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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    I never read the child free thread ( or whatever the hell it was caused. ) I'm assuming this entire thread has spawned from it.,judging by the amount of times it's been mentioned during.

    At any rate, My question is why is ANYONE bothered by a message board for fucks sake.

    Who fucking cares about cliques?! seriously . This is a website that you can either go to or not go to. You can either be apart of discussions or NOT be apart of them. No one is forcing anyones hand.

    And while it would great if all threads stayed on track, does it matter at the end of the day?

    ITS THE INTERNET! fuck I swear. I don't get why a lot are rilled up over it. Because they don't get a degree of attention ? Or answers to specific questions? I can't figure it out.

    I take the entire " it's not that fucking important" I actually had someone msg me and ask if I was pissed that on my birthday no one started a happy birthday thread to me but did for pooka. Dude seriously...lol why would I get upset?

    UGH
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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    I don't see a pack mentality. I can only speak for myself but what I post I actually mean. I'm a grown-ass woman (Steve Harvey reference) so I post what I think. May be you should pm the members you don't believe. Put 'em to the test! I've done it. At least you'll know for sure where they're coming from!
    ^^I would if I cared more. But I don't. Like Tart said, it's just a forum. I would only pm someone if they really, really offended me.

    BTW, Tart, happy birthday! Can't believe someone actually pm'd you to find out if you were bothered tho.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSexKitten View Post
    I, too, still feel "out" of the cliques, despite over 1000 posts!

    Go figure. Maybe I'm smelly.
    Omg, I can smell you through my computer screen.
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    Default Re: What the hell is in the water?!

    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    I never read the child free thread ( or whatever the hell it was caused. ) I'm assuming this entire thread has spawned from it.,judging by the amount of times it's been mentioned during.

    At any rate, My question is why is ANYONE bothered by a message board for fucks sake.

    Who fucking cares about cliques?! seriously . This is a website that you can either go to or not go to. You can either be apart of discussions or NOT be apart of them. No one is forcing anyones hand.

    And while it would great if all threads stayed on track, does it matter at the end of the day?

    ITS THE INTERNET! fuck I swear. I don't get why a lot are rilled up over it. Because they don't get a degree of attention ? Or answers to specific questions? I can't figure it out.

    I take the entire " it's not that fucking important" I actually had someone msg me and ask if I was pissed that on my birthday no one started a happy birthday thread to me but did for pooka. Dude seriously...lol why would I get upset?

    UGH
    Ack! We missed Tarts birthday? They forgot mine too, till I posted my own. Happy birthday to tart though!

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    People always forget mine; I have no problem reminding them

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    ^ Yah i wasn't too concerned with it lol I was in Florida having a vaca with my other half. It's just funny to me how people depend on this board, and want to create havoc with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    People always forget mine; I have no problem reminding them
    You never got me anything for my birthday!!



    *stars pouting*


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    ^ Yah i wasn't too concerned with it lol I was in Florida having a vaca with my other half. It's just funny to me how people depend on this board, and want to create havoc with it.
    LOL forreal. People need to remember to put things in perspective.

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    ^ I totally agree. People are always saying that SW is addictive- and it is. I think one of the reasons that this board thrives so much is because people in our industry often have a lot of time on their hands. We can work fewer hours for more pay.

    I don't think that any "cliques" or whatever are the reason for the recent bitchiness though. I think it has to do with a lack of moderation and with people being judgemental. The fake i.d. thing was the one that made me the maddest, because when I did a search for other people who had asked that question, I found one from a "Goddess" member who recieved nothing but positive, even helpful replies.

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    With me, I'm just a tad bit jealous of the "cliques". It's hard for me to open up enough to make friends, so I don't do it easily and am jealous of those who can.

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    I don't have a great "big picture" answer to any of this, nor can I place total blame on any one person or specific group of people. Yes, I see some posters are more friendly with each other than with others. That's to be expected when you make friends anywhere. But to pick out who belongs in what clique and clearly define those "borders" would be really difficult for me to do.
    I think that there are posters here who are more popular and revered than others. I think of SW as an internet version of a really cool and big strip club, and the politics of SCs are generally pretty high school-ish. You have your popular girls and the not-so popular ones, then the ones who float around back and forth between the two. I kind of think of myself as the latter, but I have always been and always will be a loner at heart. I am used to most people not agreeing with me and I'm okay with that. It's just the manner in which they disagree that sometimes gets to me.

    There has been a lot of "group thinking" here and I can sense and even attest to the feelings of fear of saying things and getting bashed to shit because of ONE simple word or sentence that wasn't intended to be harmful but taken the wrong way. Some people have a tendency to be "yes-men" and enjoy unscrewing a jar lid that someone else already loosened so that they can take credit for someone else's thoughts inadvertently. Then it becomes an all out flame-fest because people like to feel validated in their opinions. That's human nature, but it gets really gross sometimes.
    Where are the Lounge mods anyway? Can mods from other sections intervene over here?

    I thought about apologizing for something here just to get the ball rolling, but I'm not quite sure what to apologize for honestly. I feel like all my thoughts have been pretty valid and I feel justified in typing them out here. I guess all I can say is that if I've unnecessarily contributed to a flame war against anybody, then I am sorry. I will still continue to post my opinions, even if they go against the grain...ESPECIALLY if they go against the grain and you can all be forewarned that I never intend for my posts to be flamey in nature, unless it is directed at Sophiemarie. I honestly don't post just to flame and I feel like my thoughts contribute to intelligent conversation. If people are offended by how I think, then I just ask that they don't respond to what I have to say because I am not a malicious sort of person for the sake of it, especially on the freakin' internet - jeez. People have to pay me to experience real degradation anyway. LOL


    Soooo.....while I am here:

    Happy Birthday, Miss Tart of Fabulousness!


    *cough*
    Just so everyone knows, mine is June 8th.

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    *yanks CF onto her lap* I'm not exactly the coolest kid in school or anything but I'll love me some CF!

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    *cuddle Pooka*

    *is not used to such friendliness and runs away*

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    People have to pay me to experience real degradation anyway. LOL
    )
    ^ high five!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    ^ high five!
    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    I don't have a great "big picture" answer to any of this, nor can I place total blame on any one person or specific group of people. Yes, I see some posters are more friendly with each other than with others. That's to be expected when you make friends anywhere. But to pick out who belongs in what clique and clearly define those "borders" would be really difficult for me to do.
    I think that there are posters here who are more popular and revered than others. I think of SW as an internet version of a really cool and big strip club, and the politics of SCs are generally pretty high school-ish. You have your popular girls and the not-so popular ones, then the ones who float around back and forth between the two. I kind of think of myself as the latter, but I have always been and always will be a loner at heart. I am used to most people not agreeing with me and I'm okay with that. It's just the manner in which they disagree that sometimes gets to me.

    There has been a lot of "group thinking" here and I can sense and even attest to the feelings of fear of saying things and getting bashed to shit because of ONE simple word or sentence that wasn't intended to be harmful but taken the wrong way. Some people have a tendency to be "yes-men" and enjoy unscrewing a jar lid that someone else already loosened so that they can take credit for someone else's thoughts inadvertently. Then it becomes an all out flame-fest because people like to feel validated in their opinions. That's human nature, but it gets really gross sometimes.
    Where are the Lounge mods anyway? Can mods from other sections intervene over here?

    I thought about apologizing for something here just to get the ball rolling, but I'm not quite sure what to apologize for honestly. I feel like all my thoughts have been pretty valid and I feel justified in typing them out here. I guess all I can say is that if I've unnecessarily contributed to a flame war against anybody, then I am sorry. I will still continue to post my opinions, even if they go against the grain...ESPECIALLY if they go against the grain and you can all be forewarned that I never intend for my posts to be flamey in nature, unless it is directed at Sophiemarie. I honestly don't post just to flame and I feel like my thoughts contribute to intelligent conversation. If people are offended by how I think, then I just ask that they don't respond to what I have to say because I am not a malicious sort of person for the sake of it, especially on the freakin' internet - jeez. People have to pay me to experience real degradation anyway. LOL


    Soooo.....while I am here:

    Happy Birthday, Miss Tart of Fabulousness!


    *cough*
    Just so everyone knows, mine is June 8th.
    AAWWWW...this almost made me cry....



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    There's bound to be some love for Esco in the air, no???


    *starts jumping up and down*



    ceases to jump up and down


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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    *cough*
    Just so everyone knows, mine is June 8th.
    I so *cough* never heard that *cough*


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    ^ dude take 50bucks and go into your strip club and ask for love. I hate desperate men when they want attention for free. desperation=money

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    Yeah, I got some love for ya' little boy! Just follow big Mama around the barn for a moment and let me show ya' something.......(I likes 'em young and hung).
    “What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    ^ dude take 50bucks and go into your strip club and ask for love. I hate desperate men when they want attention for free. desperation=money
    No way Tart, BTW.....desperate......50bucks???? HUH???



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    Seriously Esco, what is the point of your presence on the pink side at all? You aren't particularly helpful, funny, or have much to offer other than horning all over the female populus for free....

    Every other post from you is "It sounds like you need a ______!"

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    ^^
    u have to admit though he has been getting a lot of attention and not just on this thread so I'm not surprised he is sticking around on the pink side - positive reinforcement.

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    Ok, well here's my question:

    Why?!

    What the fuck is so entertaining about him? I think his excessive horn dog/whiny behaviour routine is stale.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    *cuddle Pooka*

    *is not used to such friendliness and runs away*
    From more of an "outsiders" perspective, you seem pretty "in" to me. But even if you didn't Corsica, you still have so much value as a contributer. Everyone needs to remember that: being a high post count member or a long standing one does not dictate the true value of you opinions. Rock it girls.

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    @ LL

    Thanks.

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