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    Default How to STEAL a regular 101:

    Ok, so Saturday night, I ran into this guy who I've spent some time with in the past and got alot of dances from. I wouldn't consider him a regular though. Anyway, there is a girl at my club who I've never seen before *dancer A*. The customer, let's call him Rick told me that he's been seeing dancer A on and off for about 4-5 years, and that as much as he loves talking and buying dances from me, he doesn't want to lose his "friendship" with dancer A.

    Oh, and then he informed me that she's the jealous type, and he doesn't want her to be mad at him for buying dances from another girl...

    Why do girls do this? This dude literally has no backbone, and it really upsets me. I feel like as a customer, he should be able to come in the club, kick back, relax and buy dances from whomever..

    He even told me that's one of the things he misses..the fact that he cant' just come in anymore and relax and buy from whomever..he has to constantly make sure dancer A isn't on the premises.

    When she wasn't around, he snuck up and approached me asking me to PLEASE come in on Tues. because that day Dancer A would not be working...







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    Default Re: How to STEAL a regular 101:

    Well if you go in on Tuesday and see him, ask him straigtht out why he continues to go to Dancer A if he is nervous around her etc...He should be able to just come and hang out. I dont know why girls do this either... it is annoying, but worse are the guys like him who get like that towards ANY girl.

    Your mission now should be to try and steal him.

    Say, " I dont see her name tattooed on you so you are fair game" or something silly.

    Good luck

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    I hate when guys are like this! Tuesday sounds like guaranteed money. I would go in. If he mentions his "girlfriend" just laugh it off. I don't know what you could do about her much beyond that point.

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    Argh-that is absolutely ridiculous. What are they, married? This guy seriously needs to grow a pair.

    I always thought one of the beauties of strip clubs for men was that they could have variety with none of the excess baggage/jealousy/ bullshit that they get in the real world.

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    I'd be wary of the guy. Custy's who like to cause drama between girls usually pull shit like that and badmouth them to eachother. Play your cards close to the vest and don't say anything remotely negative.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    I'd be wary of the guy. Custy's who like to cause drama between girls usually pull shit like that and badmouth them to eachother. Play your cards close to the vest and don't say anything remotely negative.
    Well, I woudln't necessarily say he was badmouthing her to me, moreso a cry for help One thing I never do, is bad mouth anybody! So we shall see...







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    Yea, it's just that I have a regular who does that. He always says, "She'll get jealous, she wants me all to herself, blah blah blah", but he has a reputation for causing drama like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Yea, it's just that I have a regular who does that. He always says, "She'll get jealous, she wants me all to herself, blah blah blah", but he has a reputation for causing drama like that.
    Girl, for the brief time that I got to sit with him..here comes dancer A like, "Rick, I can't find my cell phone...do you have it" no he didnt' have it. So then she says, "well maybe I left it in VIP, come help me look for it " So she turns to walk away toward vip, he tells me he'll BRB. Comes back, no phone...So I tell her, "well did you ever think it may be in the back" so she went back there...

    Oh and did I mention when she approached us, she wrapped her arms around him, and was like, "baby did you need another beer? I'll buy you another one" WTF chick







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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    Oh and did I mention when she approached us, she wrapped her arms around him, and was like, "baby did you need another beer? I'll buy you another one" WTF chick

    Muhaha. That's not desperate at allllll!
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    Default Re: How to STEAL a regular 101:

    I hope this doesnt make me a bitch, but I'd take it as a sign that you could easily push him around too.



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    Default Re: How to STEAL a regular 101:

    I think girls like this are ridiculous. But I also think some guys like dancers who get possessive over them, it makes them feel special or something.

    There is this idiot who comes into my club and tries to cause drama between the girls. He gets dances from me but I'll only ever make between $50 and $100 off him so believe me I dont care about him and no one else does either as he spends the entire night in the club wasting people's time.

    Well on sat he came in and one of the other dancers who he used to get dances off told me that when she went up to speak to him he said "Oh be careful talking to me u will get me in trouble" pointing to me.
    WTF??
    Her and I just laugh about it as we both know he is just a shit talker.

    Just be careful that this guy is not about drama like the customer I described above.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Yea, it's just that I have a regular who does that. He always says, "She'll get jealous, she wants me all to herself, blah blah blah", but he has a reputation for causing drama like that.
    Is it [email protected]#*s? He loves to have girls fawning all over him
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    ^Yup. He gets mad at me regularly because I don't buy into his crap and make it clear that I do not need him with every fiber of my being. But then he always comes crawling back. When he tried to start saying that stuff about B***i (thin, sweetest girl EVER, long dark curly hair, disappears for weeks sometimes), I almost laughed in his face.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    I hope this doesnt make me a bitch, but I'd take it as a sign that you could easily push him around too.
    No, it doesn't make you out like a bitch. I am not very assertive (I know far fetched from my SW persona lol) so I dont know if I could push him around.. Hell, I dont even know how to start pushing someone around







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    Ugh, I hate that crap!

    I go into work one ngiht and this girl comes running up to me "Oh! You weren't here the other night and your regular came in and he spent over an hour with this Ho in the VIP! OMG!"

    So, I wasn't here....and even if I was, he can get adacne from who he wants. The last thing I want is for some guy to assume we have claim over eachother. Blech, gag.

    Then the idiot comes in, looking like his tail is between his legs... "I cheated on you with another girl here, I'm sorry, don't be mad at her okay, we fooled around." Gross! No details please! Get your jollies and leave me out of it! Seriously, I enjyo having a regular (when they're not creepy Jaba The Hut guys who drool) but they do not belong to me....or HER for that matter.

    And these girls play into this crap! "she's trying to steal your guy!" Uhm, you can't steal what doesn't belong to me, if he wants her, then he can ask for her. I jsut make sure I do my best to make him want me!




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    ^^^I've had guys like you are describing. Not the drama seeking, hoping to start a fight in the DR kind (had those too). I just sit them down and try to tell them that this isn't a marriage or a serious relationship. This is the ONE Place in the WORLD (other than maybe a brothel or swingers club) where you can waltz in, pick whatever woman you want, have her undivided attention and "affection" and then pick another. And another. And another. No strings, no headaches, no drama. It's "playing the field" in a way you never can in real life. I try to explain this to them in a way that makes me seem suuuuuuper cool, laid back and non-jealous. Like, "Baby, you need to stop worrying about women so much and just thinka bout yourself." They're ALWAYS like, "Y'know what...I think you're right!" It's liberating for them when they realize this.

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    I told that guy this ^ ^ ^ "I don't care who you dance with babe, I think it's hot to imagine you dancing with such and such. I want you to have fun and play as much as you want. Really. No jealousy here, it's all fun." Then I get the "Oh, but I don't want you to feel hurt."


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    Okay -
    a) clearly there is something that he likes about it. Because he CAN come in, kick back, and buy from whomever and is choosing not to.
    b) she has every right to maximize her money making potential. If any of my customers would tolerate that, I would absolutely do it. Seriously - love the other girls, but why would I want them getting $100 or $200 if I could have it myself? Simply telling him that she wants him to spend his money on her isn't doing anything to you, and it isn't doing anything "wrong".
    c) the inverse being, so do you. By all means, go in on Tuesday and try to make him like you better, but don't build a catfight out of nothing.
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    Sounds like he needs to grow a pair.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Simply telling him that she wants him to spend his money on her isn't doing anything to you, and it isn't doing anything "wrong".
    c) the inverse being, so do you. By all means, go in on Tuesday and try to make him like you better, but don't build a catfight out of nothing.
    No, there is nothing wrong w/ telling a custy you want him to spend all his money on you. But I think it is wrong to make a customer feel like if he spends money on anyone else, then their "relationship" will have a problem. That was the main thing "Rick" was worried about..losing a friend of 4-5yrs..

    Secondly, I don't do catfights...EVER!







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    That wasn't an accusation of starting actual fights, CK - but we do have a bit of a tendency to blame other girls for customer decisions. The girl isn't underbidding you. She isn't being discourteous in any way. She isn't doing extras. The only person with a right to complain is the customer, and he evidently ain't doin it. He obviously likes her more than he wants to get dances from whomever. Again - I don't think boycotting customers who opt to get dances from multiple girls would be, you know, effective for me, but I can't agree that there is anything wrong with her using her juice to ensure that he spends his club money on her rather than you. She isn't lying to him and I really can't see that what she is doing is unethical (like I said, I can't imagine it to be effective in most cases, but it takes all kinds). You're blaming her because the customer is not spending at your convenience. That is, ultimately, his decision, not hers.
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    Clearly this customer enjoys that kind of treatment from Dancer A, because if he really disliked it he could just stop coming to the club. Some people love being treated like shit; it makes them feel special or something.

    Me, I've never been one to try to set the world straight or solve anybody's personal disfunction while at work. I just want to make the most money possible with the least possible drama. The last thing I would want to do would be to tell this customer to grow a pair and stop seeing Dancer A, even thought that's clearly what he ought to do. As soon as you say that he will go squealing back to her ..."CinnamonKisses told me I should just stop dancing with you"...and then you will REALLY be in some shit for "stealing" a regular.

    I would go in on Tuesday (assuming I didn't have anything else to do) and dance for him. Make whatever money I could, and say as little as possible about Dancer A. If he wanted to talk about her, I'd say I'd never seen her before and don't know her at all (this is true, right?) but she sure has the nicest shoes/hair/whatever dumb thing I could think of to compliment. If he tells her about the visit, I'd play dumb and sweet and say, yes, he came to see me, and we talked about you and he really likes you. I'd go for de-escalation and deniability. That is, IF I thought he was going to spend a lot of money on me in the first place and make all the hassle worth it. Because believe me, THERE WILL be hassle.
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    Default Re: How to STEAL a regular 101:

    Help me figure this out:
    1) The guy's an obviously creating a relationship where none exists between Dancer A and himself.
    2) Dancer A is obviously exploiting the guy's classic "PL" mentality to insure she's got a steady income.
    3) We can't stand this kind of shit ourselves.

    Why is anyone advising anyone to go out of her way for this guy? Forget about him! Dance for him if he's got the balls to ask for you whenever you normally work there.

    I mean, Dottie says that this is the one place in the world that a guy can come in and spend time with any girl he wants. To some extent (we all need the money, I know), so can we. If you don't like a custy, don't spend time with him. Especially don't go out of your way to spend time with him.

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    CK, don't worry about that girl! You know how it can get like that at work sometimes. I would ask him why he feels like he can't get dances from whomever he chooses. You better come in tonight!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    I'd be wary of the guy. Custy's who like to cause drama between girls usually pull shit like that and badmouth them to eachother. Play your cards close to the vest and don't say anything remotely negative.
    You've hit the nail right on the head.

    I've got a quasi-regular who acts like that. He's a VIP member so he's always hanging around the club and reckons he knows all the girls so well that he refers to them by their "real" names when talking to other dancers, phfft.

    Basically, he's just an egotistical two-faced idiot who loves to spin drama out of nowhere and probably does that because he likes being on the power trip. My friend and I usually egg him on just to test what tripe he's capable of pulling and most of it is just pure gold. Either he's playing dumb or playing along, but either way it's hilarious.


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