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    Exclamation What happened to my balls ?!

    Argh...OK.
    I had a baby a year ago on June 2nd. Although I'm relatively slim, I'm still having some body issues. I've been thinking about stripping for a long time and I did all the research. I'm still scared . All I wanted was a girlfriend who would do it with me for a while as I got the hang of things. Moral support I suppose. Anyway, all I need to do is drop a few more pounds and I'll be ok to start but the nagging self consciousness and fear of total bitches is practically suffocating me. I live in S fla so the competition is already fierce and I don't know any girls who wanna start doing it. All these feelings are taking me for a loop cuz Im generally very confident, out-going, and have a take-no-shit attitude...ugh...I just don't know what to do anymore...everything is so complicated..maybe I should just start babysitting...It's not like Im ugly either : www.myspace.com/sunnyshelly. You can see for yourself..then y do I feel so...scared and unprepared ?
    I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for what Im not.

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    Default Re: What happened to my balls ?!

    Because it is something entirely unfamiliar, and a fear of failure is a big deal. A confident, attractive, intelligent girl usually does well at things she tries to do, so when something comes along that one isn't sure they can tackle with whats been good enough to get them through before, is scary. Does that make sense? Don't worry, we all felt terrified at first. Just jump in and do it. You don't need a friend - it ends up being more of a burden than a help. Don't worry about the bitches either. They aren't paying you.

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    Yes you are attractive enough to strip, but if you don't get your self confidence up then you will be a wash.

    Seriously though, confidence is way more important than hottness, to a point.

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    I had a friend who promised to start with me... but then avoided my phone calls when it really came time to do it (grr!). I just dived right in. This site helped me a lot and I was careful to only talk to the girls who talked to me first and be nice to everyone. You'll be fine. If you need to loose a couple pounds for the self-confidence, than do it. It goes a long way in this line of work.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Default Re: What happened to my balls ?!

    Shit ive been thinking about moving to Florida, if i go down there ill definately go with you! heehhe
    It doesnt matter whether ur black or white, cuz the only color that matters is green...


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    You look fine. In club lights guys can't tell if you had a kid.

    I started all alone & it was hard but I listened to good advice & stayed out of trouble & club drama....I've had a great time as a dancer. There's more to the job than just looking cute, it's more about sales skills and intuition...

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    I saw your pic and you look pretty to me.

    But yes, the balls disappear on a LOT of girls, even though who are 100% in shape etc. Its just an intimidating world. You are judged on your looks so of course you will be nervous. But I can tell ya that it gets easier with time, so once you break the ice, its smooth sailing from there.

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    Thank you all so much, I actually do feel better. I think Im gonna just gonna go with Nike on this one and 'just do it' yea baby! I got my Pop back ! Thank you so much ladies !!!!!!!!xoxoxoxoxo
    I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for what Im not.

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    I pmed you

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