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    I swear I searched first and found nothing.

    5 months ago I met the man of my dreams and admit to throwing caution to the wind... Yesterday I was diagnosed with Trich. My very first and only STD ever! Fucking great Ugh. I didnt have heath insurance and didnt get tested before we started sleeping together unprotected and he just didnt get tested for whatever reason. Im stupid on so many levels we wont even go there.

    Its really not that big of a deal (the disease itself), I did a bunch of reading on webmd about it. Most common curable std. 90% of guys dont even know they are carry it until there partner needs treatment. One round of antibiotics kills it. This is all positive stuff.

    I was super nervous and distraught about telling him. I mean come on who wants to have that conversation. I ended up telling him over the phone and then he came over late last night. Deffinatly the most ackward conversation we've had to have to date. I was adamant (sp?) about not playing the blame game. It dosent matter who gave it to who, all that matters is we have it and need to take the proper steps to fix it. We love each other very much and want to be together forever and can get through anything.... This is what i keep telling myself over and over. Then i once i start reading the info i realize that pretty much he had to have given it to me. I conclude this because of the fact that i started having symptoms after he started ejaculating in me and the timeing that webmd said about incubation of the parasite ect. I keep telling myself we can never know for sure and it SHOULDNT matter... But these nagging thoughts keep popping up... Like the man i love more then anything gave me an std. He made my vagina sick and its been hurting so much during sex but i've been having sex anyway to please my man but hes the reason it hurt so bad!! ANd when we were talking last night he complained about the fact that we couldnt have sex for two weeks and that he couldnt drink while he was taking the antibiotics. That totally pissed me off, he has never sounded so selfish. But then i thought about the fact that in his mind hes questioning whether i gave this to him... Ugh i dont want these thoughts i just want to take the pills and forget about it....

    Anyone else experience anything like this? Meaning getting an std froma partner you love and want to stay with ...

    Or have had trich??

    I cant believe im even putting this out there, im totally embarrassed but you ladies are so wise and kind I dont know who else to talk to...



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    If it was strep throat would y'all be so embarrassed and horrible about it? It's bacteria. That's it. Just be glad that's all it was, take ALL your antibiotics and move on.

    What worries me is that you were still having sex "to please your man" even though it was painful. No decent man is "pleased" by causing his woman agony (at least not in that way). And if he's complaining about not being able to have sex for two weeks, he doesn't sound like such a hot catch to me. He's being a dick and you need to let him know. Grow a spine, honey!

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    Yekh's right. You say you two want to be together forever? Start talking about everything and don't be afraid to voice what he's doing or saying bothers you.

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    I should clarify a little... I do like pain mixed with my pleasure....often!! He is well aware of this... Not really the pain i was experiencing in my vagina persay, but i need sex to be rough for me to really enjoy it. He would always stop or abstain when it hurt to much or i asked him to. He really is a super sweet amazing guy who would never want to really hurt me. (unless i ask nicely of course )But if im being completly honest i do kinda have this please my man mentality.. Maybe its the sub in me but i feel Like sometimes you just have to suck it up and deal with something you dont nessisarily want at the moment for the good of the relationship or the person you love. I usually get into it after we start anyway. Just needed to add that... Thanks in advance for all your support and thoughts..



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    Quote Originally Posted by phillyvixen View Post
    but i feel Like sometimes you just have to suck it up and deal with something you don't necessarily want at the moment for the good of the relationship or the person you love.
    You're not doing your vagina any favors by thinking this way when it's sick...

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    You are absolutly right. There will be no sex in this house for two weeks and until he gets fully tested and we both take the antibiotics. I love my vagina too much to keep comprimising her integrity.



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    Believe me, I HEAR you about needing a bit of pain and roughness and the whole sub complex. I've actually got it too. But banging on a sore, sick vag is over the line. I'm glad you're taking care of yourself now.

    Don't have any oral sex until you're both clean either, or you could reinfect each other. But there's always handjobs, masturbation, titfucking, and vibrators (for your clit only, no penetration). Laissez les bon temps rouler!

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    Yek its so good to hear from someone who relates.. and you are so correct.
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    Aw. There will be no blame until you know for sure that it's his fault. It's okay to feel angry, as long as you know it is irrational and don't use it as an excuse act out or be passive aggressive. I mean - yes he had it, but the sex was mutual and he didn't start doing you unprotected against your will. This was a joint decision. As for the pain - I think you maybe need to examine why you are having sex to please your man on a consistent basis (I mean, yes, sometimes we do it even if we have a headache just to gratify them, but if it more than occasional); why do you feel that you have to? Is this something he's said in the past? Like I said, you OCCASIONALLY suck it up and do it to gratify your partner (in sex as in everything else) but you shouldn't feel you have to roll over and spread em every time he wants it and you don't.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    If it was strep throat would y'all be so embarrassed and horrible about it? It's bacteria. That's it. Just be glad that's all it was, take ALL your antibiotics and move on.

    What worries me is that you were still having sex "to please your man" even though it was painful. No decent man is "pleased" by causing his woman agony (at least not in that way). And if he's complaining about not being able to have sex for two weeks, he doesn't sound like such a hot catch to me. He's being a dick and you need to let him know. Grow a spine, honey!
    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Believe me, I HEAR you about needing a bit of pain and roughness and the whole sub complex. I've actually got it too. But banging on a sore, sick vag is over the line. I'm glad you're taking care of yourself now.

    Don't have any oral sex until you're both clean either, or you could reinfect each other. But there's always handjobs, masturbation, titfucking, and vibrators (for your clit only, no penetration). Laissez les bon temps rouler!
    I have never heard of catching this disease with oral sex?

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    Well put it this way:

    Do you want that kind of bacteria in your mouth?

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    No, I don't but how would it make it's way to my vagina from getting in my mouth? I know herpes, warts and sometimes HIV can be transmitted through oral sex but I wasn't aware of some of the others.

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    well, if you have oral sex with him, and he's got it, then its in your mouth. If he gives it to you, then its in his mouth... and then when he kisses you... you could use a condom or dental dam for oral for the two weeks though.

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    I don't think it just stays wherever you put it, although you can get some STD's in the throat. My friend had chlamydia in her throat once. But no matter where the bacteria lodge, they're still not bacteria that belong there. Better to just keep them quarantined while the antibiotics do their thing.

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    I was taking anti biotics and got thrush as a side effect. I was not symptomatic at the time my boyfriend went down on me but the poor thing ended up with thrush in his mouth. It was very unpleasant for him. He did not once blame me or get angry or anything. He knew I would not have allowed him to give me oral if I knew I had thrush at the time.

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