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    So work was really terrible yesterday. I had a couple regulars stop by but other than that, there were just douchebag's in there. There were never more than five guys (and three girls) at a time. Without getting into the details of these guys (all the typical losers: drunk guys, non-tipping young guys, guys who grabbed you when you walked by to drag you into a conversation about THEIR day without offering you a tip or a drink, etc.), they weren't buying dances. Still, the other two girls were hanging out and drinking and talking with these customers anyways. I let two different guys buy me a drink throughout the day but when I was done drinking it, I said good-bye and left. (I entertained them and talked with them while I was there.) I just saw no reason to use my energy talking with these guys when they weren't buying dances (or even tipping more than a dollar... if that). Should I have? I couldn't understand why the other girls were spending time with these guys when they weren't getting paid for it (and, yea, I'm sure that they weren't getting paid for it). Should I have talked with them anyways for the good of the club or something?
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    no fuck that! I think it's a waste of energy to talk to somebody who you know isn't going to give you an money. I mean, you provide a service and should be paid for it! That would be like saying I could walk into a massage studio and expect a free massage because there were no other paying customers there. I think you did the right thing.
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    either you're lazy or they are stupid. I'd do the same as you, so I hope it's the latter.

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    The good of the club? You were not being lazy. You were just not wasting your energy on douchebags. If things are commonly like this at the club, maybe you should look elsewhere. In the meantime, I'd rather read or study in the dressing room than talk to guys who have no clue.

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    Nope, not lazy at all. Lazy is when there are paying customers in the club who would enjoy your services, not when there are leeches sitting around doing nothing. In times like these I head into the dressing room and curl up with a good book, and come out every 15 minutes or so to check on the situation on the floor.

    Actually, I think it's way better to not waste your energy on these guys -- for me, the worst part of the job is talking to a guy, having him seem interested, giving me compliments, etc, and then when I ask for a dance, suddenly, oh, he's broke. Ugh. It bothers me, and then when paying customers arrive, I'm in a bad mood and can't be bubbly and sociable. Save your energy and bubbliness for when a real customer comes in.

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    Sometimes I feel lazy when I'm sitting with a customer I know and there are other guys in the club whom the other dancers are avoiding. It's like I feel an obligation to entertain everyone. Usually I will break away from the customer I know, chat to someone for half a song, ask to dance, and if they say no I come back. At least I offered, so they can't complain that no girls came over, haha.

    If guys are not paying you have no obligation to even smile at them as you walk past.

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    If all a customer has to offer me is a drink, I won't even talk to them for that. At least you tried.

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    Definitely not lazy!

    It starts a bad precedence, when guys think they can come in and hang out, without spending any money on us and still get our attention.

    Buying me drinks doesn't pay my bills, and usually leads to them trying to date you, ugh!

    What's the incentive to buy dances?

    I would have felt lazy if I had hung out with them!

    You did the right thing.
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    Good of the club? To encourage cheap asses to keep coming in and not spending? It would be better for everyone to weed these guys out.
    If theres nothing else to do and a guy is at LEAST buying me a drink and being entertaining..I"ll chat. But the second I see options..I'll say "ok..gotta go back to work" and be gone.

    Thats not lazy to not want to give your time away for free.

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    Okay, good. That's what I thought! I'd rather NO guys were in there than two who tipped a dollar between the two of them and threw confetti (yes, they seriously did that) everywhere so I wouldn't have to go onstage. At least most were buying drinks but the LAST thing I need is a bunch of drinks in me and no money. I just couldn't understand why the other two girls were chatting with the customers and the DJ was telling me to go talk to them, too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    I just couldn't understand why the other two girls were chatting with the customers and the DJ was telling me to go talk to them, too.
    Prob because they were bored and figured if they werent going to make money at least they'd get trashed!

    And seeing the other girls pay attention to them..the DJ might have assumed they were tipping well or something so he sent you over?

    I'm just guessing...

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    i dont know if no ones tipping i usually try to get some of the custies into a dice game with me at least im entertained and after awhile someone usually goes god no ones tipping you makin good enough money tonight lets get a lapdance your nice, ya know? prolly different in my club though because its so small.
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    CONFETTI?! Are you fucking serious? I would have smashed some shit!


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    ^Haha, yea... THe waitress was like, "You know, I have to clean all that up..." Thinking they'd at least tip her... Nope, didn't happen. Actually, now that it's been a couple of days... the whole experiance was so terrible, it's funny.
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    Confetti is the new stage tip? Better than a carrot or a 'bean'. LOL Confetti does not = money
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    Oh I WISH they threw it on stage! No, they were just hanging in the back of the club with these little cap guns that spewed confetti everywhere. Don't even ask me where the manager or doorman were because I have no idea. Lol, one day, I'm going to actually go to Cheetah's instead of just talking about it.
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    No Bella, you are not lazy. I would have done the same thing you did. If they didn't pay for services, then they shouldn't receive them.

    And shame on those girls. By doing what they did they are teaching those guys that it is OK to sit in a club and talk with the girls for free, and it's not.

    And BTW, Monday must have been "loser day" in SD because we had that same kind of crowd at the HC too.
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    ^I heard the damn fair opened last weekend. Hopefully, it's bad everywhere. Changing clubs is a PITA.
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    Yeup it wont be over until July 4th. Summer has set in for me too - work wise that is.

    We have 2 shifts at the small club and if one does bad the other does well; could be day or night. I just hope the dice is in my favor and I get the good shift. Yesterday there were 2 girls day shift (never more or less) only 1 girl got 1 show. I worked night shift and we did much better.

    Its good not to give away your time for free. Guys don't know that this is the slow time of year. They may think that its a slow day because of the lack of customers and girls. Besides, you weren't rude in any way.

    funny moment...
    Last night some guy didn't tip me anything and wanted a hj . So he got up and left because he didn't get his hj. As he was leaving he was looking at the cameras that see outside because the managers door was open. I literally pushed him out and slammed the door behind him saying "goodnight!"
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