Hello everybody. I am completely new to this forum and really completely new to this business. I just turned 18 a few days ago and for my graduation present my brother and cousin insisted on taking me out to the local strip club, Diamonds, where by buddy works who talks about it all the time. So I went and while I was there I had a great time. All the girls were real nice, they were clean and the customers treated them pretty nice from what I could see. I had an issue, however, when my cousin bought me a lap dance from this girl who was talking to us for about 10 minutes. She was really nice, not much older than me, and had been working there for 2 weeks. Anyways, after talking to her I felt bad when my cousin paid for her to dance. I respect women and I experienced mixed feelings when I was getting the dance. One part of me was telling me that everything was cool... she was getting paid for her profession and everything was going as she would like. On the other hand, I felt bad because of all the stories I hear from my bouncer buddy who works there about how the girls there drink and do drugs to get rid of their problems while they work. Basically what I am asking you ladies out there is this: should I feel bad? Is it possible to respect a woman while paying her to dance? I'm sure that there are many girls out there who love what they do and do it because they want to, but I still worry about the girls who have no other choice and whatnot. Please try not to bash on me, I have read the other forums and feel that this is a bit different. I realize that this is the dancer's choice and for the most part they enjoy themselves, but its a respect issue. Thanks in advance for your responses.



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