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    Default Phsycho Reg....small update.

    This guy is getting weird. I went out today to walk my Lab(Piper). We take a pretty good hike down on the waterfront. I had my cell with me and it rang so of course I answered and it was HIM!!!! I don't know how or who gave him the number but I immediately hung up. He called again and I hung up on him.

    I was on my way home and it was a straight shot up the street to my house. I see him standing in my driveway!! I immediately turned down a side street. I was panicked. I cut through a apartment complex when I peeked around the corner he was hauling ass up the street. So after ducking and weaving around houses and through backyards, I thought I lost him. I called my friend who bounces at the club. He lives close to me and came over within minutes. I phoned the police, but unfortunatly, unless he is posing an obvious threat, there isn't anything that can be done unless he tries to hurt me.

    I have been assured that is ass will be turfed tonight from the club, but I am gonna have to figure out how to get him to stay the fuck away from me OTC. The police (other than my friends) haven't been much help. Their hands are tied until there is an immediate risk to my safety.

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    WOW please be careful!

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    oh hunny BE SAFE!

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    I don't think your police are entirely correct.
    Just to be clear here - you have asked him to leave you alone? In no uncertain terms? Not "Oh, I have a boyfriend" or "Oh, it's a bad time for me", but "please do not contact me ever again"?
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    Default Re: Phsycho Reg....small update.

    Ugh, I barely remember the first half of this... but for some reason can't search and the 'similar threads' are picking up on the word small, not psycho.... link?


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    Aren't there stalker laws in Canada?? I'm thinking the cops might be just being lazy. Maybe you need to call them and tell them you've TOLD him to leave you alone but he is CHASING you. This IS a threat to your safety.

    Is there anywhere you can stay for a while? I think you should move and leave no forwarding address, and change all your info. I don't think people like this just go away. He is obviously determined to get in contact with you, and dare I say, do more than just talk.

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    http://www.duhaime.org/LegalResource...-Stalking.aspx

    http://www.acjnet.org/youthfaq/stacrimi.html

    http://www.harassment-law.co.uk/canada.htm

    Sounds to me like his behavior qualifies as stalking under Canadian law. Don't take no for an answer from the police.

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    Thats fucking scary. I agree...the police need to step up...following you and trespassing at your home is reason enough to consider him a danger. Next time you see him tell him (if you havent already) that you are NEVER going to want to talk to him or see him again and that you have alerted the police that he is stalking you.

    Maybe have your man or a large male friend tell him the same thing to re-inforce the message.

    And do not go out anywhere alone until this has been resolved...I know that sucks...but it is better then being raped, kidnapped,etc.....this guy is obviously off his rocker and you dont want to take any chances.


    Can you get a restraining order against him so the police have something more to get him on if he continues?(I'm not sure what the laws are in Canada)

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    ^^^^That's great advice. This guy is absolutely nuts. What a scary situation-I know I'd be terrified. Hopefully you can get the police to do something. *Hugs*

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    And now that you have his phone number you can give that to the cops so they can track him down. Or you can find out HIS address and send him your own cease and desist letter.

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    I'm glad we can carry guns in the US. At least you have a larger dog. I'd find as much info as you can on this guy, using his licence number, address, etc. Didn't you say you made that doll for his mom? Try calling his mother and tell her that her son is showing up at your house and freaking you out, that should fix it.

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    Eeek! Why is it that strippers are like, the MOST stalked females on the planet? Any updates, Sinder?

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    Dude, this is so fucking serious.
    You should def follow above advice given.
    Also, even if you don't know your neighbors, tell them about this guy. Give his description to them and ask them to let you know if they see him at any time. Carry mace. Always take your dog with you outside. If you see him again, mace him. Seriously.

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    Ack I'm getting really worried about your situation.

    The advice in this thread is pretty solid, I hope you get through this BS with as little stress as possible.

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    I don't say this lightly. If he shows up at your house again call the police immediately. Don't run. Do not show fear. I say this because these people feed off having a sense of control over you. Stand to the side with your big ass dog and give the cops a description of what he's wearing and doing.

    When they come tell them he refuses to leave your property, you've refused his calls and banned him from your workplace but he keeps calling and showing up at your home uninvited. They will take a report and advise him to get lost. You'll have a record of the incident and his full name and address to have him slapped silly with a restraining order. I've actually talked down wannabe stalkers and flashers. Just stay stern but calm and keep an eye on him so you can give a good description. My mean side says sic the dog on 'em but I don't know how comfortable you feel with that.
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    LOL I don't know if you can even sic a Lab on someone, they're so cuddly.

    Exchange that bebeh for a pittbull!

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    Whew! I am home now. I have been in the US for school and clinicals since Saturday night. Physcho guy came intot he club and the managment asked him to leave. He did, without incident.....so far. I have told this guy not to come to my house and I'll hang up if he calls.

    I think some of the police in my town are just lazy, but I'll keep on top of it. I had some friends of mine in the club with me last Saturday to watch over me. It was our Canadian long weekend, so it was kinda slow anyway.

    My dog is big, but she is WAY TOO timid to attack anyone. She's too friendly. I'll keep you girls updated on what happens if he comes back. I don't know if he came to my house at all while I was gone, the neighbours said they didn't see anyone around other than T.


    Thanks to all you girls for your great advice and concerns. Luv ya's!!!

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