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    I need some new ideas for things to do during LDs. I'm getting bored with my LD routine, it's getting to feel stale, and when I sell more than 2-3 dances, I run out of moves. (yep, I've done searches and found a few similar threads, but most of them were old, and the stuff mentioned in them was stuff that I'm already doing.)

    So...tips and ideas, please? What are some of your favourite LD moves, things to do during dances that go over really well for you? (Any contact level will do; even in clubs where hard grinding is the norm, throwing in a few air-dance moves can go over really well IMHO.)

    Personally right now, no matter what I'm doing, I'm trying to focus on making myself SLOW IT DOWN! Like I'll be in one position and I'll think "ok, time to move" but will make myself stay and stretch out the time for longer than I think is necessary or desireable. B/c I notice when I do this, I get a lot more repeat dances and guys seems to enjoy it more. So maybe what I think is "too long" or "too slow" is actually better/more enjoyable for the custy. So I play a game with myself seeing how long I can drag out the time in one position before (sloooooowly) moving to something else.

    Also, any ideas for moves that make it seem like the custy is getting more contact, or create the illusion of a more risque dance without actually getting raunchy?

    I've noticed that hinting at things can be just as effective, if not even more effective, than actually doing something full-on. i.e. breathing in a custy's ear (bonus points for lightly massaging the back of his neck while doing this) gives the dance a closer feel and usually gets a great reaction, without the nastiness of kissing or biting there (which a lot of girls do, but personally...I don't want my tongue on a custy anymore than I want his on me.) Or if I'm standing on the couch facing the custy, I'll let part of my lower thigh brush against his cheek instead of sticking my pussy in his face. Or when I want to get away from the grinding but keep the feeling of contact, I like to sit on his lap facing away...and then slide down slowly so i'm kind of lying on top of him, and run my hands over my upper body. So I'm not grinding his dick, and the contact factor is still there (and I'm told by many custies that it's a hot view in this position.) Another good one is if he's wearing a button-down or polo shirt, undo the highest button and run your fingertips around his collarbone area...it's a neutral area, but has an intimate/sensual feel.

    Same sigh of satisfaction from the custy, and less raunch on my part. Anyone have any other ideas along these lines?
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    ^^^ In order to give you an accurate evaluation, you'll have to give me a lap dance. Or ten. Consultation will be free of charge.

    Great thread potential here - I've been boring myself lately too! I think one thing to keep in mind, definitely, is your point about slowing it down. I think we tend to act as though he's SEEN it a million times just because we've DONE it a million times. I think moves that we used to take more time with when they were new get speeded up over time. They get more physically comfortable AND they start to feel "old" to us, even if this is a brand-new customer.

    So, maybe, try dancing as though it's the first time doing each move? Slow down and savor it, remember that it's all new to HIM?

    That said, I still want some fresh maneuvers.
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    hmm...I need some new moves to.

    One thing I do to tease is I start all the way at the top, with my tits like, on top their head almost, and slide my whole body down slowly, till I'm kneeling on the floor. I give them to deep, sultry look as I unbutton the top button of their shirt, and run my hands down their chest ,down their stomache, and then over the top of their legs. Then I flip my head upside down, and brush my hair over their chest and down between their legs My face never makes contact with their crotch, but that's what they are thinking, and its a hell of a tease. I flip my hair back and just give them the look, while my head is close to their crotch, then slowly slide back up.

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    ^^^ I like to do what Kaylinn does, but I throw in a twist. I'll be all sensual and classy and wind up on my knees between his legs with my hand in the thumbs-up position in his lap, and I'll get a wicked little look in my eyes and run my tongue suggestively along my thumb. The position should be such that your thumb is in the place and position that his dick would be in if he was erect and naked, so it's pretty overtly suggestive. I'll give them a sly little grin while I do this to cut down the cheese factor, and they'll often laugh, and then I slide back up and get all sensual again.

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    I start with a face-to-face me laying on him light grind, then slide down a bit and turn sideways but still leaning on him so he can see my cleavage, abs, crotch, then sort of air hump. Goes over great! Excellent view!

    Also, I like to position myself so my hair falls all around his face, so it's like a private little room with us in there, and all his friends may think we're doing naughty things in there but not really. I just eskimo kiss (nose rub)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    ^^^ I like to do what Kaylinn does, but I throw in a twist. I'll be all sensual and classy and wind up on my knees between his legs with my hand in the thumbs-up position in his lap, and I'll get a wicked little look in my eyes and run my tongue suggestively along my thumb. The position should be such that your thumb is in the place and position that his dick would be in if he was erect and naked, so it's pretty overtly suggestive. I'll give them a sly little grin while I do this to cut down the cheese factor, and they'll often laugh, and then I slide back up and get all sensual again.
    this sounds really hot, but in my dirty club I would not touch my toungue to anything besides a straw!

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    Yek...I'm gonna thow that in..I like it.


    I bite my nails anyway, I can never keep my hands outta my mouth. Nasty, yes...but....Im tryign to stop!!

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    From a customer perspective, my favourite moves involve leaning back on me, whether it be a full body slide or otherwise.

    And since it involves me being squashed between the lovely lady and the chair, I came up with a nutty nickname for it: an Eamon Sandwich™.

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    Honestly, purchase a lap dance or two at another club yourself! Be the customer so you can get some perspective on the whole situation. It is what has helped me in the past. Why? Easy! We are so busy being the performer and seeing the performance (as all lap dances are performances just more intimate) ... seeing it from one perspective all the time.. that we loose overall perspective! (I hope I'm making sense )

    All I know is that incorporating some belly dance moves, some burlesque moves, some latin american style dancing moves (as well as a prop such as a feather boa or veil if you can get away with it) in really long dances has helped keep the customer interested... and also gives me alot of moves to do and repeat. Do not be afraid of repeatition it can be your friend.

    Oh, please feel free to ask the customer what he seems to like! If the guy has purchased more than a few dances and looks like he will purchase more (or has purchased a 'block' of your time) .... ask him what he seems to like! Get feedback as then you will KNOW what he likes.

    I gotta be honest. I love being ordered around in a lap dance (in a verbal "gentlemanly" way) as then I can do and keep doing what the customer likes. So please allow yourself to be open to such 'requests' (of course if it is done only in a verbal pleasant manner).


    Lastly, as I say to everyone who asks for tips in re dancing, exotic dancing involves alot of modelling type of moves in the lap dances. If you can pose and know which poses work in your favour, you will be surprised at how well you will do. This is why I tell alot of girls that pole tricks and actual dancing is not really required to be "good"... all the really good girls know how to pose/model and basically incorporate this into their dancing (be it on stage and/or laps).


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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    hmm...I need some new moves to.

    One thing I do to tease is I start all the way at the top, with my tits like, on top their head almost, and slide my whole body down slowly, till I'm kneeling on the floor. I give them to deep, sultry look as I unbutton the top button of their shirt, and run my hands down their chest ,down their stomache, and then over the top of their legs. Then I flip my head upside down, and brush my hair over their chest and down between their legs My face never makes contact with their crotch, but that's what they are thinking, and its a hell of a tease. I flip my hair back and just give them the look, while my head is close to their crotch, then slowly slide back up.
    I do something very similar to this, but when I get down betwen their legs, I am running my hands in between their thighs, lightly squeezing them. Men LOVE this...Then I run my hands up their chest, and put them behind their neck. I lean in close, giving my seductive look, slowly licking my lips.







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    ^^ I do the hands-along-the-inner-thigh too, adding a little bit of fingernail into it . Plus with this move you can get juuuuuust high enough on the inner thigh to be suggestive & get that kind of heightened sensitivity going, without even getting into actual crotch area.

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    ^^thank ya darlin'

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    Oh yeah, another one I like... I'll sit on his lap facing away from him and do a really curvy grind in little circles, then lean back so my back is against his chest and my face is up by his ear. This gives him a really nice up-close-and-personal view down my cleavage, and I can give a little moan by his ear while making my tits jiggle in his face. (You just sort of push on the floor a little bit with your foot and your tits will bounce and jiggle accordingly, while the rest of your body barely moves at all). They really like this one.

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    These are all cute moves, but I dance in an air dance club!!! I'm getting bored too, but it's hard to do stuff with zero contact...not that I'm complaining about that, but it'd be nice to shake up my routine a bit.
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    Let me add this for the benefit of other customers: asking a dancer why she didn't do a certain move to you during a lap dance is a terrible idea.

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    I do what Kaylinn said, then what CK said, then (while still kneeling) breath on their neck, play with their hair, let my nose brush their ear (I swear they think it's a tongue), then slide back down, letting my nose tickle through the shirt (again, I swear they think it's tongue/lips), and breath hot and slow.

    Sometimes (more for younger guys), I'll then push their shirt up and grab it in both fists up on their chests. I'll do an evil/dramatic/sexy/cheesy look, and pull on thier shirt while dragging my boobs over them, so that it seems like I'm using their shirt to pull myself up, kind of. It's sexy.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    I do what Kaylinn said, then what CK said, then (while still kneeling) breath on their neck, play with their hair, let my nose brush their ear (I swear they think it's a tongue), then slide back down, letting my nose tickle through the shirt (again, I swear they think it's tongue/lips), and breath hot and slow.
    Girl, I use my nose too! I try not to breathe during this so they really think it's my lips/mouth







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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    All I know is that incorporating some belly dance moves, some burlesque moves, some latin american style dancing moves in really long dances has helped keep the customer interested...
    In a lapdance? I fail to see how this would work.



    When I am in the friction room, I'll see small girls (like in the 5' to 5'3" range, 100-115 lbs.) doing flips and stuff by bracing their arms on the guys' legs. I wish I could do it too, it looks impressive, but I am way to nervous to try it out.
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    One move I havn't heard mentioned yet that I do is after sliding down reaaaalllly slowly and sort of melting onto the floor I put my fingers high up on the tops of their thighs and using my nails I slowly run my fingers down, and over to the side seems on the insides of the thigh and then back out over the knee and around the calf and if they are wearing sandals then just really lightly on top of the foot.

    And ex of mine used to do that to me while pretending to eat me out through my jeans (by ex I mean early highschool heavy petting) and it always drove me nuts, so I stole it from him.

    Oh, and then of course, after I do that move, I sit up on my knees while I'm still down on the floor, I'll lift my hair up and slooowly run my own hand down and over my own neck and using my nails on myself right down in between my boobs to my lower stomach and at that point I pull the sides of my t-back like I'm going to pull it down but not really, and at that point I'll slowly start to stand up again.
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    I think a lot of gals "run out of moves" during dances, because they don't seem to understand, its not really about moves at all, and seem to take a "one size fits all" approach to how they do dances. The grease which can extend a 2-3 song session of dances into a really long one really has nothing to do with the physical dancing. It has to do with how well you're fulfilling that inner fantasy inside his head (and yes, I mean the big head mounted on his shoulders). I know many like to dismiss lap dancing as glorified dry humping, but to people who really enjoy them to where they'd buy a long session of them, there's often a lot of psychological aspects involved.

    A really good dancer will read her customer and see what is working and what isn't, and will begin to put greater emphasis on those elements that are working with each passing song. This is how you get the intermittent reinforcement principle going in his head. I keep doing whatever it is you like as long as you keep paying.

    Granted, you're often limited by your local laws, club rules, or sometimes by the furniture you're doing the dances on. So do the best with it you can. And don't be afraid to ask your customer for input. You can even do this while you're hustling him so you have an idea of where to start.
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    One thing I saw some chick do was like... backwards straddle the guy (no grind), then place her hands on the floor, toss her hair back and move her butt around. It looked kind of hot, esp. for the ass guys, and they could probably visualize some nice doggystyle.

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    Since a few of you girls mentioned this move and its something that I tend to do also, I wanted to ask a question about it. The whole "body slide" move where you slide down their body (facing forwards or back), don't you just feel like you're putting your entire weight on the customer and it might be somewhat uncomfortable? Even though we are prob much smaller/lighter than the avg man out there? This thought just always goes thru my head
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSexKitten View Post
    One thing I saw some chick do was like... backwards straddle the guy (no grind), then place her hands on the floor, toss her hair back and move her butt around. It looked kind of hot, esp. for the ass guys, and they could probably visualize some nice doggystyle.
    I do that sometimes, but I rest my hands on the tops of their knees and do it...then I set up, and lean back on them..







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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    I do that sometimes, but I rest my hands on the tops of their knees and do it...then I set up, and lean back on them..
    HOT!!!

    I'm stealing this one, k?

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    Quote Originally Posted by aztx View Post
    Since a few of you girls mentioned this move and its something that I tend to do also, I wanted to ask a question about it. The whole "body slide" move where you slide down their body (facing forwards or back), don't you just feel like you're putting your entire weight on the customer and it might be somewhat uncomfortable? Even though we are prob much smaller/lighter than the avg man out there? This thought just always goes thru my head
    You wouldn't have to worry about that with me, since I'm a fairly big guy and I'd love being squashed!

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