i'm done. i just need a break. i am so frustrated with EVERYTHING right now, and this website has become a negative place for me, where it used to be positive. i am SO sick of my posts being ignored, i am sick of the nastiness among members, i'm just over it all. i'll probably lurk a bit and maybe make the random post here and there, but for the most part i won't be back for a while. (not that most of you will care, seeing as how my posts have been ignored entirely, lately.) it is so frustrating that i ask for support or advice and i get a few, if any, responses. ive been here for almost a year and certainly have posted enough that people know me. i guess i've done something to make people ignore me. i feel like even when i try to support others in their posts, my comments are ignored. i've pmed people saying that if they want to talk, let me know, and offered what i assumed was support. i get *maybe* a simple 'thank you,' or i am just ignored.
i used to be the girl with tons of friends. maybe i've changed. maybe something else has. i barely talk to the people on here that i used to talk to. and ya know what? yeah, its the internet (so DONT say 'why do you care? it's online' because i KNOW that). but if other people can care about friendships they have here, why can't i and others? its like that rule only applies to some on here these days. anyway, my point is only that i'm sick of the way things have become in my real life, as well as on here. i need to make some changes and being on a very negative (these days) website won't help that, it will only cause more harm.
so, to those i've talked to in the past, see ya. everybody else, don't bother giving me "here we go again with the bitchiness/it's the internet/blah blah" posts, because i am asking you not to, and hey, it's my thread. just putting my 2 cents out there, and giving those that i do talk to a reason why i'm leaving. for now. i'll be back when i feel like it's an empowering place again.
oh, and please don't turn this into another nasty thread. we really don't need more of that around here these days.![]()







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