Sex kitten, I don't think you're smelly!



Sex kitten, I don't think you're smelly!




I don't post threads anymore so I don't have to deal with it, and I rarely comment.



Roulette:
Oh, I have grown attached to a few as well and of course its a wonderfully social environment (more so, b/c many of us work weird hours and are lonely during the day) but recently it has become alot worse. Feels like high school to me or something. Especially because the "group" only consists of 10 or so people.
^^ I feel you. I feel like the high school aspect of it isnt just limited to SW. This sort of stuff is happening all over the place in my life right now... the world is crazy.





I agree with Darling and Roulette. I've been reading SW since August, but only became an active member this month. It is kind of intimidating for us newer SW's still trying to get to feel the vibe in the forums and put in our input and express ourselves while all of this drama plus "kootchy- kootchy- koo" stuff is going on....therefore, the people that do have something productive to say to keep the thread going end up giving up on it and moving onto better topics where people actually want to hear what the OP is saying. I skip over all of this back and forth *kiss, kiss* talk as well and just try to stay focused on the Original Topic...it gets annoying and frustrating! I'm sorry if I offended anybody, but this is the trend I am seeing. This isn't a popularity contest! Thanks guys...I thought I was the only one who noticed this. *crawls back into her cardboard box*
Last edited by Mily; 05-23-2007 at 10:39 PM.
I like to observe too, but I have a big babbling mouth... and very short attention span. jingle keys and I'll stop mid sentence. But yeah, SW is a networking tool, info center, as well as a place for advice. ok to bed I go. like really.



Yes, that is just what I need Mistress Paige. Please spank some discipline into me, and the bitchiness out of me.Back to the topic I just ignore the bitchy posters and try to stay on topic. I love to hear about others opinions but not when it turns into repeating page long bitchfests.
"Can we read it on the Smoking Gun? "



Hyzenthflay: I know, doesn't it feel alienating!? I'd love to post and comment more, but for the most part anything that I say goes unnoticed because every one is blah blah blahing eachother. And this is only (as intensely as it is) a recently development in the last couple of months. As well, your right, many of the threads are so negative. Of course we should debate, but I hate the teaming against eachother!
I've been here almost 2 years and have over 4,000 posts and I'm still not part of the clique-go figure. Loner IRL AND on the net
I do agree with the sidetracking of "I love you, blah blah blah" in every thread. I'm starting to wonder if an on topic thread is possible these days....
...But don't mind me. Period's coming soon![]()




I tend to get just as many negative responses as positive when I post, and I don't know why.
I was under the impression that a long time member that very, very rarely posts drama would be semi-respected, but that's not the case.
Granted, you can expect to get varying opinions, but why do some people's have to be rude?
I was raised to respect other people, so even when I feel like saying "FFS Just Stop It"...I instead either don't comment or say something to make them feel better about their life, decision, etc......
Is it because bathing suit season is here?*shrug*





I guess im part of the 'clique'?
I have met many many many MANY members here and obviously our personal relationship will carry onto the forum but I do try to be nice and friendly with all the girls.
Obviously like the club we're gonna have cliques but I like to think they dont stop us from helping each other.
Im sorry if i've been bitchy with anyone
I love all my SW girls I really do... but yea I mean we're all female so we all have our days lol.
I wouldn't say I'm part of any clique, although there are some members I feel close to after all they've helped me through, even though I may never have told them so. I've been here since '03 and I don't tend to put goopy mushy stuff into my replys, but I'll be the first to say it, I find it kind of refreshing. It makes me smile, and I like reading it. Yes, it can derail topics sometimes if questions arn't being answerwed at the same time, but it's also just in good fun and even though I don't usually partake, it has made me smile when I've been having a bad day on numerous occassions.
As for the bitchyness, well, that's bound to happen occasionally when you've got a huuuge number of people together. We should all be adult enough to let things go. It will pass. There have been a few spurts of super bitchyness around here before, and they fade out eventually.
" Remember during each test there is some girl in Australia jealous of you who wants to do what you're doing."- Lilithmorrigan
" If you're young and sexy, why not spend a few years Shopping and Fucking? Life is short, but youth is shorter. Ride the wheels off, I say." - FeministStripper
I thought we taught ya'll better..... when there is a problem it's ALWAYS the Dj's fault........





Everything evens out. I think most of the bitchiness people are noticing is the lack of mod in the lounge. No one (probably including myself *cough* guilty) has just let a topic go but instead contributing to it making it nastier. So no one locks it...topic goes out of control...people make shittier comments and so on.
We miss you Rhia....you kept one of the busiest parts of SW in line. Rhia has Hunter and Delia and probably many other more important responsibilities besides SW. I give it to her for trying to do it all really. Maybe passing the torch should be in order yet suggestions around here seem to be whispers in the wind.
Besides, I could care less about this 'clique' people are talking about. Im a super loner and cool with it. All and all....its just an internet forum. If something pisses you off...you have the choice to respond or not. If something is posted that I dont like I make that choice too. Most of the time its almost worthless to reply to out of control threads.
*puts some xanax in water*
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi
I know we can easily skip over whatever bitchyness there is. It just sucks that everyone seems to be at eachothers throat lately...
Also... TM you are one of the clique sorry darlinSWFest Vegas made you one of the in crowd... you now are one of my lovers
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I don't know who the "clique" consists of. I make lovey comments sometimes to Paige or to Cally...or countless others who have said something I'd like to respond affectionatelly too... Sorry if they are annoying, we just mean good fun by it. I try to just be a friendly shell to everyone.





The tendencies to get OT with squishiness is really nothing new for this forum, and seriously nothing new for a social gathering of women of any sort. It may distract from the topic(s) on hand, but it could be so, so much worse. I dare say I don't see it changing anytime soon. It's kinda part of what makes SW what it is.
Number of times Rickrolled on stage: 6
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Annnnnnddddd, the clique rolls in. To be honest, I don't really care what lovey-doveyness goes on in SW (I like it sometimes of course, who doesn't!?). But then, when someone questions the "bitchiness", you all have to realizise that when a select few of you go on a tangent, it can be very alienating.
There are many other members on this forum and we all take the time to care about what you think. I don't hate nor dislike anyone, but when a "popluar" person makes a thread there are always plenty of responses, regardless of what it's about. I really like to hear what everyone has to say, but when some people are unable to respond because they feel intimidated/under attack, we are all getting a very slanted view.
P.S. I haven't even noticed anymore "bitchiness" than usual, we are (for the most part) all women, and its part of the package. But as seen in the few responses above, several people are on the gun defending eachother. Us "other" girls are just trying to tell you how we feel, not judging.
So by clique you mean girls who have over a thousand posts?
Umm... I dont see a difference in responses between a new member and a long time member... but hey maybe im blind because im part of the 'clique'
My reason for this post was because it seems everywhere I read girls are attacking eachother... its just gotten a little tense lately... maybe im just over sensitive![]()





Wow. So having friends = a clique? How so? Should we all just be anti social and/or anonymous? Cold? This forum isn't like that, nor should it be. People make friends. And really, this forum shows a lot of people who enjoy socializing with each other. When that many people are friendly with each other, it's hardly a clique. This isn't Mean Girls or Clueless, this is StripperWeb. Major difference in how things go on.
Number of times Rickrolled on stage: 6
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Marasmus ... "Ladies don't fart. They butt-laugh."
Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."
Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."
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