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    i'm done. i just need a break. i am so frustrated with EVERYTHING right now, and this website has become a negative place for me, where it used to be positive. i am SO sick of my posts being ignored, i am sick of the nastiness among members, i'm just over it all. i'll probably lurk a bit and maybe make the random post here and there, but for the most part i won't be back for a while. (not that most of you will care, seeing as how my posts have been ignored entirely, lately.) it is so frustrating that i ask for support or advice and i get a few, if any, responses. ive been here for almost a year and certainly have posted enough that people know me. i guess i've done something to make people ignore me. i feel like even when i try to support others in their posts, my comments are ignored. i've pmed people saying that if they want to talk, let me know, and offered what i assumed was support. i get *maybe* a simple 'thank you,' or i am just ignored.

    i used to be the girl with tons of friends. maybe i've changed. maybe something else has. i barely talk to the people on here that i used to talk to. and ya know what? yeah, its the internet (so DONT say 'why do you care? it's online' because i KNOW that). but if other people can care about friendships they have here, why can't i and others? its like that rule only applies to some on here these days. anyway, my point is only that i'm sick of the way things have become in my real life, as well as on here. i need to make some changes and being on a very negative (these days) website won't help that, it will only cause more harm.

    so, to those i've talked to in the past, see ya. everybody else, don't bother giving me "here we go again with the bitchiness/it's the internet/blah blah" posts, because i am asking you not to, and hey, it's my thread. just putting my 2 cents out there, and giving those that i do talk to a reason why i'm leaving. for now. i'll be back when i feel like it's an empowering place again.

    oh, and please don't turn this into another nasty thread. we really don't need more of that around here these days.

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    I dont think you needed to make a thread about it but instead just do it. Honestly, I dont think the site has caused you all of what youve written there. People dont reply to all my threads as I wish they would but cmon people are people I dont command them what to do and say. I come for the open ended advice anyways...I stay for the jokes and leave when it gets too much. You take it upon yourself to feel a certain way. This place is a collective group of like people in a certain profession. The site probably just adds to whatever is not going so well in your current life.
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    Default Re: peace out, bitches

    Nobody really replies to my posts or when I offer my support on something. The internet can be an impersonal place sometimes, so fuck it.

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    i didnt blame this site for any of the bad things that are going on in my life. i said that coming here when i'm already feeling badly is only hurting, not helping, the way i feel. and i might not think that a lot of people need to post threads that they do, but thats their perogative, the same way that it's mine to post how i feel on here and about this board.

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    Maybe some time off is a good thing then Britt. Lord knows I've done it and I'm sure just about everyone has as well.

    I do remember you getting quite a few concerned posts in your "Was someone in my apt" thread.

    As for the PM's; when someone posts something, there are quite a few members who PM out of concern and it's hard to keep up with them all. Not an excuse for ignoring you, just saying.

    I hope you clear your head, deal with your issues and decide to stay on.

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    When, when will the drama here end?

    It's only negative if you allow it to be. Sure..there's some shit going on right now, but all you gotta do is take what you need out of it, and leave the rest behind.


    i've pmed people saying that if they want to talk, let me know, and offered what i assumed was support. i get *maybe* a simple 'thank you,' or i am just ignored.
    And this....You know..if people are posting messages or whatever that they need support for something going on in their lives, obviously, they have shit going on in their lives, and cant take the time to Pm you back and talk. I simple thank you isn't enough? What are you looking for then? If your ignored in PM, maybe they just didn't want to talk, or share. Or are just busy tryign to deal with whatever issue they are having.

    And when your post yrou suppport, just ebcause that perosn doesn't single you out to say thank you in a thread doesn't mean you were ignored. Maybe they read what you wrote, and appriciated yrou support, took yoru advice to heart, and just didnt single you out to say thank you.


    I'm sorry you feel this way. Obviously, creatin gthis thread was an attempt to not be ignored, as now your getting responses. If you wanted to leave, just go. No need to announce it.

    SW has had negativity lately, but I just ignore it the best I can, take what I want from this site, and leave the rest behind. BUt if it's getting to you that bad, then yeah, its time to take a step back from it for a bit.

    I am sorry that if you make a thread needing support and are unable to receve that. It sucks when you try to look somewhere for support and can't get it. It makes you feel even worse. I am sorry for that.

    I hope you are able to fix the bad things in yrou life and overcome them.
    Good luck and take care.

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    Default Re: peace out, bitches

    *sigh*
    its sad that so many people are not feeling very happy around here lately.

    i have felt it too.


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    Britt, I replied to your thread about looking for a new apartment. See I care

    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    *sigh*
    its sad that so many people are not feeling very happy around here lately.

    i have felt it too.

    *Hugs Jaizaine*

    I think we all need a hug

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    Peace out. I tried to offer you advice when you were having panic attacks. This was rather rude. I hope you sort your issues out.



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    Quote Originally Posted by BalletBaby View Post
    Britt, I replied to your thread about looking for a new apartment. See I care



    *Hugs Jaizaine*

    I think we all need a hug
    awwwwwww
    thanks

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    actually i enjoyed many of your posts....... you seem like a good person with a good head on your shoulders!!! yeah i posted today and have gotten only a few responses and i think i've been a pretty active member, but i guess you'll have that!!! don't leave!!!

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    don't remember? never posted??? well, you never pm'd ME, but I remember way back when you were a wee stripper posting about your frustrations with your coke habit and how it was messing up your life/ job... and we ALL posted and gave you mucho support, and you took it!!! and we were so proud of you!!!! I liked you, britt... I was always really proud of you for giving up a tough-as-shit addiction. You did something i still haven't been able to do. but if this is what you want, then fine... good luck & i hope you feel better in this decision. feel free to come back...

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    Britt I wish you the best. I understand your frustration completely. And I'll be the first to totally admit I'm horribly self absorbed so when I didn't reply or read your posts, don't take offense or think it's you. Seriously.

    I hope you find a path that makes you feel amazing inside. Shit gets tough, rough and all around crappy sometimes but we always come out of it in the end on a positive note. Just keep sight of that darling.

    Why some may find her post insensitive and angry I totally think she has every right to just explode. Sometimes, people need to just release. Let's have some heart. Let's try her shoes on for size.

    This site has become rather callous lately. I'm not sure what the fuck is going on with everyone. A lot of women on here are just being all around assholes to people that they've never even really gotten to know.

    Which all kinda translates to = too much time on their hands= slow business and personal unhappiness.

    This site is a great shoulder SOMETIMES. But I think many depend on it for that extra push,shove or strength. Find it within yourself. not on the web.

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    What do you expect from a stripper website? Peace, love, and happiness forever? Most strippers are too busy dealing with their own issues to be supportive.

    This isn't the greatest website to go to to try and forge friendships. Alot of people are here looking for a need to be fulfilled, and if they don't find it in you, they move on to the next, or they use and discard.

    You need to find another website full of people who DO care, and will answer your threads, and offer support. Go elsewhere to get your needs fulfilled.

    If something isn't working for you, try something new until you strike gold. That's the learning process.

    How could you be so serious about a website that is anything but.....

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    last night i kind of posted that out of a lot of frustration. of course many of you have answered my threads, and the way i feel now is based on the way things have been recently. of course it wasn't always like that, or i wouldn't have stuck around for this long! i appreciate all of the advice and support that i have gotten when i've posted about hard stuff. again, it's just the tone of the site lately. that's my main reason for not wanting to be here, not that people don't answer my posts. i've just felt unwelcome lately.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mileia777 View Post
    Peace out. I tried to offer you advice when you were having panic attacks. This was rather rude. I hope you sort your issues out.
    i dont think that i'm being rude because i didn't single out any one person. it isnt like i said NOBODY answers me. i just feel like i get less of a response when i post about the same things that others do, and they get a million answers. don't take it personally.


    tart, embyr, and you other girls who have answered this have kind of put things in a little more perspective. i think i just need a break from the negativity, ya know? and i appreciate you taking the time to give me your opinions

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    I'm really sorry you feel this way. I think a lot of us are concerned about the recent flame wars, and trolls so we're walking on egg shells around here. And being very carefull with posts, trying not to say anything too controversal, and just generally being quiet. Hopefully it passes soon and we can all be comfy again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    I hope you find a path that makes you feel amazing inside. Shit gets tough, rough and all around crappy sometimes but we always come out of it in the end on a positive note. Just keep sight of that darling.
    i just wanted to add that i think you rock. you seem like such a strong person who has dealt with a lot of tough stuff lately, and i know it's the internet and i dont know you, but it's always nice to see people like you. people who *do* get through the hard stuff to become a better person.

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    Default Re: peace out, bitches

    Make a renewed effort to make friends in your town or at your club! It's so important to have that one on one daily support. We're just words on the page. We can't hug you and hear you out the way close friends can. You'll feel much better.
    “What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE

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    Well I know I've been in a big rut recently, mostly due to my frustration at working in a very factoryish club (even if the money is great here!), and living in a strange if fascinating city which is a bit cliquish. I feel simultaneously empowered and stifled, if that makes sense. But a bit more of the latter, and it has made me much less social than I usually am, including here on SW.

    And where I am normally really good about answering PMs, I know there are about a dozen I haven't replied to in god knows how long. I haven't done very much at all here on SW in the last few weeks but post pictures of myself, which considering how much I always bitch about attention-whoring and fluffy bullshit, is pretty hypocritical, lol.

    SW isn't perfect, no--but there are some good people here, they aren't all narcissists, and several of them genuinely care about you.
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    Sweetheart, I hope you won't leave. I admit to making some witchy-sounding posts, and I decided to quit because it's part of an overall meanness trend.
    There's only so much people can do for eachother on the Internet...It's too bad society is so disconnected now to where some people are getting most of their info & support through electrons, but we have to remember, other people have lives that are just as demanding and stressful as yours.
    & Tart is right, I think a lot of people are taking slow business & personal frustration out on here....The posts about "dead nights" and "bad weeks" make me nervous, but I need the information. Ultimately this site is an information tool for dancers, not a clique nest or slam board.
    Last edited by madmaxine; 06-02-2007 at 02:04 PM. Reason: NOT a Freudian slip typo...I dropped my crack pipe on the keyboard!

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    Well you know I love you but we get to see each other all the time in real life, I am the lucky one here. The bitchiness here is out of control lately so I am feeling the same way as you, I might take a breather as well.

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    Just calm down. It's an internet fourm. All these people disappear as soon as you click that "X" and you have control over when you talk to them. I think over all SW is positive and has a lot of great members. I'd just try to remain positive and realize that not everyone hates or anything. Shit I have over 2,000 posts and I still don't feel like I'm in a cliche haha.

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    [QUOTE=TigersMilk;1097221People dont reply to all my threads as I wish they would but cmon people are people I dont command them what to do and say. I come for the open ended advice anyways...I stay for the jokes and leave when it gets too much. You take it upon yourself to feel a certain way. This place is a collective group of like people in a certain profession.[/QUOTE]

    agreed. I also thing you're projecting your negative eelings about thinks in your real life onto how you feel about this site, and reeding too much into the threads on how negative this site is. Which, btw, it really isn't. There are many more good unarguementative threads then negative ones.

    My 2 cents: I like you, but do what you want. I hope you find what you're looking for and I hope when you're just lurking you can see with less judgemental eyes what a great, supportive and amazingly diverse site this is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sc0101 View Post
    Shit I have over 2,000 posts and I still don't feel like I'm in a cliche haha.
    it's spelled clique.
    from wikipedia: A cliché is a phrase, expression, or idea that has been overused to the point of losing its intended force or novelty, especially when at some time it was considered distinctively forceful or novel. It is generally used in a negative context.

    if youre in a cliche something's wrong..

    Love it!

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    Take time for you I wish you peace

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