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    Default Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    So I've been at my new club for like 6 weeks so far, and I've been making good money, and it's great! Except for the fact that I'm in the top 3 girls every night, and the last two nights I've got at least twice as many dances as the #2 girl. I've just been in a good mood and ready to hustle and socialize. Last night I was on the floor the entire time, and only went to the dressing room after being onstage to re-dress and freshen up. Whatever, it's not my fault they don't feel like working, and I do, so I get all the money. I have plenty of nights when I just don't feel like working, so I sit in the dressing room most of the time and end up taking home the same amount as the rest of them.

    So last night I'm in the dressing room, and this girl who's been at this club for a long time, and who usually does really well (as in top 3) tells me that the manager told her that I needed to "tone it down" in the VIP. Whaaa? There are at least a few outright prostitutes in that club, and the most I do is let them touch my boobies, if they're cute and polite. It pisses me off that just because I'm having a good streak, the girls assume I'm sucking dick. Grrrrr. So I talked to the manager that was there last night (not the one the dancer was referring to) and he told me not to worry about it -- he said that the managers know what goes on in the VIP, and if any of them had a problem with my dances, they would tell me directly, not another dancer... Which makes sense, of course.. I guess I was fooled by this girl's BS because she's been at this club a long time and seems to be close with the managers.

    Anyway, I don't know if there's anything I can do... It's not fair that they assume all this shit just because I'm making good money and the rest of them aren't.. Grmph. Any advice?

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    Default Re: Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    Water off a duck's back, babe. Put it out of your mind and keep on making money!

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    Default Re: Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    Sounds like haters to me!

    Unless you are one of few girls who allow boobie touching, but from the sound of it, no.

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    Default Re: Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    whats up with the #1, and #2, etc. rankings???? thats hilarious.... ignore shit talkers and keep doing your thing.... they are obviously just jealous of the kind of money you've been making...

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    Default Re: Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    Quote Originally Posted by lolagetz View Post
    I talked to the manager that was there last night (not the one the dancer was referring to) and he told me not to worry about it -- he said that the managers know what goes on in the VIP, and if any of them had a problem with my dances, they would tell me directly, not another dancer... Which makes sense, of course.. I guess I was fooled by this girl's BS because she's been at this club a long time and seems to be close with the managers.
    That was exactly what I was thinking. At least your manager isn't a moron or anything. As for a cure to jealous bitchy dancers... there is none. Just ignore it... enjoy it even. It means you're doing well. However, next time someone accuses you of something (whether directly or backhandedly) tell them directly and immediately that you are not doing anything wrong. If you say anything other than to deny it, they'll start spreading rumors.
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    Default Re: Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    So they want to get under your skin, make you second guess yourself and possibly slow down your hustle, giving them a chance to step up to the plate. Did it work? Are you keeping what she said in the back of your mind and it's causing you to not act as fun and as open as normal?

    Don't let it happen.

    Stripper warfare, make the one on top feel uneasy, she starts to become unsure, and when she's distracted it's better for those under her to step in move up. Kinda dramatic, but you get the idea.

    Ignore it. If there were a problem you'de have heard from someone important. Do not even let her phase you, smile, nod and walk away.




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    Default Re: Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    Just let their jelousy motivate you babe!
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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne View Post
    whats up with the #1, and #2, etc. rankings???? thats hilarious.... ignore shit talkers and keep doing your thing.... they are obviously just jealous of the kind of money you've been making...

    in some clubs they count dances (like mine) so you know if you were in the top three or whatever sellers for the night. i know i always want to know where i rank for the night.

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    Default Re: Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    If you are making tons of money on a dead night when girls tend to already be disappointed and bitchy, they will probably tend to talk shit about you and make assumptions on how you got all that money. If you're a clean dancer, that's really good. The best revenge in this case is to keep being successful.

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    Default Re: Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    Jealousy. Doesnt it feel good in a way? They are threatened.

    Listen to your manager, and let the girl talk roll right off your back. Next time one of the dancers say shit like that say, "oh thanks but I already spoke to so and so and he told me there were no issues."

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    I'm a total trooper at work & I still have problems with people. Many dancers with hardcore addictions or insecurities will say anything to anyone if it helps them meet their objectives (girl needing X amount of $$$ for her fix or a girl who can't handle competition [like Borderline Personality Disorder suffers].)

    Tell the management they are more than welcome to watch you work & you have nothing to hide. It does work- they want top earners, not sh*tstarters.

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    Jealously is the best form of flattery

    I know its annoying... but on the other hand we're not at work to make friends right? Just brush it off and keep making tons of money

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    Default Re: Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    ^^ Exactly the right advice. It doesn't sound at all like you're lording it over anyone or being unfair, you're just working hard! Someone who doesn't want to work is ALWAYS going to invent an issue about that.

    I would literally just ignore it. Don't even give it any more energy than it's worth thinking about it.
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    Default Re: Urgh... What did I do to deserve this? Lame shit-talking girls.

    Thanks for all your responses No, it hasn't ruined my hustle yet. I just can't believe girls would do this... Lol, I guess I shouldn't be so naive after dancing for over a year, but at my old club, there was a higher percentage of prostitutes than there is here, so no one worried about it. Lol... it's funny that way.. when most of the girls are prostitutes, there're no problems, but when fewer of them are... I'd say 1/4 of them at my new club, from what I'm able to tell so far... it creates bigger problems... sigh..

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