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    So apparently my husband seems to be thinking that I'm sleeping with our bankruptcy lawyer. Um ew?

    Apparently while trying to send Kaylinn pictures for her Photoshop practicing, I sent them to our lawyer instead! On the way to housesit my parents dog I get a call from R saying he "Knows about me and our lawyer".

    I naturally have no idea what he's talking about, and he says while my computer was on he saw that I had sent pictures of myself, one being in my undies and a tank top, to our lawyer. I'm like no way, I sent them to Shane (Kaylinn) I even said in K's PS thread that I had sent her 2 more pics to make do with. Somehow I totally messed up and sent them to our lawyer, and now I can't find the email I sent Shana with my first set of pics, so R think's I'm lying.

    Naturally I checked my email, and sure enough I sent them to the wrong damn person. I think what happened is I typed the first letter of K's email, it came up with a list of possibles like it always does in Gmail, and I didn't scroll down far enough to select K's email and selected the lawyer's instead. So the first thing I did was send our lawyer a huge apology telling him how embarrassing this was, and I apologized.

    R also found a myspace message from my friend D joking about me "always being his sweetheart".. Total joke, we are like brother and sister and never anything else, and of course R flipped out, saying I was flirting. Pfft. Me and D? Riiiight.

    Seriously, if I was having an affair or fucking around, would I be stupid enough to leave my computer on when Im not home, share my SW and MS passwords, and basically tell him I have nothing to hide? Oh yeah, I sound like a reeeaalll cheater.

    He says it's over. I told him if he really believes this story he has up in his head, than I have nothing further to say. I tried explaining I emailed the wrong person, but he'll hear nothing of it.

    Fucking sucks my husband can't even believe his wife isn't perfect and makes mistakes. Le sigh.

    I need some thoughts on all this, and I'm pretty sure he'll read this, so maybe it'll knock some sense into his head.

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    Oh my god. This is HORRIBLE. First off, I am so sorry this happened to you.

    Second, why is he so incredibly suspicious that he'd dismiss any explanation and just say "It's over." Why is he being so insecure? Doesn't he know you better than that? I thought you guys were tight. Maybe he's just under a lot of stress right now, feeling down and out (bankruptcy...geez. I can't even imagine!) and is just flipping out.

    It's funny, cause I just checked that thread Kaylinn posted about photoshop today and saw your post on there that you were sending her pics...Would it matter if you showed him that?

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    It wouldn't matter.

    I told him he'd get what he was pushing for ( he likes to threaten divorce and hold it over my head) so I said we'll sit down and talk about separation tomorrow when I get home.

    Something else that's funny? He must have read this already, because his last email said "Why dont you try SW!", when he just made a public post all about me. An guess what? It's all severely one sided.

    His last email could have sucked me into the argument he was looking for to feel validated with his paranoia, but I stopped myself and said he got his wish.

    Why fight with him? Either way he has this fantasy in his head that I couldn't have possibly made a mistake here.

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    hopefully he will wakeup tomorrow realizing what a fool he's been. so sorry CF that this all is happening to you. but it sounds like he's awfully insecure, any reason why that'd be beyond all the stress? why accuse you of not one but two sep. affairs? it sounds as if something is really going on in his head and maybe needed an excuse to behave like a jackass?
    i hope this gets better honey.


    eta: also began to remember that he didnt want you to be dancing, and now that you are again maybe he's let the massive insecurities take hold? threatening divorce and lording it over you is so effing manipulative and now i firmly dont like him. but, i am uber against manipulation in any form.

    Love it!

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    I sent him a link to the PS thread and said if he could see how I was proved to be telling the truth, then he really does WANT to have wild fantasies in his head.

    And no, there is no reason to accuse your wife of such nasty things, and then insist that her explanations couldn't possibly be true.

    Wanna know what he replied with when I said this:

    "Seriously, if I was having an affair or fucking around, would I be stupid enough to leave my computer on when Im not home, share my SW and MS passwords, and basically tell him I have nothing to hide? Oh yeah, I sound like a reeeaalll cheater.
    "
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    "Oh, you were just buying time so you could think of excuses and then left it out for me to see when you had enough of them"

    WTH?

    Also:

    "Of COURSE those SW girls will side with you!!"

    ETA @ Chrissy: I'm not dancing anymore hun. Haven't since last February.

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    OMG!! I feel sooo bad!

    What can I do? Want me to email back the pics you sent me the first time?

    Although....It's deeper than that. He should trust you and believe you. You shouldn't need to prove anything.

    I thought that my email was broke when you said you sent more and I never recievd them, or I thought maybe the file was to large and it was rejected and bounced back or something..

    Oh my...Im so sorry. If I can help, let me know.....

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    Apparently now I have hacked and fabricated my way to making that whole Photoshop thread and it's replies, or I've collaborated with other members with my status to make up something.....

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    What if I foward the pics you sent me to HIM. Would that prove it?
    OMG!

    I wanna stay out of it, its much deeper than this, his insecurities, his mistrust....but...I feel really bad...Cause I KNOW your telling the truth.....and it's soo obvious you are. Why can't he see that?

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    ^ Geez. Girl, this sounds like it must be just the tip of the iceberg as far as issues go. Insecurities much? CF, I hope you can figure this out. What a stressful situation. I think its incredibly rude of him to drag you through this emotional gauntlet for something you didn't even do.

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    Sorry babe, but what a tool he is..... has he always been this insecure?? I have to agree with the others on the fact that he must have some major trust issues, and of course we don't know you and your man's history. On the other hand, I feel you, because I have the worst luck with things appearing in a shifty way when in reality somehow I just bungled things up and made them seem different. If that makes any sense, hah. I really hope things turn out for the best.
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    I SAW that post where Kaylinn was all 'Umm... I didn't get any photos'.... argh!


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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    Apparently now I have hacked and fabricated my way to making that whole Photoshop thread and it's replies, or I've collaborated with other members with my status to make up something.....
    Holy shit you're THAT good at hacking?! Man there's a credit card I need you to get me.


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    Wow. You don't need that shit, honey. Seriously, if you lost this guy it sounds like you'd be getting rid of a huge manipulative headache and you could go back to dancing (if you wanted to) and live your life for you.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    Wow. You don't need that shit, honey. Seriously, if you lost this guy it sounds like you'd be getting rid of a huge manipulative headache and you could go back to dancing (if you wanted to) and live your life for you.
    wow Lena.... happy to see what supports the escaping spouse, good for you, you have a conviction, name calling someone you ain't met to justify your own existance.

    so... let her go... I don't quite care other than the stir she's causing... had she gone gently into that sweet night, she would not be suffering from these illusions of grandeuere. So speak you, go on the record, let us move on and see what's next.

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    ...............................wtf?? Am I missing something??
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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    wow Lena.... happy to see what supports the escaping spouse, good for you, you have a conviction, name calling someone you ain't met to justify your own existance.

    so... let her go... I don't quite care other than the stir she's causing... had she gone gently into that sweet night, she would not be suffering from these illusions of grandeuere. So speak you, go on the record, let us move on and see what's next.

    Corsica, is this your husband using your account?
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    Oh now THAT makes sense.


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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    Apparently now I have hacked and fabricated my way to making that whole Photoshop thread and it's replies, or I've collaborated with other members with my status to make up something.....
    Dude. I moderate that section and I can't even do that! WTF?
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    dude, that's really mature. *sarcasm* the ladies are just giving your wife support.

    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    "Of COURSE those SW girls will side with you!!"
    those sw guys will also side with you.

    corsicafire's husband,
    i've seen your wife post about you many times. in the short time i've been (relatively) active here i can see she genuinely loves you and is actually very proud of you. the financial troubles you both are having are contibuting to this situation/tension but you need to take a step back and talk with her, not at her.

    her being on here and "talking" to us is just bantering. you and she need to sit down and talk and see what's the issue. you need to accept what she's saying as the truth and she needs to do the same! she needs to listen to your concerns and not deny your concerns (i'm not saying admit to something that isn't there, just accept that your concerns are real to you).

    only from that point of view you each can see the other's issues and not just take "opposing" positions but try to see each other's concerns.

    i've been cheated on. i had 3rd-party proof. it's a sucky feeling. so i do know how you (think) you feel but i don't think you're accurate here. i do think corsica made a simple mistake on the email.

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    Fucking hell, he posted as me. That's it. I'm changing this password; he wonders why I don't want him on here!!

    And for the record I have gotten this weird poetic stuff all night and he is scaring me....

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    Fucking hell, he posted as me. That's it. I'm changing this password; he wonders why I don't want him on here!!

    And for the record I have gotten this weird poetic stuff all night and he is scaring me....
    Hon (Corsica....not her hubby!).....please take care of yourself. Hasn't he done this before? I don't know the guy, but this behavior is very disturbing.
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    Corsica hun, I'm feelin you right now;

    .

    I can tell you that this has happened to me. I wrote a sexy detailed erotica for my then fiancee and sent it to him e-mail (or so I thought...) .

    Well, how come my AUNT received it ?!?! :crawling into a hole and hiding: !!!

    It was sooo raunchy that she couldn't bring herself to confront me about it and sent my little 14 year old cousin to ask me what that was about , which mortified me.

    So CF's husband, ummm, yeah - (Sh)It happens, especially when you are a sociable person and your address book is well listed.

    This might never happen, say, to someone who has about TWO people on their address book .

    For the record: Now, I ALWAYS double-check the "Send" section before clicking it. I do NOT want to go through that again!

    Money problems always seem to bring out the worse in people, hence, "Money is the root of all evil" . I hope this resolves itself Corsica.

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    R, I haven't forgotten what happened last year. I care a lot about CorsicaFire and you need to find a better way to deal with what's going on. She has a lot of friends here who are not going to allow you to treat her poorly.

    & As for the accidental e-mail, I've done it, it was how my aunt's family found out I was a dancer, I sent something to my cousin instead of my friend. It was the difference of one eighth of an inch clicking on the auto-address feature.

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    He says I'm attention whoring by posting this thread. Well dammit, he's right about that- it's not like HE is rational enough to pay me any good kind of attention. He calls me needy and demanding when I need attention, and that makes me need it even more!

    And apparently I should send pictures to ANYONE, even if it's a female friend. And also since I accidentally sent it to a male address book entry, he thinks that now me and my lawyer are lovers (which seriously makes me want to vomit)....

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    You are not attention whoring. This is your support. These people are your friends. Real friends. You lean on your friends when times are tough. Like when your SO is exhibiting distrubing behavior, for example.

    Truly disurbing.

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