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    So it's dead here in AZ, I mean dead...like bury me alive because it couldn't be much worse than this kind of dead.

    That being said, I know when money gets tight, girls get a bit cut throat, but I never expected it from one of the girls I was "Friends" with.

    I danced for a guy, who was there with his friend, two dances, nice guy, not handsy at all and tipped me after. GREAT! He said he wanted to take a break but wanted to make sure I would come back around in a bit. Sure!

    A little while later I see my friend sitting on his friends lap, smiling at me and waves me over. So she and I flirt a bit, do the whole girl girl tease thing, and then I wink at my guy and tell him I'll see him in a minute. Off I go to do my stage.

    I get off stage, I go right over to him and see if he's ready for more. "Uhm, no...I can't. But thanks."
    Then my friend comes over and tells me this "So did you go to that guy over there? He's spending money! And he said he really liked you when you were on stage, he wouldn't get a dance from me because he wanted one from you...I may have done something bad though, he asked if you and I fool around outside of work and I told him no, because she's married. I hope that doesn't screw things up for you, good luck tonight."

    Oh come on!!!

    This is just after she pulls some weird, phsyco girlfriend thing on me earlier in the night. "Were you flirting with that girl over there? are you trying to make me jealous, because I'll tell you right now, I don't play well with others." And honestly, I could not tell if this was a joke or if I should back away slow.

    Stupid stupid stupid and stupid girls...I can't stand them!

    K, thanks, had to get it off my chest.




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    WTF??
    I would have gone back over to that guy and said, " soo...she told you I was married, huh? Did she mention that I'm married to a girl?? Or..." she said I'm married, huh? She only told you that cause she could tell that i really liked you, and she was jealous, cause she has a crush on me.

    Then I would have went back to that girl and said WFT bitch? Rule number 1. DO NOT fuck with my money. DO NOT talk about me to any customer, ever. D not tell them any of my personal business. Ever. Got it??

    At my club in Vegas, it is against the rules to tell customers dancers personal business. So if that happened to me, I would have went and told management. I'm not a tattle, but when it comes to my money....no one better stand in my way.

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    ^^Totally agree here







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    I should have said something to her, but I'm such a no drama person. Most likely when we go out ot have a smoke tonight or tomorrow I'll say something, but try to keep it level.

    As for the guy, yah, he was lost after that. I even went back to chat and flirt a bit more. Yah, he was shut off at that point.
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    Thats is such a BS loser-girl hustle. I would def. call her out on it AND I would have said something to the guy..."you really believed I was MARRIED??? Would I be here if I were MARRIED(of course you woul..but most guys believe that)...god, i cant believe her jealousy had gone that far as to LIE about me...."

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    Believe me, I am a no drama person. I do not bitch unnessessarily, and I pick my battles carefully. If I am speaking up, then I have a damn good reason for it. Someone screwing with my money is a damn good reason.
    there is a big difference between avoiding drama and standing up for yourself.
    And in this business, where it is your responsibility alone to make money, and business is that slow that every customer counts, You've gotta stand up for yourself.

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    i've seen a few girls almost get knocked the fuck out for messing with girls money by sharing their personal information.... i think thats the lowest thing any girl could ever do.. unforunately some people have no souls, and they simply will do whatever it takes to make their money.... even though i don't particularily care for some of the girls i work with, i would never sell them out like that... i really belive in karma, and what comes around goes around, kind of things..... I'm sorry this happened to you!!!

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    i actually had a similar incident that happened!!! a really good regular of mine, who had been coming in to see me for almost a year was sitting next to me at the bar... A girl i work with, comes over and goes "I really love your boyfriend's car, what kind of car is it, he seems like such a nice guy!" Oh, I about lost it right then and there... she tried to sugar coat the situation, and act like she didn't do anything, bc she knew i was gonna go to the manager who doesn't stand for shit like that....

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    Yep. I had the same situation happen to me and my friend with our regular. He would fly in from Milan on his way to LA every couple of months. (He was from Indy originally.) Anyways, he would come in and drink and we would do "bets". He would pick out a guy and say, "Get him to take you upstairs within 10 minutes, and I'll match the money for your VIP. If not, come back and I'll give you the money anyways." Needless to say, best reg ever. A girl last time he was in, told him that the other girl was married. No matter how much we talked to him about it, he was done. He had never asked us OTC, but knowing she was married and lied about it did him in. He hasn't been back since. There was nothing we could do though. We said something sure, but it didn't get a good custie back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne View Post
    i've seen a few girls almost get knocked the fuck out for messing with girls money by sharing their personal information.... i think thats the lowest thing any girl could ever do.. unforunately some people have no souls, and they simply will do whatever it takes to make their money.... even though i don't particularily care for some of the girls i work with, i would never sell them out like that... i really belive in karma, and what comes around goes around, kind of things..... I'm sorry this happened to you!!!
    I agree! I am very strong believer in karma also, which is why I let some things just go. Even if it's not work-related, they will get back what they give.

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    You definitely need to stand up for yourself to this chic. She was obviously fucking with your money. Jealous little twat

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    it's total bullshit that she did that. on the bright side, however, if he was asking if you fool around outside the club, he was probably more trouble than he was worth anyway.

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    What a fucking bitch! She will be regretting that when it picks up again.
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    What a loser. Visine for her (kidding).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    it's total bullshit that she did that. on the bright side, however, if he was asking if you fool around outside the club, he was probably more trouble than he was worth anyway.
    Yeah, aren't you even considering a little the fact that the guy basically asked if you were a hooker? He was a douche from that point on. They both suck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    Yeah, aren't you even considering a little the fact that the guy basically asked if you were a hooker? He was a douche from that point on. They both suck.
    Hehe, no I'm pretty sure he meant did SHE and I fool around outside the club. As in together. Because of the little girl/girl thing we did. When I danced for him he was actually a really nice guy. Not handsy at all, on the young side and tipped very well.

    So, to update, I went back to work last night. She was there, and guess who else was there?! Like I said, I'm not one for drama. But that means I don't like to cause a scene, no loud F you's etc.... But I'm also not one to let myself get walked on. Nuh-uh. So I pulled her aside and told her "Listen, you screwed up my money the other night, wether you meant to do it or not, I don't care, but I want it fixed. I'm sure you don't want to be known as that one stripper who runs her mouth. Some of the other girls might get pretty pissed off about that. So come with me and let's fix this."

    She and I had a really good working friendship, so I had to assume she'd go along. And she did, and we went back and flirted with the guy a bit, and then I took the advice of one of you girls and brought it up to the guy, and said "Oh yah, I'm totally married, to a chick, she's Fkn hot too!" then made a few jokes about it, she played along and we got them to loosen up. Long story short, by the end of it all, the guy went to VIP with me and spent around 80 bucks there and tipped me well on stage.

    So alls well that ends well. I did talk with her when we went for a smoke though and told her that not every girl would be laid back about that sort of thing, and wether she did it on purpose or not, she should be VERY careful about what she tells customers. There are some extremely rough girls at our club who would have no second thoughts about getting violent is someone screwed with them like that.

    Eh, The End.




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    yay, glad you stood up for yourself.. I had that happen the other night and the girl actually had the nerve to act confused that I was upset.. She asked did my husband know that I don't tell people I am married (actually engaged, but she said married) and I said of course! He's the one that helps me spend the money...In any case I I avoided her for the rest of the evening and made sure she knew why I was giving her the cold shoulder. Well, she did apolgize to me many times as well as to my "husband" when he came to pick me up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post

    Then I would have went back to that girl and said WFT bitch? Rule number 1. DO NOT fuck with my money. DO NOT talk about me to any customer, ever. D not tell them any of my personal business.
    Now that's the fucking TRUTH. In my book these are the universal rules.


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    Nicely-handed Exotic You made some money, set the girl straight, and did so in a very class manner. Awesome
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    you know girls do crap like that at my club all the time as well as play the girls against each other and while im so glad it worked out well for you behavior like that frustrates the hell out of me. Not that i ever would (cause it would end up bad for me in the end and bad for the rep of the club) but i swear sometimes i just want to do it back but rediculous and mean like tell them the girl has chronic explosive diareha or somthing crazy weird like that only in my dreams though
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    ^Oh I know, I have fun little daydreams in my head some nights when girls get bitchy and underhanded. But that's just not me. I've watched girls lose it in the club with another girl, and wether it was jsutified or not, I always sit back and see how it loosk through the customer's and other employee's eyes.

    I always think to myself "I'm going to be back here in a day or so, do I really want this following me?"

    Yes, bad shit happens, but I can't trust that if I tell a girl to stick it where the sun don't shine that she wont decide to freak out and cause a scene. So I try to find a way to deal with it on my own terms. If that makes any sense. Ya know Phx is a big city, but at the same time, it's small town, and I hear it all the time from one dancer talking to another dancer "Aren't you that girl who did such and such to so and so?" Or they'll talk about it behind another dancer's back "Oooh, I saw that girl before, she flipped out one time at this one club..."

    Not my kind of scene.




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    Exactly. Good thinking. She'll get hers anyway.
    One night, most likely when she needs $ the most, the karmic wheel will turn and the stripper Gods will frown upon her.........

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