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    hi everyone, i had a guy a couple nights ago come in and ask if i gave private shows, i said i never had but was concidering it. well he emails me all of his info and he just wants a private show for himself??? ive never heard of this and i think it sounds like an easy way to be solicited..has anyone ever done this, would they recomend it?
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    I breifly....and by that I mean I only worked there one night...worked at a company that did parties and private shows. My 1st show was private....just me and the guy at his house...and the driver had to sit outside because it was his moms house (this guys like 38...lol) So that sketched me out to begin with because when I was hired the fact that you always have security was really stressed. It was really akward for me. Granted it was my 1st time doing that kinda thing I just felt weird. He did try to solicit me, telling me all the other girls usually gave him a hand job or a blow job and would ask to touch me and "couldnt i just touch his cock a little". So basically I just masturbated while he did...but I never went back it was just too much for me. The one on one shit just creeped me out...and you wanna know what...the guy was a real creep because after I quit he found me on my myspace (which is under my real name not my stage name and this guy had no clue where I lived) and after I told him I quit and I had a bf so I really wasnt interested in talking to him...this girl "amber" wants to be my friend on myspace saying she had heard I worked at this place and wanted to hire me. I politley declined and shortly after her profile was "taylor" and it was all nude pictures of me. Turned out to be the guy...he must have had a hidden camera or something...I dunno...but def. freaked me the fuck out.

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    omg!
    that is crazy
    i am so sorry that happened to you

    katie... i would def not do it after reading taylor's story

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    yeah i had to send myspace a million messages so they'd cancel the profile...and set it to private because I was so scared this guy went and added all my friends...like my big bro and my future sister in law lol

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    Wow Taylor that is really creepy and eeesh, I got chills. Sorry that happened to you.
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    i did parties like that out here in vegas, i'd go to guys hotels and give them the whole "prostitution's illegal in vegas" speech and they'd still try shit. on top of that the agency i was working through took 30% of whatever i made, talk about a rip off. i quit, i'm sticking to the clubs. the final straw was when i did a party and this guy came all over the hotel room floor. and he was a local the visiting. and he only paid me $80. the agency fee was $200, he tipped me $80, 30% of $80 is $24, I walked away with a grand total of $56 for my hour of work. not worth it.

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    I refuse to do private parties for fewer than three people as it starts to get into the realm of escorting in my mind. I have my boundaries and there must be, at least, three people present plus my security WITHIN THE SAME ROOM AS ME for me to be booked to do a show (or even commence the show once I have arrived).

    The only way someone will be able to have me one-on-one is within the club I am working at the time. If that isn't that client's "cup of tea" then so be it.

    I'm not comfortable with seeing anyone other than a person I am actually involved with masturbating in front of me.

    At the same time, it is totally up to you what you define as your boundaries. Some girls are perfectly okay and can handle one-on-one private party shows. I do not judge them and am thankful that they do exist as I can then recommend them to these guys who are seeking OTC (outside the club) one-on-one shows.


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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    I'm not comfortable with seeing anyone other than a person I am actually involved with masturbating in front of me.

    he masturbated while i was getting dressed to leave. the agency i worked for would call every 5 or 10 minutes and check in to see if i was ok. he complained and i told him that that was my security. and he said well i'm not a psycho and i said i know, but for their piece of mind this is how it is. he also tried to get my number and wanted to date me. i'm used to guys hitting on my but the whole getting off was too much, i didn't need to see that. i did parties in chicago, but i refuse to out here.

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    yea the whole thing sounds like its not worth the trouble and im sorry that happened to you your first time taylor thats really scary. i think one on one he'd really try to push my boundries the whole time and that would just be lame. thanks for the input girls.

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    I get asked to do private shows all the time, but I always thought it was just some code for sex, so I say no. I didn't realize they are just most likely masterbation type things. I don't know. I don't think I would, unless it was $500+ and I had someone calling every 10 minutes like alisha had, or someone being security right outside the door or something.
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    I've done a few but only for customers who truly, really, sincerely understood the concept of a private dance versus escorting. It's generally more trouble than it's worth, and honestly they can get laid for less than what we would get for an hour's VIP in most clubs, so it's just not a realistic scenario.

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    Hi everyone. I'm new and just figuring everything ok, so don't kill me if I do something wrong!
    anyway, I just recently started doing private shows, but I haven't done anything with just 1 guy. but after reading taylor's post I'm definitely not gonna.
    I have been seeing alot of ads for "topless housecleaners" on craigslist and was considering doing that. but it's probably the same deal

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    Hi Katie,

    I hope you don't mind getting the male perspective on this--I'm really concerned with a man trying to put you in a 1 on 1 situation. I think the odds are heavy that his intentions are not good, and you don't need that danger, regardless of what the reward might be. Please take care of yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jhuka View Post
    Hi Katie,

    I hope you don't mind getting the male perspective on this--I'm really concerned with a man trying to put you in a 1 on 1 situation. I think the odds are heavy that his intentions are not good, and you don't need that danger, regardless of what the reward might be. Please take care of yourself.
    yup what this man said. ^^

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    It's called Escorting, and plenty of women are making a great living doing it, since the pay far exceeds what you will make as a dancer. But If you are not a prostitute, then I would suggest you stay away from private shows. They guy basically wants to fuck you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by holiday View Post
    I get asked to do private shows all the time, but I always thought it was just some code for sex, so I say no. I didn't realize they are just most likely masterbation type things. I don't know. I don't think I would, unless it was $500+ and I had someone calling every 10 minutes like alisha had, or someone being security right outside the door or something.

    ask a bouncer or close (large)male friend to tag along. i drive/bounce for 1 on 1 parties. the only rule i have is do what the dancer says(all the girls have different rules) if he choses to not follow the rules i have tools and training to make him regret it. i've only had to separate one customer from a dancer, and he spent a day and a half in the hospital. just make sure you cover yourself if you go 1 on 1.

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    yea i decided not to do it. i think im gonna stay away from private parties all together.

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    I'm relieved to hear this, Katie. I was wondering how you're doing.
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    Anytime you do a private 1 on 1 show, you or your agency should ensure that the client knows that you are there for only entertainment! You should under no circumstances ever enter w/o security! If you're working for an agency that doesn't provide security you need to find your own! You should be making at least $200 walking in, if you do anything more than a strip tease (in other words masterbation or toy show) you should charge $100-$300 for the client to watch). That's in addition to your walk in fee. Make sure to tip your security appropriately. Again NEVER go w/o security! If possible, sign w/an agency that requires credit card deposit. This helps ensure that the person booking is using their full and real name, they provide their address to the agency...who if they are legit will have security do an id check prior to having you start your performance. Good luck w/future endeavors

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    I did my first one on one show a few nights ago. I just had a good instinct about the guy. I took a big male friend with me, and he held my money and sat in the other room while I danced for my client. I told him upfront what my rules were before I collected the money to make sure he still wanted to hire me.

    Well, I was prepared for him to masturbate in front of me, but he was sooooo respectful, basically just watched me, and occasionally touched my leg really lightly. It was like doing a VIP room - my rules, and everything. And, I didn't have to pay out to anyone because I arranged the show myself.

    I've always been scared to do one-on-ones because I also thought it was code for sex so I was really surprised by this experience. I would definitely do it again, although probably more as a supplement to dancing ITC than a replacement.

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