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    Angry I'm drunk...and irritated.

    So, let's give a short (or as short as I can make it) background...

    I live by myself, but, about a month ago, my best friend was having man issues. I later found out she had been dating someone else (cheating, but no sex). Anyway, I offer to let her live with me for free til my lease is up (june 15th) because she was living with then-bf and had no money and nowhere to go (did I mention she's a stripper too?)

    Anyway, she continues to date old bf and new bf, both who call her their girlfriends. Old bf is driving her car (he's a big douche, but my friend) and new bf is buying her stuff (she has captain save-a-ho complex I think). After a few weeks, this gets on my nerves. Ok, it's not my business, but BOTH of these guys are my friends, and they don't deserve this. Neither knew she was still dating the other.

    Last night her and old bf had a big blowup, he'd been following her and knew she was dating new bf. They ended up breaking up for good. Now, she's sleeping at new bf's house (again...this is like an every night thing) and I'm trying to get my shit together to move. Only...I can't. Because her shit is everywhere. I mean fucking EVERYWHERE. I can't get into my filing cabinet, cuz her clothes are in the way. I have to duck to get through the living room door, cuz she has clothes hanging from the door frame to dry. Her shit is EVERYWHERE.

    I'm not entirely sure WHY this all came to a head yesterday, but it did, and I'm irritated that she is essentially living at new BF's house, but leaving all her shit here. God, take it the fuck with you then!! I'm not entirely sure the point of this post, other than I had to vent so that I don't unload on her.

    /end rant
    I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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    That's really annoying and kind of disrespectful to clutter your house when you offered to help her. I would call and tell her to get all her stuff by a certain time before they get thrown out to make room so that walking around the house is actually possible.

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    Well...yeah, that's kinda how I feel. I have a feeling my original post didn't make complete sense as I'm drunk....but... on top of it, I told her we have to be out on the 10th so I can finish cleaning, and she still hasn't found any place to live. And now I send her texts and new bf responds. I mean, seriously, does he really need to read and respond to her texts???
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    I'm SO sorry you had to get stuck in the middle of this due to nothing other than the goodness of your heart. I hope you can navigate this without losing any of your friends in the mess.

    But yes, I'd remind her that you're trying to move. I'd personally do it as casually and diplomatically as possible at first just to make sure she doesn't get defensive for whatever reason, but if she doesn't follow through on at least organizing it, then you have the right to either use stronger words or start moving it out of your way yourself (that's the latter option, as it's not your job to do this for her, but at least it would be out of your way).

    Good luck on moving vibes!
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    I'd give her one last chance to get her stuff and if she doesn't get it then I would put it in big trash bags and take it to a charity. Life shouldn't stop because of her and her immature ways.

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    ^^ rose, seriously, I love you I've told her, she knows, she's unaffected by it. I mean, seriously, she says "oh well I'll live in one of those week to week hotels if I have to.." um...ok? It's apparently now MY fault for moving, even though I told her that I probably would be moving at the end of my lease, and now (god forbid) SHE has to find someplace to live. Fuck her. I've given her free rent for 6 weeks, and she can't even get off her ass and find an apt (because she's too busy fucking 2 guys). Fuck this. (God I have to stop drinking wine by myself, it makes me ornery)
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    I agree Green. I decided my move out date would be the 10th (even though technically it's the 15th) If her stuff isn't out by the 12th, it's going in a dumpster. She's sleeping in MY bed, living in MY 1 bedroom overpriced apartment, eating MY food, and not paying a goddamned dime. Granted, I was ok with that, til it became a place for her to ditch her stuff and date two guys.
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    *clinks glasses with you (well, not literally, though that sure sounds good right now)* Loves to you too baby! And I'm sure everything will work out, it's just tedious to deal with, I know. You'll get through it.
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