I'm pretty new to the whole SC scene and pretty much just a lurker here, but I wanted to get some advice on something that happened to me the other night.
The dancer sat down at my table, I bought her a drink. We chatted some and I asked for a private dance. Two songs and then I went back out. Later she came by again. We chatted some and she mentioned her boyfriend. Later we went back into the PDR. Things got pretty heavy and we ended up making out. She was pretty drunk. She gave me her contact information later.
So far, you're thinking, yeah this is just an aggressive hustle. Here's the thing. I think she went a little bit further than she meant to. I like this dancer and I don't want her to think, "Oh God. Now this guy is going to ask me out on dates all the time." She's a sweetheart and I'd be happy to be her regular, but I don't want to play any games.
What's the best way to let her know that I'm just interested in being a customer and not in head games?



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. However, it's a large SC with a nucleus of staff and local regulars--picture "Cheers" with tits--who become fairly protective of these merry maidens when they get "on one." Because there are no truly "private" areas in the club (there's a large, open area that I fondly refer to as the "Lap Corral"), it's not easy for even the drunkest dancers to massage a customer's tonsils with their tongues. Then again, a truly great hustle should, by definition, be mistaken for "a mistake"...

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