
Originally Posted by
lilylucifer
When I first started dancing, I was very discouraged by dancers who told me that they were making thousands a night. It took me a while to realize that many of these ladies were exaggerating their income, in order to keep a new young girl from staying at their club very long. I wish I had known this in the beginning, it would have saved me a lot of self cricism.
While all clubs have girls who make generally good money, no one, as was mentioned earlier, makes thousands EVERY NIGHT. Another fact I wish it hadn't taken me so long to see is that while at many clubs actual extras in the CR are rare, though it's not at all uncommon for girls with a devoted regular to see him outside the club, and if any extras happen, this is usually where it occours. Of course, there are top-earners who have never ever done anything "extra" for the big bucks, however, and this is a Huge "however", many top girls, at least in the clubs I've worked in, are pretty open about doing extras once you get to know them. It is the oldest profession.
I have nothing against sex workers of any kind, but its important to be schooled in what a competative industry this is, especially if you're new. I have read so many posts saying that girls are making money because they're "witty" and "charming" and "confident", but lets not forget that luck and longevity have a lot to do with it. Also, in some cases, "extras" has something to do with it too.
My disclamier for a newbie would be don't compare yourself to others, it's not that helpful, and might just contribute to feeling less confident, right? The best advice I could give anyone is to trust your instincts about how pushy you should be to get the most money possible, and if you judge a situation wrong, don't blame yourself. Your own personal sales tactic will emerge eventually, dont stress!!
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