The thread of this message was Less than desirable customers. This is an accurate description of the man. Sorry it offended so many of you. If I fudged on any part of the description it would not have given you an accurate view and the input I was searching for would have been skewed.
I like and respect him very much...that is to say I respect the man when he has periods of sobriety. When he drinks he is a mess and does not use very good judgement. None of this description is meant to be a put down of the man. He cannot help his looks and poor personal grooming go hand in hand with alcoholism.
I wanted to know if the strippers would actually be/pretend to be friends within the club setting and do looks and grooming influence how much time is spent with them. I believe he is being played for a fool and in the process is playing the love of his life as a fool too. That is simply my belief. It appears that if a man has enough money to drop for dances then the ladies will swallow their distaste and give him quality dances. And if the dancers are disgusted by his looks /grooming / breath would that not be even more degrading if he found that out?
I wonder if the responses would have been any different if I had been his wife or girlfriend? I never meant to give the impression that I was a male. I am a female friend and no, I'm certainly not jealous. We have been friends and confidantes for many years. I like and respect his girlfriend.
Whether you realize it or not, my questions have been answered. True friends would not be encouraging alcoholics to spend their time in bars so they could tap into his wallet. Therefore the friendship that he believes he has with the girls is a fantasy. It's just business to you but to many of your customers this "hobby" might well cost them their lives. Not your fault of course, it's "just business" right?



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