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    Yekhefah
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    Angry So what's the shelf life on a RIL?

    I've got one at the dungeon. He's always good for at least $200 for an hour session. He's really cute and fun, he's young, he's single, etc. I was a dumbass and gave him my number, and now I've got a damn RIL. He actually sent me a text message on Monday asking me to dinner; I told him I wasn't comfortable with that. So I did a session with him today and he kept talking about "on the outside" and asking if I really liked my boyfriend. *sigh*

    I really like this guy and enjoy our sessions, but I don't want to date him. I have a boyfriend I'd rather go to dinner with. So how much longer do I have before this guy gets disgruntled and quits booking sessions with me? He's pretty reliable so I want to plan for it.

    Damn this RIL bullshit. Why can't they just leave well enough alone? Does he really think he's going to bring me home to mama and say, "I met her when I was paying her $200 to piss in my face"?

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    Default Re: So what's the shelf life on a RIL?

    Take this for what it's worth, I am no Dom, but you might make it clear with all new clients that you are merely conducting business, and nothing more will ever happen outside of your sessions, so they might as well not even bother asking.

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    I do. I don't know why I gave this guy my number. He was just a really great regular. I even gave him my number with the express understanding that it was so we could reach each other and coordinate sessions better than going through the dungeon secretary, but I guess he took that to mean that I was interested in dating even though I flat-out told him I have a boyfriend I'm very happy with.

    I learned my lesson, no more giving out my number, ever!

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    Grrr why am I not surprised. Humiliate him! Tell him you are the QUEEEEEEN of good business and it was another step towards using him inside and out. And yr one truthful in yr face bitch, too.

    Sike jk...just thinking of funny dom scenarios in my head. Aww he's prob really nice. Yeesh a keeper too if he's young and attractive.

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    Default Re: So what's the shelf life on a RIL?

    Maybe you've stumbled onto the answer! Turn it into fodder for punishment so every time he asks he gets punished. Maybe throw some cuckoldry at him to use his jealousy for good not evil!

    I made the mistake of telling a three month reg I'd have sushi with him and he got pissy that I was charging him. Haven't seen him in two weeks! Bastid!
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    Well, that's the damn thing. He's not a submissive at all, he just likes golden showers. I've worked him up to spanking and spitting, but he's not into BDSM or punishment at all. I think that's probably why I slipped up and gave him my number; I can't bring myself to see subs as men, but this guy is definitely a man.

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    Default Re: So what's the shelf life on a RIL?

    4.3 months.
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Default Re: So what's the shelf life on a RIL?

    with some rare exceptions regulars just cant help themselves but ruin it all by asking for OTC. When they do it is variable. I had a great regular but he only lasted a couple of weeks before he ruined it with OTC requests and then stopped coming in.

    I have had another great regular who has been coming in for 5 months and never asked for OTC and he went and asked the other day and hasn't been back in since I said no.

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    Default Re: So what's the shelf life on a RIL?

    sorry, new here, what is an RIL?

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    Default Re: So what's the shelf life on a RIL?

    RIL = Regular In Love

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    Default Re: So what's the shelf life on a RIL?

    once you set boundaries, you can keep RILs for a good time, months. but, you have to set the boundaries strictly.. "you WILL only text me when you want a session. otherwise, you dont even have my number." (say it in a session so he knows it's serious.)

    Love it!

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    Default Re: So what's the shelf life on a RIL?

    The more often they ask for OTC and the more insistent they are about it, the quicker they get burned out on you, it seems. Could be anywhere from a week or two to a few months. You're right to be aware of it and try to plan. I always do the same thing. Actually, I try NEVER to be in a situation where I depend on a regular financially, because then you're more tempted to give in to whatever demands they are making.

    This spring I had a regular who came in once a week and gave me about what I would in a whole week in just one night. It would've been easy to let that make me lazy, but I was so paranoiad about being left in the lurch that I actually worked MORE shifts so I wouldn't feel like I needed him when he dumped me. Which, of course, he eventually did.

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