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    Would you rather get paid to talk or to dance?

    I personally would rather just dance. I find that whenever I just get paid for conversation the guy expects me to spend more time with him than I would spend if I was dancing for the same amount of money. I hate to admit it and I dont know why but I also kind of feel that I should spend a little extra time with him too.
    It's also harder for me to interupt conversation to ask for more money whereas I can easily do this when dancing (our club has a pre payment policy for dances).

    Also I just dont have anything to talk about with most men. The younger ones I do but some guys just bore me to tears and I would rather just dance for them and not have to talk.

    The exception to this is if a guy is really cool and not asking me out. I had a guy one night pay me $500 to sit and drink and talk and he was actually ok to talk to.

    So what do u ladies prefer?

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    Talking. I can keep his attention far longer with conversation than I can with dancing.
    However...I will tell them, you want to talk? Lets go to VIP wher eI can hear you better, the music isnt as loud. I get paid the same in VIP.
    I would not sit on the floor and chat unles sit was clear it woudl be the same price as VIP.

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    Default Re: get paid to talk or dance?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    I would not sit on the floor and chat unles sit was clear it woudl be the same price as VIP.
    That's what I do too. I let guys know I'm totally game for just talking, but I let them know it's going to cost them the same amount of money that it would if I was dancing.

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    Either - it depends on how long the booking is too. I love dancing but dancing for an hour or more can get a bit long for instance, or even if youve just had a really busy night its nice to sit down and chat sometimes. I can talk about just about anything and everything though and find I can get an interesting conversation out of people more often than not, so it really doesnt worry me.

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    Oh yeh I guess it makes a diff if the club has a CR or not. My club doesn't have a CR - it's not very common, I think the only club in Melbourne that has one is Spearmint Rhino which is run like the US clubs.

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    I would much rather get paid for my time and conversation, but the customers that do that are way harder to come across than those that would buy a dance.

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    to talk.. im lazy lol..

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    Default Re: get paid to talk or dance?

    I voted talk - but I've never been paid to just talk to anybody. Boo! That's what you get for workin in Houston I guess. Always want more. Maybe I can find some like that in SA!

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    I voted talk - but I've never been paid to just talk to anybody. Boo! That's what you get for workin in Houston I guess. Always want more. Maybe I can find some like that in SA!

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    Default Re: get paid to talk or dance?

    I usually end up just chatting it up through half the dance anyways, so chat for sure.
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    Default Re: get paid to talk or dance?

    I've only read the original post.

    I voted either.

    I would prefer someone to pay me to do both actually. I also try to do both ... I dance then stop and have a chat.. then I allow the customer to decide if he would rather me chat or continue dancing...

    I'm an avid talker. I can talk and dominate the conversation for three hours or more... talking about absolute utter crap... going from one topic to another to another and maybe re-visiting topics I've already spoken about.

    How? I'm also an avid blog reader and love listening to the stories of other girls. I then transplant these stories and make them part of my life and/or the lives of my friends... or friends of friends... or even speak about what happened the other night at the club.

    This only works for customers who want me to dominate the conversation. Otherwise, I can also play "listener" and know how to still dominate the conversation without actually talking It is a skill.

    If you can learn how to dominate the conversation whether you are talking or not then you will never have any troubles asking to continue the dance... you'll know how to direct the conversation (whether you are speaking or not) into continuing...

    And besides... dancing all the time is more draining for me than chatting.



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    Gee most voted chat. I am pretty shy for a dancer I guess and I find conversations more confronting than showng my cooch to strangers LOL.
    I always run out of things to say esp to older customers that I have nothing in common with.

    As I said if its a down to earth normal man i can do it. if its a draining emotionally needy guy i cant fake being interested, im not a good actress.

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    Default Re: get paid to talk or dance?

    Honestly it depends on the guy, theres some that I can't wait to dance for and get away from, then some I could chat with for hours. In the end I have to say I'd rather talk. I have one regular (once a month due to work, but still a regular) who pays me about 300 an hour to talk, then spends about 100-200 dancing. The only downfall, excluding this guy I usually get more if I'm paid to dance, of course I wear out quicker as well that way.

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    I find I make more dancing more often then not, but if I'm getting the same, chat and dance (to cover lulls in convo). In vip rooms I mostly only chat, but on the floor I can dance my ass off!

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    I like to work smarter, and not harder..I'd much rather sit and chat than work up a sweat dancing on some guy, feeling her tini penis against my thigh..

    It saves my mental as well. If I have a pay for convo with a customer, Im' much less likely to be mentally drained.







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    Default Re: get paid to talk or dance?

    I voted dance. When customers pay you to talk, they rarely pay as much than if you were getting paid per song. Also, talking to some guys is just tiring.
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    Default Re: get paid to talk or dance?

    I prefer talking. I can keep a guy in the champagne room for longer if I get a good convo going, with dancing it's like one room then thats it.

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    Default Re: get paid to talk or dance?

    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Gee most voted chat. I am pretty shy for a dancer I guess and I find conversations more confronting than showng my cooch to strangers LOL.
    I always run out of things to say esp to older customers that I have nothing in common with.

    As I said if its a down to earth normal man i can do it. if its a draining emotionally needy guy i cant fake being interested, im not a good actress.
    I'm similar. While dancing, I often found myself without a single word to say to the customers. While I'm happy to get paid for either (hell, money is money), it's much better for me if they do the talking, since, despite my mouthiness online, I'm actually extremely introverted and shy in person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss marina View Post
    to talk.. im lazy lol..

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    I voted Dance, but thinking about it, I guess combo would be good. Like Pooka, I got used to working in clubs where guys refuse to pay for talking, and VIP rooms just mean dirtier dances for the same price. However, Pookita, it WILL happen, even in Houston! I have definately been paid just to talk, but it hasn't happened often enough. Even in "time-based" VIP rooms, if I was talking, I preferred to be in my underwear, making some type of dancereque movements, to keep it interesting.

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    I voted chat...as long as the money is equal to dancing, and hopefully we're in the VIP so I can drink.

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    ^^ Yes, assuming the MONEY is actually equal, I definitely prefer to talk. Much rarer, but so much easier and much more interesting. If you get a guy who pays EQUALLY for conversation, chances are he actually has something to say.

    Personally, there's only so many body slides and creative grinding maneuvers I can do before *I* am bored out of my skull, whereas I can talk and listen for hours - and am happy to do so in the club, provided (a) it doesn't get into my personal life and (b), as stated, as long as the money is equal. Hell, if it's by the hour, I'd even take a SLIGHT cut in pay if I don't have to circle my boobs around his face for the 500th flippin' freakin' time.

    Unfortunately, the $$$ really is the x-factor in the equation.
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    I voted talk. Easier on my back and feet! Plus dancing for a long period of time to me...just gets boring. I mean...theres only so many moves I have!
    Plus the guys who have paid for my conversation usually have given me WAY more then I would have made dancing. Probably because they liked ME and wanted to spend time with ME...as opposed to guys who just want a girl to grind on his lap...yeah, they might like me for that too..but honestly..any girl can do that. Not every girl can hold a conversation.

    And I get a lot more out of a good conversation then i do wiggling around in a strangers lap!!!

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    I love to talk. So I would get paid to talk, but only if I liked the guy I was with. If he's annoying or you have to pull teeth to keep the conversation going, I would rather dance.
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