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    Default Getting undressed in the first song.

    I'm not sure if this is a question or more of a discussion point, but...

    ...Dances at my club are 35 bucks, topless, very low mileage. I notice a lot of dancers say on here to very slowly get undressed as to get them to buy more dances and so on. The problem is, I think if I were to do that, most people would get pissed off or feel ripped off. People at my club seem to want the most bang for their buck--Which is very little here--So they want to see the girl naked and all that immediatly. They don't seem to be very big sensualists.

    How should I handle this, if at all?

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    Do what you feel works best for your club. You may take off your top right off the bat, but start the dance slower, and slowly build up the heat of the dance. Dont bust out your best move right up front, save em for the end of the dance. If I were you...

    I would slowly, sexily strip, but maybe only take 30 seconds doing it, just make a big production out of it. Tease him with it, slowly unhooking the top, hold it to your breasts for a second, then slowly let it fall, bend over and slowly slip down your bottoms...just take it slow, sexy, and tease. Then when your naked, dance in front of him, teasing him...and just slowly build it up. Lean down and brush yrou hair against him, or lightly touch his shoulder..

    I personally dont hold out getting topless. I get topless within seconds of starting the dance. Because as a customer, it annoys me when dancers dont take off their tops. I payed for boobs, I wanna see boobs, dammit! So as a dancer, I take off my top quickly, but do it sexy, and dance slowly, and build up my tease, still leaving them wanting more.

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    Default Re: Getting undressed in the first song.

    Helle, I take my time undressing too. Most men love the teasing aspect of making them wait. Don't get me wrong, I'm not taking 2min out of a 4min song to get undressed..maybe 30-40 seconds. I also dont' immediately jump in their laps to dance either. I've noticed that when I take my time, and tease I get more repeat dances.







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    To quote Mammy from Gone With the Wind: "What gent'muns says and what they means is two different things." They think they just want to see tits and they'll tell you they want you to just rip it all off in a hurry. However, if you look at what actually gets them hot and bothered, it's going to be the girl who teases them. The tease will draw them in and keep their attention long after they get bored with the girl who spent her whole set naked. This is why we don't just walk around naked at work; they want to be titillated. Fantasy and the tease are a huge part of seduction, and it's what strippers deal in. That's what separates us from streetwalkers.

    I'm not saying you should wait until the last minute before taking it all off, but you should make a show of it and draw it out. I'm a big fan of layering and wearing multi-piece outfits onstage for this reason; it gives you more to strip out of. Remember how burlesque artists would make such a huge production out of removing their gloves?

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    Default Re: Getting undressed in the first song.

    I take mine off slowly too. Not only is it about the tease and seduction of the dance but it eats up time, lol!

    You just have to do it in a way that doesn't seem like stalling, if you can pull it off nobody will complain!

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    Default Re: Getting undressed in the first song.

    I agree with the other ladies who posted, do the tease, 30 seconds isnt going to kill them,lol. I have never worked ina "low profile" type place like you are speaking of, so I have no hard experience with that, but men are men, no matter, and in general I have found they like to be teased a little, even if they think and or say they dont

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    Default Re: Getting undressed in the first song.

    I do "the peek"

    show your nipple, then cover it back up.
    Then snow a bit of butt cleavage
    Pull your panties aside

    Its the same idea as how a girl thats completley naked isnt as hot as a girl wearing crotchless panties just as an example... does that make sence?

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    Default Re: Getting undressed in the first song.

    Kaylinn's right, it depends on the club.

    At my club, if I took a whole 40 seconds to get undressed, guys would be like, WTF is going on. The other girls are grinding the shit out of the guy's crotch by then. One girl told me today she grinds the shit out of the guys' crotches to get multiple dances. Whatever.
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    Default Re: Getting undressed in the first song.

    ^ side note, watched a dancer across from me in VIP do this for a 3 song for 100 dance and after the third song she presumably told him that was it and he said very loudly, "But i didnt cum yet!!" my custy and i burst out laughing. he clearly wasnt going to pay for more than $100 worth.

    Love it!

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    Default Re: Getting undressed in the first song.

    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    To quote Mammy from Gone With the Wind: "What gent'muns says and what they means is two different things." They think they just want to see tits and they'll tell you they want you to just rip it all off in a hurry.
    hahaaa that made my day. In your club, OP, because the attraction/premise of a dance is still based on a tease, you SHOuld be able to take a bit of time (30 seconds out of a 3.5 min dance, perhaps) to strip your top off. Guys are paying for a fantasy.

    In my club, guys aren't paying for the tease, they're paying for mileage. grahhh. i know of NO ONe (well, our rooms are private- but we see a bit when we pass each other) who takes more than 5 seconds to strip down to nothing... occasionally you'll get a sensual guy who'll want to help you get undressed, or even one that'll ASK for a dance w/ panties on (god bless his heart) but the tease aspect left my club a long time ago. If it still exists in your club, then by george use it!

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    Default Re: Getting undressed in the first song.

    I always take my top off right when they sit down, but leave both bottoms on. About halfway through the first song, I turn around and bend over and slide off the outermost pair. (The undies stay on.) That way they get boobs right away, and then later a little ass...

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    Default Re: Getting undressed in the first song.

    Ive done the slow sensual thing, and, for me, it doesnt work well AT ALL. Guys have gotten pissed off that I took more than 10 seconds to take my top off and that I didnt grind the hell out of their laps. They've complained to management about me, too. So it really depends on yr club. I figure the reason they didnt like my dances were because most of the girls were grinding and topless the second the song started...

    ever since Ive picked up my pace, Ive noticed that I get more dances..usually two or three instead of one...

    My suggestion is to notice what the other girls around you do. Look at the top earners...how do they dance? what do they do? are they sensual? or faster paced? at my club, the three girls who make the most ($600-$1000 a night instead of the $400-$500 I make on a good night) do all out fast paced wham-bam kind of dances and tend to get more dances that way. Not all men are the same...different areas of the world are used to different types of dances. I live in between Boston and NYC - two very fast-paced cities, and, in turn, people tend to want a fast paced environment.

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