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    Thinking of the CC thread on when to pay for the dance before or after?
    Here is a few tips on recieving your payment.

    1. When you get paid for a dance or a VIP room, always count it back, whiel he watches. I have been given 2 fives instead of 2 twenties before, and the guy will argue with you about it.
    One guy handed me a crumpled reciept and swore he gave me a $20. Drunk/bad lighting/trying to rip you off, whatever.
    Count it back, make sure you got what he owed you, as soon as he gives it to you, and ake sure he is watching. That way he cant argue back when you tell him he's shorted you.
    ( although he may still try, it would be a weak argument)

    2. If a guy buys his friend a lapdance, make him pay upfront for it. Just as you wouldn't allow a guy who got a dance to walk away without paying, you don't want the friend who is paying for the dance to get up and leave for the bar or restroom. You may have to wait 20 minutes before he comes back, and by then, he may have forgotten he said he'd buy.

    3. Get VIP money up front. Losing $20 isn't a big deal, but losing several hundred and an hour of work is.
    If he's paying with credit card, make sure it gets approved before you begin.
    ( I had a guy buy an hour on credit, stupid ass club only runs the bottle amount on the card up front, they dont run the dance dollars till the end. Guess what? His card maxed out with the bottle, and he couldn't pay. He truly felt bad, and borrowed the money to pay me, but it may not have worked out that way)
    I tell my waitress to run my dance dollars now, and I'll wait to begin the dance until she comes back and tells me it's approved. It waste's time...but could possibly save me hundred of dollars and even more wasted time.

    4. If he tells you he needs to go to the ATM or buy funny money, GO WITH HIM! Do not let him out of your sight until you are paid.

    5. If you've been doing multiple dances on the floor with one guy and he or you needs to use the restroom, make sure you settle up first.

    6. If his wallet falls out of his pocket and onto the floor or chair, dont pick it up. Point it out to him, and let him pick it up. I will not touch wallets. To many guys wallets get stolen, and I dont want accused of stealing one, or taking money out of one.

    Basicially, you'd never let your purse or garter out of your sight, why would you let the guy who owes you money out of your sight?

    You don't want the guy to feel untrusted, but at the same time, you don't want ripped off.


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    Hope it's helpful.
    ( I realize its mostly common sense, but a lot of new girls don't know, or are naive and to trusting, or just plain forget.)

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    Other than allowing my regulars to pay for VIPs afterwards (depending on the club), I would agree with everything else you said. The only reason I do this for some guys is because it is part of the hustle. With those guys, I strike when the iron is hot and sometimes digging out a credit card beforehand will kill their boners. lol
    But I stress that those guys are TRUSTED, long time custies who have really good track records. Definitely use your intuition.
    For non-regs, I have to get VIP $$ up front because of the price being so much. I think that's a given. I would hate to do a whole VIP and then find out the guy left his wallet at home or his account is frozen, etc.

    I am glad you didn't mention getting your money up front for every single LD. I don't know why some girls do that, but that is just such a mood killer. Every 5 or so, yeah maybe. Again, I think intuition and preventative tactics like you mentioned above are totally useful.

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    5. If you've been doing multiple dances on the floor with one guy and he or you needs to use the restroom, make sure you settle up first.

    true. i can be bad at this one sometimes.

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    This is all great advice that unfortunately slips out of my mind once in a while. Lately the one about them giving you the wrong denomination of bill has been very common.

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    Woah! Great Advice, thanks girl! And congragulations on the 2.5lbs gone!
    Sexy Jasmine after getting fucked over at work:

    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


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    I am SO glad I started getting paid upfront, before the dance(s) a few months ago. Case in point, 2 nights ago: I chat a guy up, he says he wants a dance, so we head to the private area.
    hearts: Ok, babe, it's 20, let's get the fun started! (held out the side of my thong)
    loser: let me see your tits first.
    hearts: oh, you'll see them very up close as soon as I dance for you. (winks)
    loser: (waving the 20 in front of my face and reaching for my top) let me see them now then I'll pay you.
    hearts: later dude. (walked off)

    Having people pay up front is what I like to call my "asshole filter".

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    oy #1.
    Always check the money! I had a guy pay a hundred for 5 dances once and didn't notice until afterward that it was a 20. I had just danced 5 dances for $4 each! ugh. it still makes me mad.

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    I always ask for the twenty for the first dance up front. We don't have bouncers in the back and it's my way of insuring that if he's an asshole I can get up and walk away and still have my money. After the first dance I can generally tell if they are going to be jerks (try and touch under my panties or pull their pants open) so for subsequent dances I let them pay at the end.

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    How do you ask for the money without ruining the mood? I mean, yeah I know its about money and they should know that too, but if I can sound any less greedy that would be a good thing, no?

    I usually just try to be polite about it, and if they act upset I explain that I'm new and I get a lot of people trying to run out with my money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaylaJo View Post
    How do you ask for the money without ruining the mood? I mean, yeah I know its about money and they should know that too, but if I can sound any less greedy that would be a good thing, no?
    I just smile and say, "ok first I need to collect, and THEN we can get started" when I say "started" I either grab my boobies, or push them towards their face.







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    I usually say somethign like, OK...lets get the business part outta the way first so we don't have to worry bout that, and we can focus on having fun!

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    "Business before pleasure."



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