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    There has been a seemingly overnight change in rules and conduct at the stripclub I work at. Previously a lap dance consisted of intense grinding and straddling on a couch in a private, very dark room. Customers could freely touch any part of the body but the kitty. These were just my rules for myself as a dancer since there were basically no rules enforced by management or bouncers and most of the girls at the club would regularily give hj, bj, or sex for the right price. I completely disagree with this type of behavior in a strip club but kept my mouth shut and kept to my own business so I wouldn't lose my job. Finally a bit of a break came up when the city decided to crack down on the clubs. The new rules are now 6feet distance from the customer, no grinding, no contact of any kind...basically the absolute other end of the rainbow from what has been happening. I am glad the city has decided to change the laws, even though most girls in the club continue to do extras and have just become more crafty about it. I have started to dance six feet away with absolutely no contact, but I am having trouble being more inventive with dance moves now. After almost four years of creating dance routines centered around grinding and close contact I am at a bit of a loss with these new rules and feel like I'm just spinning circles. I want to dance no contact private dances but need some help with ideas for moves. It is just me, the customer, and a couch I can no longer sit on. If any one has some dance moves I could surely use the help. I was also wondering how other dancers deal with competing against a whore for money in the strip club. I hustle, hustle, hustle when I am in the club, and use many of the techniques I have read about in these threads, but still lose out on hundreds of dollars to women who are willing to go much farther than I am. Is there something else I can do to help. I am just trying to adapt to the new rules and recent lack of customers due to the rules changing. I really want to move on up to another city, but I need to make the money here to move first.
    Anything would help...
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    Default Re: long but strong query

    I may be wrong, but I think I know of which club you speak. I heard it was a one foot rule being imposed, not a six foot, so maybe you're not at the club I think you are. My advice would be to check out the other clubs in town that have always had no contact dances and see what those girls are doing.

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    Default Re: long but strong query

    There is no way to compete adequately and lucratively in a club where "more" is constantly being offered. It is best to try to find yourself a new club where "more" isn't offered so you can concentrate on selling dances.

    You are working in a psuedo brothel not a strip club. You need to find a strip club.

    As for how to dance in a no contact/air dance ... search as it has been covered.


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    unfortunetly there are no clubs here that previously practiced no contact dances so there are no 'clean' dancers I can learn from. It is a 6 foot rule with no contact here and you must also keep both feet on the ground at all times. Neither of these rules existed before 2 weeks ago, along with many others (no touching the customer, the customer can't touch you, you can be naked in VIP but you can not take your panties off on the stage if you are on all fours...the list goes on). I am thankful for less contact, but dissapointed about the severe drop in customer volume. No ladies in this town will be able to help me out there...I have nowhere to go but here for help. I just need a few ideas for dance moves in the VIP that don't include grinding or contact in a very limited space to dance. It is mostly the two feet on the ground part that makes it especially difficult to actually dance.
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    Default Re: long but strong query

    thankyou littlelo and goldcoastgirl...
    sound advice
    i'll keep searching the threads for info (there are so many to sort through)
    In the meantime any other help would be appreciated
    I am trying to get to denver but i'll post elsewhere for a whole other can of worms to be opened
    thanks again
    MARYJANEKNIGHTLY

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    I work in no contact club environment.

    - eye contact is eye
    - u can usually still touch the guys face, back of neck, hair, legs
    - make it very sensual, breathe in ear
    - work your hands over your body like a porn star

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    Default Re: long but strong query

    Meh. If you ask me, your club has deliberately set the new rules so that dancers will be unable to make money cleanly and will have to go back to whoring. If at all possible, find another club, even if you have to travel.

    I've worked in one club with a six-foot rule, and it took some getting used to. But remember that most men are very visual when it comes to arousal. Slow, hypnotic body movements, touching yourself to whatever degree allowed by law, centerfold poses, and sexy faces. EYE CONTACT is major. Give them those fuck-me eyes like nobody's business.

    Good luck!

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