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    Managers in Texas EXPECT to be tipped out. It's bullshit!!!
    That's because they aren't really managers, they are just called that. They wear suits and walk around in lieu of bouncer-looking goons. But they aren't really managers and expect tips.

    Oh, and I have worked at a few Tx clubs where management isn't to be tipped out. It has changed over the years....

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    Default Re: Apprently I don't th row my hard earned money at the HOuse MOm

    psh, 5 is enough...at the club im at right now we dont even have a housemom..i was happy at first but now we have to pay the bartenders a min. of 15 a night and there is 2 of them

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    I've never used any of housemom's stuff... I barely talk to her except once I bought a thong and a garter from her because I forgot mine. She's a really sweet lady and a lot of the girls talk to her and hang around with her in the dressing room but that's just not my thing.... I'm really sweet and polite to her, say thank you when she tells me what I owe her and pay her without grimacing.. and I think she's fine with the minimum. Especially since there's usually like 15-30 girls most nights... 5 dollars from everyone is pretty good pay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Wait, you tip out your managers?
    Not at the same club. But when theres no house mom usually you tip the mgmt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss marina View Post
    psh, 5 is enough...at the club im at right now we dont even have a housemom..i was happy at first but now we have to pay the bartenders a min. of 15 a night and there is 2 of them
    Now THAT's fucked up! 15 buck$ a piece!!?? Don't the waitresses put enough money in their pockets? See, I was a bartender before, and they already make good money plus an hourly wage. When I was at Rick's Cabaret they were making $5 an hour including their tips, plus their tip-outs from all of the waitresses. That's complete BS!!! It's funny how shit is so varied in every club in every part of the country.



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    Oh, i know, they are getting paid by the hour, getting tips from guys, and getting money from us everynight. shit, they make out better then alot of the dancers.

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    Default Re: Apprently I don't th row my hard earned money at the HOuse MOm

    It seems like everyone has their hands out looking to get a piece of dancer's money. Honestly, I don't see the point of a house mom. I mean... what's so hard about bringing your own baby wipes, snacks, etc. I do every night. I mean, I guess it might be convienient but I would rather be a big girl and bring my own supplies than pay for someone to do it.

    Come to think of it, I'm sorta house mommish at my club cause I'm always passing out the baby wipes and powder and body spray to bitches who can't remember to bring their own. Damn. Do I need to get tipped out now?

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    I know at my club, house mom serves as a sort of drama-barometer. She quells shit before it gets started, which makes for a much more tolerable work environment. She is also sort of a demi-manager. She has her finger ont he pulse of the back-of-house, so she can take care of things before they escalate to management. For instance, if a girl is being a slutbag, the mom will have a friendly, disarming chat with her and she'll probably get her shit together. If a girl is into the pill bottle all night, she will notice that LONG before mgt and be able to nip it in the bud.

    I love having one--a good one who does her job well, that is. I had Kylie's housemom and she's not worth a pile of poop. I mean, literally. I think poop has more usefulness than that bitch. And is more pleasant.

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    Default Re: Apprently I don't th row my hard earned money at the HOuse MOm

    ^^I'll second that.

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    Who gives a shit if the housemom doesn't like you? At most clubs they have no pull and do nothing to deserve more than about $5/night, if that. It's just another example of pimp mentality - these bitches get it in their heads that they somehow deserve more of our money just because we are "lowly" strippers and they are somehow doing us a favor by working with us. Fuck the housemom. She's lucky to get $5 for sitting on her ass all night.

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    ^^I second that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Who gives a shit if the housemom doesn't like you? At most clubs they have no pull and do nothing to deserve more than about $5/night, if that. It's just another example of pimp mentality - these bitches get it in their heads that they somehow deserve more of our money just because we are "lowly" strippers and they are somehow doing us a favor by working with us. Fuck the housemom. She's lucky to get $5 for sitting on her ass all night.
    i don't really care if she likes me..... i just think its so juvenille though... the fact i don't give her more money.. i am nothing but sweet, polite, and friendly to her.... it just boggles my mind.... i guess it all boils down to money...

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    I'm not trying to be devil's advocate here, but you have to keep in mind that house mom's buy all their own stuff, and they don't get an hourly. So if you're using, you know, three dollars worth of stuff a night, 5 or 8 dollars isn't much of a tip. Plus, they very often have to pay a house fee like we do. Shocking, but true, at least at SR. The make up artists pay one too. I hope nobody takes what I'm saying to be bitchy, just my opinion.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    I know at my club, house mom serves as a sort of drama-barometer. She quells shit before it gets started, which makes for a much more tolerable work environment. She is also sort of a demi-manager. She has her finger ont he pulse of the back-of-house, so she can take care of things before they escalate to management. For instance, if a girl is being a slutbag, the mom will have a friendly, disarming chat with her and she'll probably get her shit together. If a girl is into the pill bottle all night, she will notice that LONG before mgt and be able to nip it in the bud.
    Yeah, she is totally a referee and a babysitter, among other things. She has the rare talent of being able to be very diplomatic with both the dancers and management. I would much rather have her handle certain things than have it escalate. We have very little dressing room drama, and I credit her for that.

    She also talks to new girls to make sure they are wearing regulation t-bottoms and shoes. And I think she briefs them on the rules. Another thing I like about her is that she isn't afraid to cut girls down to size, even if they have worked there for years. She was very straight up with a certain someone a few weeks ago for cutting throat on the floor, and it probably saved 'ol girl from getting her ass beat. She seems to be able to satisfy everyone when problems arise, not many people can do that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    I'm not trying to be devil's advocate here, but you have to keep in mind that house mom's buy all their own stuff, and they don't get an hourly. So if you're using, you know, three dollars worth of stuff a night, 5 or 8 dollars isn't much of a tip. Plus, they very often have to pay a house fee like we do. Shocking, but true, at least at SR. The make up artists pay one too. I hope nobody takes what I'm saying to be bitchy, just my opinion.
    I totally agree that if you use the stuff, you should tip extra.

    Other than using stuff, I don't tip extra for our housemom. But then again, she forgets to check bottoms. Most of the time a girl has to point it out. She doesn't go over any rules, and definately doesn't calm down the drama. In fact, our main HM does just the opposite. She literally talks about dancers to other girls and gets in the middle of it. But when the drama escalates and girls wanna start fighting, she calls up management and steps back out of it like she doesn't know what's going on. She was buying coke from a girl that used to work there, which explains alot of her SEVERE mood swings. She literally threw the phone across the room one night when the DJ came up to tell her she needed to do her job and keep the board so we'd know when we were up.

    That being said.... the good housemom we have I have no problem tipping extra. She used to be a dancer, and normally bartends but is pregnant right now. She cleans more than the other mom and she's 7 months pregnant, but she also has no problem telling girls how it is, and calming situations down. I think it all boils down to how much you use their stuff and if they do little extra things for you, like watch your stuff while you do something.

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    I wish you could just tell people, "It's not because I'm cheap. It's because you suck." without them getting all pissy about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    I'm not trying to be devil's advocate here, but you have to keep in mind that house mom's buy all their own stuff, and they don't get an hourly. So if you're using, you know, three dollars worth of stuff a night, 5 or 8 dollars isn't much of a tip. Plus, they very often have to pay a house fee like we do. Shocking, but true, at least at SR. The make up artists pay one too. I hope nobody takes what I'm saying to be bitchy, just my opinion.
    Oh I agree...if you use their stuff or services then you should tip accordingly.
    If however their presence makes no differance to you because you dont use their stuff or services then you shouldnt have to tip them

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    Oh, yeah absolutely I agree Cameron and Kylie. If the lady is just a bitch and you don't use her shit, there is no reason to tip her more than minimum.

    I always feel bad for the house mom. We have 2 house moms in the DR, and 2 who work in the bathroom (like bathroom attendents but they do house mommy shit too) and they're all really sweet ladies.

    A lot of girls I work with drink and eat all her food, and then tip her like 5 dollars, which pisses me off because she probably spent more money than that on the food! Plus, I work in Vegas, it ain't like working for minimum wage here. I don't think the girls are trying to be malicous, I think they just don't realize how much she spends on things.

    Now, if my house mom was a bitch and I didn't use her shit, I wouldn't feel bad for her. Just like you shouldn't feel bad for not over tipping yours lol.
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    Obviously if you use their stuff or they do something for you, then an extra tip is warranted. But if you don't use their stuff (or even if all you use is 1 or 2 baby wipes) and all they do is sit around in the DR (which is most of them) then $5 is plenty. A couple baby wipes cost a few pennies, and considering the number of girls tipping them $5+ -- they are still making out quite well even if they do have to pay a housefee. In bigger clubs, they easily have 100 girls paying $5 or more each - that's at least $500 and you know damn well they don't spend nearly that much on supplies and food per night. They make out like bandits, even if a few girls pay crap. Those chics are making more than most dancers. I don't feel sorry for a housemom ever.

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    Here's my main thing. You know how much you are getting paid when you take a job, or atleast the set amount you will make. If you work for tips, it's different but you can still guesstimate. If you don't like the salary being offered, don't take the job. Simple. If you don't make what you want doing what you do, find a new job or career. Or just think about the rewards you get instead by doing the job you do. Cash. Short hours. Not much work. Etc. They know what they'll be making and if they don't like it, do something else.

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    The housemom at my club just seems to love drama, and since she's all in everyone's biz and a gossip queen, she actually makes it more stressful, not less.

    and I give her 5$ for that!?!

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    What if you never use any of there stuff? Are you still required a minimum tip? The House Mom's and attendants are nice and everything, but what if you don't ever use or need them?

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    Our HM is the daughter of a manager and sister of a dancer, so trust me she is talking sh** about everyone when we're not around. Her sister is a heinous bitch, so the gossip that goes on between those two is probably beyond what I can imagine.

    There are girls in my club who make 100 dollars in a night and still give the HM 15. I don't understand that. It's not my job to support her. If she's not making enough money as HM, she should stop complaining and find a new job. 2 nights a week we don't even have a HM, so clearly her job is not necessary anyway. She does get paid an hourly, and does not have to pay a house fee.

    If I were you, I would continue to give your HM the minimum. They complain because it works. They guilt girls into giving them more money. Don't fall for her guilt tripping.

    I agree with tipping more for doing a good job or providing services, but don't throw your money away. I tip the bartender more than the HM sometimes, cause they are doing me favors and recommending me to customers. Tip where it benefits you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carolina6 View Post
    Our HM is the daughter of a manager and sister of a dancer, so trust me she is talking sh** about everyone when we're not around. Her sister is a heinous bitch, so the gossip that goes on between those two is probably beyond what I can imagine.
    That has got to be a fucked up family situation. Dad manages his two daughters in a strip club? Maybe it's just me, but that is weeeeeird.
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    My housemoms are useless too. I've had good ones, so its not just housemoms in general that I dislike. Out minimum tip isn't exactly mandatory, but expected. As in, if you don't tip you'd better be prepared for drama. The managers will back you up, but you still have to deal with the fallout. Momma always told me not to "mess my nest" so I tip.

    Mind you, the club buys the supplies, they just have to shop for them. So we're paying them to....watch movies, talk on the phone and collect our fees. The have a few other functions I guess, but nothing that warrents ME tipping them. I'd be happy to do so if they were a bit more helpful, or brought us treats. I'm not a fan of giving tips to people I haven't seen or spoken to all night.

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