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    I had this date recently. This girl I have been seeing is really hard for me to read. I like her and *I think* she likes me as well. The problem is when we go out she is pretty guarded with her feelings and emotions, so it makes me slightly unsure of myself.

    Ok... Here is the question. I went to give her a hug good bye and instead of coming in cheek first for the hug, she came in face first. Do you guys think this would be a sign that she wanted me to kiss her?

    I feel kinda lame asking this, but the signs are so hard for me to read on this girl. Oh yea. I use the term guys reffering to all SW'ers.

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    Yes, kiss the girl already!!

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    I imagine your situation will be like this scene from a popular Disney movie...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8yignhtNPo

    But yeah dude, kiss her already!

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    If you are feeling unsure about how she feels, then she is probably feeling unsure about how you feel. Maybe that is why she is acting guarded. Think of it that way.

    You should have kissed her. Based upon your description, I think her body language was saying she wanted that kiss. Next time, do it.

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    Communicate with the girl already!

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    Stop overthinking. Geez

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Stop overthinking. Geez
    blah blah blah blah.

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    ^^
    LOL well come on dude it aint that hard.

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    If she didn't turn her face away, she wanted a kiss. Girls know that if a guy hugs themi in a certain way, they are being sexual. I'm guessing that she knew you wanted a kiss too. Don't chicken out. It'll make her feel weird and awkward.

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    sha la la l al al al a boy too shy... i love that show

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    coming in face first meant she probably wanted a kiss. at the very least it meant she wasn't avoiding the idea. if she had been sure she -didn't- want a kiss, she would have turned her head/hugged you from the side, for sure.

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    #1 I really want to remind you that you condescended to those going to SC's alone as weird, yet you post this? Not challenging, just point out, weird is VERY relative.

    Quote Originally Posted by sleepyboy View Post
    I had this date recently. This girl I have been seeing is really hard for me to read. I like her and *I think* she likes me as well. The problem is when we go out she is pretty guarded with her feelings and emotions, so it makes me slightly unsure of myself.
    Women are hard to read for one of two possible reasons.

    1. You're reading too hard trying to make up for something that seems to be missing. (Typically found when you're dating someone you're not used to)

    2. Your expectations are not being met in an appropriate time (typically subconscious) leaving you confused.

    Both reasons though should not be experienced. You shouldn't be trying to read anything at all by this point. You should be relaxed and just going with the flow. Reading a persons actions suggests you're looking for something. If you're looking for something, what is it? (This will at LEAST help in direction of your actions)

    Ok... Here is the question. I went to give her a hug good bye and instead of coming in cheek first for the hug, she came in face first. Do you guys think this would be a sign that she wanted me to kiss her?
    Sounds like a Kiss. But if you're getting all these confusing reactions, I honestly think she's picking up on it, and is confused as well. This tells me you both were probably uncomfortable but looking for that "icebreaker"

    In other words, I bet, she thought YOU were coming in for a kiss, and she was OK with that.

    I mean, you're a good looking dude, funny (it seems) and if you were reading her, you were obviously attentive. In the beginning these are all great deals, she was probably on edge and you both sound like you're in need of an Ice breaker.

    Fuck analyzing this, find out why you're trying to read this girl.

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    You should always kiss girls. If the girl does not want the kiss, she will find a way to avoid it. Unless you force her, of course, which does not sound like something you would do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahMike View Post
    You should always kiss girls. If the girl does not want the kiss, she will find a way to avoid it.
    Definitely! I spent about 10 minutes last night at a party watching this couple dance and the guy kept moving his head forward, and she kept dodging it. Back forth back forth. Either she was too shy, just wanted to dance with someone, anyone, or was not into this guy. I'm not sure how she managed to keep dancing and move her head and not fall over. Priceless stuff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahMike View Post
    You should always kiss girls. If the girl does not want the kiss, she will find a way to avoid it.
    Exactly! After all, what's the worst that could happen? She could Knee you in the groin. Sure it hurts, but the swelling goes down after a while.

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    Quote Originally Posted by White & Nerdy View Post
    I imagine your situation will be like this scene from a popular Disney movie...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8yignhtNPo

    But yeah dude, kiss her already!
    Lol- I knew a really cool dancer who liked this song so much she danced to it onstage. It was cute.

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    Update? Did you kiss her yet? I hope so!

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    I guess we have both moved on. She isn't pursuing me and I'm not pursuing her (I'm like to being pursued). I think 1/2 the reason I didn't kiss her is she didn't totally light my fire. We both just switched jobs and are busy at the moment. Maybe I'll have something to report this weekend. *Texting her now*

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    I read body language when I am with girls. That is what I was reffering to. Thanks for the compliments BTW. As far as the other post calling SW'ers weird that was more or less a joke, because obviously I post here as well. As far as an icebreaker that was our 2nd date. I am usually more certain of myself and assertive, but like I said this girl was pretty guarded.

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    mistake
    Last edited by sleepyboy; 05-27-2007 at 01:13 AM.

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    Ok. Here is a real update. She came over today to watch a movie. Originally she wanted to go have coffee, but the weather was awful. I told her I would rather stay in and watch a movie. She was cool with that and came over. We really didn't even watch a movie. We ended up talking the whole time instead.

    This time I wasn't going to be a schmuck. I literally had a flash of a pink and white forum go through my head when we hugged. I grabbed her and kissed her. It was defintely worth the wait, and very HOT!

    Thanks guys!

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