Ok, so there is this dancer that I've been seeing pretty often lately and I've started to like her a lot. We kiss, we DFK, and she even remembers my name. Now before you flame me, we all know, including me, that she's just doing her job and probably has no interest in me at all OTC.
I guess what I need advice on is how do I ask her to stop leading me on without insulting her, looking like an asshole, and making things weird. (The kissing, I don't mind a bit though).
She tells me things that I have no idea how to respond to, things that are really tragic, then she'll look really upset and like she's about to cry and so I hold her and tell her "Awww, I'm sorry..." I mean I can't really call her out on it, cause what if what she tells me is true. Basically, she gives me these BF roles which would be fine if I was her BF, but I'm not and I dont want to get lead on and hurt. I'm pretty young and naive so I fall for this shit pretty easily.



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. Dancers who are good at reading their customers will know when they have a white knight customer who likes the feeling of being a provider (be it monetary or just a shoulder to cry on). Being an actress is part of their role and as long as you keep telling her it's ok through your behavior (i.e., cash flow does not change therefore it must be an acceptable arrangement to you), everything will remain status quo.


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