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    Default Hi--New Here

    Hi Everyone,

    I've been reading a bunch of posts and I think you all are awesome and very helpful/informative! So Thanks! I've danced just a few times, all 3 times were spread out, the first two times I went with an experienced dancer and the third with another gf who never danced before. So I really don't consider myself a dancer, but I love to dance and really could use the extra money. So I want to go again, but alone...

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    Do you think safety is ever an issue with going alone? How did you all get into dancing ie did you go alone or with a friend? Also, I'm the type of person that worries what others think and don't want other girls to hate on me-- have any of you had this problem? Also, do any of you drink while working? Do you socialize and make friends with other girls or mostly keep to yourself? Will it be totally obvious that I am not an experienced dancer on stage?

    Any advice is appreciated! Thanks a bunch! I'm thinking of going back to one club I went to over a year ago tomorrow night... so I'm a little nervous!

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    Default Re: Hi--New Here

    Hey cutie! Welcome to the boards!!! Ok,

    1. I assume when you ask if safety is an issue, you are asking about private parties. Yes, of course. But maybe more so in certain demographic areas than others... I would NEVER go to a party alone in a city like Chicago or Vegas. In rural areas you might be a little less likely to run into trouble.

    2. I started with a roommate in college. If you start at a club, be very polite and respectful to the "veteran" girls, and maybe you will get lucky and somebody will take you under their wing...

    3. I do drink while I'm working. I didn't when I first started dancing. Guys always want to get you drunk, but be careful because it can hurt your money. Also, seems obvious, but don't drive drunk. Nowadays, one DUI and you're screwed.

    4. Focus on socializing with your customers. Thats what pays the bills, not making friends with other dancers. Don't waste your energy getting all caught up in the club drama.

    5. Yes it will be obvious that you are new. But don't worry about it. You will be graceful in no time, and guys like "virgins." Milk it

    Good luck!!

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    Default Re: Hi--New Here

    Thanks so much for the advice! I'm really excited about getting started. I am just going to dance at a club so I guess that safety won't be an issue there with all the bouncers. How long do you think it takes to get comfortable and look more graceful dancing? Do you recommend getting on stage right away or just working the floor?

    Thank you!

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    Default Re: Hi--New Here

    Welcome to the forum

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    Go onstage because you will only get better with practise. I don't know how long it will take for you to , but its a good idea to practise in front of a mirror so you can see how you appear. Sometimes it also helps to watch other dancers. But you know what? Guys don't buy dances because you're a good dancer. They buy dances because they like you. (Or cuz they're turned on!!!) You'll do great!

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