them... needless to say I never used him again... seriously why would he feel the need to tell me that?

    Or there was the driver who used to hang out in the club and try to buy lap dances...

    Or the one who would call me all the time asking me out...

    Umm yea I don't like drivers...

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    I got along with most of my private party bouncers & always tipped them well.

    The best way to air grievances with dancers is to take it to the agency boss- I have worked with a few bitchy backstabbing private dancers and know how they exploit situations.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Callyish View Post
    I had one driver who told me this story about how two girls he was driving started going at it in his car.. so he pulled over and jerked off while watching them... needless to say I never used him again... seriously why would he feel the need to tell me that?

    Or there was the driver who used to hang out in the club and try to buy lap dances...

    Or the one who would call me all the time asking me out...

    Umm yea I don't like drivers...
    I get along with everyone. I just don't want to talk to them is all. Nothing to do with being a bitch (or maybe it does...) but I don't want to have to make conversation to entertain someone when I'm paying them to take me somewhere.

    Although your stories reminded me. I had a driver once show up to the club and drink 4 beers before trying to drive me home. I had a driver show up, escort me to his car... where he had (count them!) 3 friends in it. I had a driver pick me up and then ask if it was okay if he picked up and dropped off another friend in Scarborough first. And finally, I had a fat and ugly driver, while I was in the car with another girl, tell me all about "a time he was driving a bunch of teenaged cheerleaders to a cheerleader competition, and they came to his hotel room that night to have sex with him. All of them." The girl who was with me raised her eyebrows and said "Are you sure this wasn't an acid trip and a porn movie?"

    I also love how they can make a 20 minute drive into 40 minutes at 3.00 in morning with zero traffic.

    I had one driver I really liked.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bounce86 View Post
    after breaking up a few fights with some of my dads friends, i just scored a job driving dancers for a family friend to private parties. the first few jobs i've had have been single dancers and single clients. i get a town car, a suit and a credit card every night with the address already plotted in the GPS. i was just wondering if there are any girls here who dance privately for like bachelor parties or for highrollers? most of the women i drive are kind bitchy but 2 of them ride up front and talk with me. anyone have any experiences?
    Oh man, what a great driver you are!! I'd be chatting with you all night about stupid shit.


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    I work in clubs, not private parties. I am not a bitch but I am mostly oblivious to the other staff, and hell most the other dancers when I'm at work. Socializing doesn't make me money. I will be courteous and chat briefly here and there, but for the most part, I barely even notice who else is there aside from customers. ESPECIALLY the bouncers.

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    In the club, I do tend to want to be on good terms with the majority of the bouncers if not in particular one or two of them. This way I know that they "have my back" in the club and it is good to just chat with them here and there. I also don't pay them a cent (tips) as that is not standard here in Australia. I find that just being friendly to them and treating them as human beings works wonders

    As for private parties, I've worked with a few drivers. I love the ones who are courteous, respectful and "know the game" esp. concerning how to get them pumped up for the show. I will talk with you because we are in a confined space however I appreciate it if it of non sexual type of subjects, if you get my drift?

    If you keep it professional, then so shall I. Don't start telling me about your sexual exploits. Just do your job and be friendly. It helps to have good people skills and know "the art of small talk".


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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan View Post
    Oh man, what a great driver you are!! I'd be chatting with you all night about stupid shit.

    generally thats what it is. she'll ask me what type of fast food i like and then we end up talking about my girlfriends and her boyfriends. one girl asks me about my sexual preferences and the other wants to chat about cars, if i could only find a way to genetically make them into one person i'd be set for life

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    Hell, that's the only SC job I haven't done yet!


    Over the years, I've gotten along with 90% of the bouncers I've met and/or worked with. The ones that try to dominate/over-macho every single individual they come across.... customer AND staff.... those guys make me wanna set their sac on fire.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    Hell, that's the only SC job I haven't done yet!


    Over the years, I've gotten along with 90% of the bouncers I've met and/or worked with. The ones that try to dominate/over-macho every single individual they come across.... customer AND staff.... those guys make me wanna set their sac on fire.

    if you met me you'd never think i am capable going al la "roadhouse" and tearing out somebodies throat. most girls like me b/c im like a big lovable rotty, i'll sit and actually listen to your problems all night long. then when the shit hits the fan i get all foamy at the mouth and ready to beat the jebus out of somebody. im like the hulk, minus the extra muscles and torn purple shorts

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    The ones that try to dominate/over-macho every single individual they come across.... customer AND staff.... those guys make me wanna set their sac on fire.
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    I work in a club and I don't really talk to the bouncers. As Bridgette said I worry about talking to customers not bouncers.

    I think our bouncers are shit. They are supposed to stop people using their mobiles near the stage and they for some reason find this difficult.

    To the OP if some of the girls are being rude it's prob coz we have to entertain and speak to guys all night and when you're not on the clock anymore u just don't wanna chat to any more men. Dont take it personally. I dont think it's any excuse to be rude to u but I can understand why they dont talk to you - we have to be social all night and its draining.

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    I'm really friendly with all the bouncers. That being said, they have also never been around when I really need them! We have a few that are on their game all night long, but lately we have had alot of "replacement" (filling in type) bouncers that don't seem to notice dick all. Several times I have tried to wave them down when stuff was happening, but they have been in their own little world talking to eachother!

    When I do private parties (the above was is in the club), I only have a few. While I like having them there and all, most of the time I take care of things myself. As well, they used to be into protecting us, now they seem to just dick around most of the time (I work for a company that uses the same bouncers all the time). I do feel "protected", their presence does lend a sense of security, but I tip them so much at the end that it does not feel deserved. Anyway, I'm glad to hear that you are so awesome!

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    Most of the bouncers I've worked with have been great, and I have no problem chatting with them, especially if they're escorting me to a stag or party. I've never had a problem with one. In the club, however, there have been a couple that have been annoying. For example, one would keep wandering around the club, complaining to customers about management, his life, etc., and even interrupted me when I was talking with one of my fav customers! I learned never to make eye contact with that one, lest he come over yak. On another note, I've worked with some bouncers that have been great allies in the club setting.
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    I get along great with the bouncers. They always tell me that they can count on me to do stage sets if another girl is giving a private dance or a CR. And they alwats can count on me to do the 2-4-1 dances. I get along great with management too. I figure that, in order to get far in this world, I better get along with management and the people who matter. Sure, I get along great with the other dancers, but the management is what protects me and defends me when shitty customers are around.
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