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    Ok so I'm totally nervous. I've been dancing for quite some time, but I'm trying out the best club in michigan--the notorious flight club. Girls here are REALLY mean, and that's one of the reasons I've put off going there. I'm really quiet, minus around people I know....and I tend to be one of these people that's TOO nice and therefor get stepped on. Funny thing is people are intimidated by me b/c they mistake me being quiet for me being a snob or something. Anyways, I will be going w/ my gf to work, so that makes things easier. I guess I just don't know how to deal with mean people/snobs...? Ugh! I hate being "the new person"
    I'd grab my trumpet and I'd do a stripper sound, like the old Louis Armstrong, real raspy. And the people would go nuts! Then I knew that the sexual, sensual, guttural sound, that throbbing sound, is where it's at.

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    The only thing you can do is ignore them and let things roll off your back. Mean girls thrive on intimidation and control, and responding in anyway to their venom only gives them what they want.

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    I'm the same way, super nice but can come off as mean or stuck up. Just go in there and do your job. The more they see you, the more they will loosen up or not. Just stay on your guard- the fact that someone is going with you should make it much easier. Good luck.
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    Aww, they aren't all meanies. There are a couple SW girls there who are total sweethearts, and my bf DJs there too. I wouldn't work yourself up too much. I was really nervous about switching clubs recently and had extra cash set aside to pad my anticipated lull. Ended up not even needing it. Just keep yourself busy with the customers and stay out of the dressing room as much as possible. Best of luck to you!
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    Lol I am pretty quiet with people I don"t know too. I'm sure people think I'm a bitch, water off the ducks back though. Good luck and take advantage of making as much money as possible!

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    Quote Originally Posted by absolutbliss View Post
    Ok so I'm totally nervous. I've been dancing for quite some time, but I'm trying out the best club in michigan--the notorious flight club.
    Flightclub Blah..good luck though. That place is known for extras...







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    good luck girly, try not to work yourself up!

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    You'll do great. Even if you can't stand the girls, there are still all of the custys to spend time with. Besides, you'll make more money that way, LOL.
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