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    Default Where do you dance? as a compliment

    Damn sorry for the serial post but I got asked a few times "where do you dance?" by the dancers when I tipped them and I found it very funny cause I don't but I think it was said as compliments cause they women I saw at the clubs I went to where absolutetly beautiful! I told my hubby "they asks me where I dance?" and we had a good laugh. I never thought I was pretty but I sure as hell felt pretty once I left the SC I visited.

    I know you guys are out to huslte and to have people have a good time but do you compliment people for real? lol I guess I'm still hard on myself when it comes to my appearance.

    This one gal was like "where is your club?" and I told her I wish! and she was like "oh you don't want to be a dancer the shit I have to deal with is ugh" I said "I bet" in an hr I saw a guy take a pic and the girl was all nice and smiles and said "your not allowed to do that" if it were me I'd be so pissed! another touched a girl and she was nice and said "no contact" again PISSED! I don't understand why men can't respect the women on stage damn it!

    Damn sorry for the novel.

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    Default Re: Where do you dance? as a compliment

    I've given that out as a compliment to female customers before. I don't ever say it if the woman isn't actually pretty (and I'm sure you are!), hence some believability, but just speaking for myself, most of the time it's not because I ACTUALLY think the woman is a dancer (although you really can sometimes tell, too).

    It can be so, SO hard to establish rapport with a female customer, especially one sitting with a man, because you never know, when you make the initial contact, whether you're going to get a dirty look, a snide remark, a roll of the eyes while whispering in the guy's ear - or an actual smile with real enjoyment.

    So finding a way to immediately compliment her is the best course of action, in my opinion. And using the "Are you a dancer too?" line insinuates that you're equals, so if she had any thoughts of resentment from thinking the dancer feels superior, this can make her feel more at ease. For me, just saying, "Hey, you're hot" sounds too obvious as an ass-kissing compliment, so the "You're a dancer, right?" strategy puts it in some context.

    Like I said, I'm sure you deserved the compliment either way!
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    Aww what a nice reply, it makes perfect sense

    You know it wsa weird cause it made me feel like an equal on so many levels, as a pretty woman, as a sexy thang lol Also when I would say "oh no I'm a mom" and didn't finish they said "oh me too" but the thing is that the moms that were dancing aren't as scared as I am I have terrible marks and believe me not pretty at all. My husband would try to find the mom on stage, there was one he got all happy about "look honey she is a mom!" I said "how do you know "Csection scar" lol she and I hit it off.

    It is nice when a person is just nice, htere was this one girl though I think she didn't lik eme cause I had gone to the bathroom and when I came back and she was talking to my hubby and she asked "oh you are together?" I smiled and said "yeah " and she saod 'oh" and walked away. The next day we went back and again she was not very nice and I asked her "I'm sorry did I spook you or something" she gave me a loo" and said "no" and when she asked hubby for a dance he said "oh not right now" and she got an attitude, I eneded up getting a dance from another girl. Maybe she was having abad day or something. Why would you go to a club if your going to get jealous or bitchy with the girls? I sure as hell don't, hell I tip each and every girl! and I will compliment and to top it off if one gal is giving a dance to someone and I see anohter person looking I will say "you know if you want she can dance for you for a little price" they usually stop looking and then get a dance lol

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    Default Re: Where do you dance? as a compliment

    I have said this as a compliment a few times and usually they were just women that were on the fence about dancing.
    I love giving other women compliments....it's far too rare.

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    Default Re: Where do you dance? as a compliment

    HHL- I'm am almost positive we have seen pictures of you on SW, and you are definitely gorgeous!

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    Default Re: Where do you dance? as a compliment

    When a woman is actually really pretty I always say (while on stage) "What are you doing down there and not up here?" When they're mediocre/ugly, I hustle them like a man. >_>


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    Default Re: Where do you dance? as a compliment

    I always assume female custies are not dancers (sometimes it's pretty obvious). I have never said "where do u dance". I have told some girls that they should think about dancing when I thought they were attractive.

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