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    Angry Im running a free hotel.

    And valet service.

    My sister/roomate kicked her worthless boyfriend out and he took both of their cars and gave one to his sister. This happened 2 weeks ago and I told her I'd help her out if she was short on money or needed a ride to work or a babysitter.

    Well, fucktard ex spent the night two nights last week and has been here ALL FUCKING WEEKEND. I just asked her if he was taking her to work tomorrow and she said "no, you are, right?"

    This idiot is sleeping here, eatting my food and using my utilities, messing up my house and not evening taking her to work or helping w her part of the bills. I feel soo used and I'm pissed. How do I handle this?


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    Well I might not put this the most tactful way myself, but if I feel like people are taking advantage of me, I won't sugar coat things. I'd tell them to get the fuck out -both of them - and tell them that they need to fix their own problems. They obviously don't care that you are put out and being used so why would you be nice to them?

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    tell her that you respect her personal choices (in so many words) but that if she wants to have her boyfriend (ex.. whatever) stay so often that he using utilities and etc. then he is going to have to start paying for his part and cleaning up after himself. i would just try my best to say things kindly at first. if that doesn't work, you can amp the "seriousness" in a week or so. if she continues to let him free load off of you, tell her she needs to get her own place, where she can let him stay for free as much as she wants.


    but at first, like i said, try to "get flys with honey". i would just explain to her that you have your -own- life, and while you don't mind helping her occasionaly, you need her to take of herself as well. if you bring it up in a non threatening, but firm way, you might avoid yourself the drama of a full out "battle". if it comes to that eventually, at least you tried to be civil first.

    is she a younger sister? if so, she could just be young and self centered in that "absent minded" kind of way. in that case, maybe she doesn't realize how much it is bothering you. plus, she took back a loser boyfriend, so that says something about her self esteem and emotional state. maybe you should have a talk with her about wether or not she's afraid to ask him to help out, and if so, why is she? there may be deeper rooted problems in the situation. she could be afaid to "be alone", attracted to chaotic relationships, or some other such issue.

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    How did you let this asshole into your house in the first place if he fucked your sister over like that????

    When I'm ready to kick people out, I say, "Hey, I need to kick you out now. I'm ready to go to bed". In your case, you may want to change that to "reclaim my house. I like my privacy".

    PS: Sounds like your sister is being used (and using you), too. Oh, and let's not forget using YOU. How is he YOUR responsibility?
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    I don't know. I'd feel used and pissed too!!!!!!

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    BTW Sky, you are very pretty. (Like you give a sh*% right now, though!!!)

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    Only you can allow yourself to be taken advantage of.

    You gotta tell her what the deal is and then stick to it.

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    Tell your sister if she insists on being with this loser, then they can go be together living wherever they were before. You allowed her to stay with you temporarily while SHE had broken up with HIM. If they're back together, or at least are acting like that, toss them out. Sis has to learn the hard way it seems...

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    Nobody can take advantage of you without your permission.

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    Gotta agree. You only had her there to help her out while she broke up with him.

    The fact that you even let him in in the first place is a little surprising to me.

    If they are back together, get them out of there. If not, get him the fuck out of there.
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    I know, I need to grow a fucking backbone. We were all renting a house togather, but he isnt on the lease. He's her daughter's father, so it's understandably hard on her but I'm seeing it'll be up to me to stop this. I just don't want to piss her off or let her move in where he's been staying and get back into a bad situation.


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    I've had hangers-on stay before. I start asking how their job search or whatever is going, because this can't continue. Inevitably, a couple days later, the talk becomes, "This is disruptive to our lives, and I can't afford it. You need to be out of here in __ days." And I remind them as d-day approaches.

    And my house has scars from every deadbeat that's camped longer than they should. These people always seem to be destructive to some extent.

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    Might I suggest that you give the sister a note titled "his part of the bills" containg an itemization of his part of the bills, including transportation costs from having taken the vehicles. You don't have to go so far as putting the due date at "the next time he walks through the door even if he's not staying", but it would help.
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    You CANNOT feel responsible for her circumstances or the choices she makes in life. I know you care because she's your sister, but she's going to do what she feels is necessary at certain points in her life - it's part of growing up and change, which she must experience to move ahead in life. You can't save her from this asshole. It's something she will have to buck up and take care of on her own.

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    so, yea. i told her that i was feeling used and he needed to help...'but he isnt living here', yet he's in her room right now. i told her i would help her out but not if he's around. she refuses to pay her part of the utilities and told me i was a shitty sister for not helping her MORE becouse i make so much more money then her. she's on the lease, i cant kick her out...so i guess I move out?


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    Quote Originally Posted by maximvsv View Post
    Might I suggest that you give the sister a note titled "his part of the bills" containg an itemization of his part of the bills, including transportation costs from having taken the vehicles. You don't have to go so far as putting the due date at "the next time he walks through the door even if he's not staying", but it would help.

    Did it - it got erased off the dry erase board.


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    That is such BS!! If she won't leave, then yeah, you should go. Not only is she being passive aggressive and using you, but you'll go broke supporting her and her family (boyfriend included!). She put you in a really shitty position and it is NOT fair that you should have to deal with it. You're not the one who decided to have a kid and unless that dude is a parapalegic or something, he's perfectly capable of working. Screw them.

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    Yes, leave. But make sure you can get YOURSELF off the lease first. If you leave, still on the lease, and she doesn't pay the bills, you're screwed, and in a big way. Sorry you have to deal with this shit.
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    I'm sorry, but what a fucking lowlife, mooching, disrespectful, greedy cunt! Both of them!

    SHit, sister or not, she'd be lucky if I ever even acknowledged her existence again after I left.

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    I was gonna ask if I could make a reservation.


    Anyway, just make sure the doors are locked.
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    You have outlined those facts and still don't know what to do? Lemme get this straight, free food, no workie, place to hang out, and a place to sleep. All one must do is show up. Right?

    What you need to do is obvious to me. Equally obvious is that you have a good head on your shoulders. The answer is "you know what to do, so do it."

    Of course you want your sis to be happy and to protect her and help her grow in wisdom and grace. Good luck. I'll toast the next glass of wine to your success.

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    So...wrote a note telling her she's out since she wont listen when I try to sit down and talk to her. She called mom, pissed off, but mom talked some sence into her (we'll see) and made her look at things from my point of view. She's promised not to let him back into the house and to start helping out more.

    Meanwhile, loser ex myspaced me basically telling me all the things I do for her are a figment of my imagination, and he's really the one helping her. Um, delusinal? and "i really hope you die in a fire. Have a horrible life hooker."

    Yep - so mature. You see why I don't want her back w him?

    I'm giving her one more chance at this...I hope it doesn't bite me in the ass agian.


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